She is too tight, how can we solve this?
Q. me and my gf have tried intercourse 5-6 times. my penis is not circumcized and I am her first sexual partner. I have had sex before, but this girl is just too tight. my penis penetrates just about an inch inside her and my foreskin is pushed back ...
A. 22 December 2009: Stop being a dingus & put a condom on.... it'll both protect you & provide lubrication, which from the sounds of it is the next thing you should be applying!!!... (read in full...)
Should I wait to have sex?
Q. I have been dating the same man for 2 years now. We have been friends for several years before that. I am 19, in college and still a virgin.My question is for those who have had sex and are married, do you think that it would have been more special ...
A. 22 December 2009: Under no circumstances what-so-ever could I recommend you wait for marriage. The first time you have sex will not be the wonderful, perfect fantasy that you've got rattling round in your head. It will be messy, sore, & quite likely rubbish. If ... (read in full...)
He often jokes about me getting pregnant and I'm beginning to wonder...?
Q. About a year ago I met and got involved with a really great guy. He told me right away that he had a vasectomy, but seemd startled when I told him I couldn't get pregnant because I had an IUD. The IUD occasionally caused me some mild discomfort ...
A. 22 December 2009: I must say, he sounds fishier than San Francisco Bay in the middle of a heat-wave..... watch yourself!... (read in full...)
My best friend had revealed he's in love with me, but I don't feel the same!!
Q. Hi All, One of my best friends has revealed he has stronger feelings for me than as friends, but I don't feel the same... Can we stay friends? Please read it all, as there are details that change circumstances in what i've written. Thanks!...
A. 22 December 2009: I think you need to rather careful with this one. Danny is clearly a troubled young man with numerous issues of his own going on that he needs to sort out. The big problem as I see it is that so long as he has you to obsess over he's unlikely to ... (read in full...)
As a friend I only want to help him, so what could his problem with sex be?
Q. Hi Everyone, I have a bunch of friends and we hang out a lot together. Recently I got closer and closer to a guy in this bunch and one day when we were drunk we slipped away from our friends and made out. We talked about it the next day and...
A. 22 December 2009: I very much doubt his reluctance to do the deed has anything to do with you. The obvious reason is the premature ejaculation, as this would be a constant anxiety for him. There could also be many other reasons all tied up together, low self esteem ... (read in full...)
I want to be friends with him but I also want to keep that 'closeness' between us
Q. Well its a really tough time for me right now. I have been in love with my best friend(a guy) for nearly 2 years now and the pains just getting worse. It wont go away. Throughout these two years i was always so confused because i thought he liked...
A. 21 December 2009: Reading what you've written, I dont honestly think remaining friends but having that closeness is very likely. If, as you say, he doesn't like you hugging etc then one of two things are likely. You'll either push him away for good, or he'll start ... (read in full...)
Is love just reciprocated obsession?
Q. How can you know if what you're feeling is love.... or something else, such as obsession? When you compare the two states, the only real difference seems to be perspective. Is love really just reciprocated obsession?...
A. 18 December 2009: Thank you all for your comments.... Ask oldersister - Very funny :) Emilysanswers - You are sooo right about that!... (read in full...)
Fiance' fooled me into thinking the gift was his idea and I found out!
Q. Look what I found out.... My Fiance brought me a gift for my birthday last July. It was really cute. It was a Yellow Rose Plant with a Birthday Bear and a Perfume. I loved it. It was a little weird for me thought that he asked me earlier that ...
A. 17 December 2009: Huh, that does put something of a different complexion on things..... what a shit!... (read in full...)
I am 14 and worried my love for my fiance is fading fast
Q. I've been with my fiance who lives 750 miles away for 1 year and almost 2 months (who was also my first boyfriend), and I feel like my love for him is gone. I an't explain why I feel like this, I just startd to feel like this after I came back from ...
A. 17 December 2009: I don’t want to be mean, but what the hell are you doing with a fiancé at 14yrs old? Right now your body & brain are still developing towards being an adult. Enjoy the experience (if you can) & wait until you are actually mature enough to ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid that my husband will never look at me the same if he witnesses the birth of our first son!
Q. My dilema is that I am currently 38 1/2 weeks pregnant and I'm afraid that my husband will never look at me the same if he witnesses the birth of our first son. He says he does not want to see anything and will just stay up north during the ...
A. 17 December 2009: I've gotta say I do sympathise with your husband. I've spoken to quite a few of my friends about this issue, as my wife is beginning to get ideas about babies, & a number of them have had serious intimacy issues after childbirth. From what I ... (read in full...)
He's cheated on me 8 times. Will he grow out of it?
Q. My boyfriend is extremely attractive, like the hottest boy I have ever laid eyes on in my life. He's got the tightest body made of solid muscle and the cutest face and he is sooooooooo much the best sex I have ever had a million times over. The only ...
A. 17 December 2009: In all honesty, why would he bother? You've already stated that... "I can't bring myself to break up with him because he is like perfect in every way". So basically, he has a green light to shag around to his hearts content, with the knowledge ... (read in full...)
I don't see why girls like me?!
Q. I don't understand why girls like me. I see myself as a terrible person to date and the more they like me the worst I feel. I feel immature and I feel like Im just no worth it, I feel like a kid inside because I cannot take care of them, obviously I ...
A. 17 December 2009: I think you really answered your own question. For a variety of reasons, all of which can be found in your past, you have a self esteem that rivals mine..... congratulations!
Now comes the really hard part though, cos now you have to try and do s... (read in full...)
Boyfriend's habit of taking care of "business' himself is creating problems in our sex life
Q. Good morning, I am having difficulties in my relationship with my boyfriend that I live with. One problem that seems to be getting bigger is our sex life. Lately, he has been masturbating before work in the shower and I know this is going on. ...
A. 17 December 2009: I'm gonna tackle the shower issue first. Generally speaking, no, a simple shower on its own doesn't give a man an erection. However, there are a hundred reasons why a man might have an erection in the shower, none of which means he's beating ... (read in full...)
Can you give me tips for being on-top?
Q. Hi, im a woman. I want to please my boyfriend. can you give me tips for being on-top? thanks...
A. 17 December 2009: Just a couple of specifics..... Firstly, be animated. By this I don’t mean fling your arms & legs around like a lunatic, but be in control of the rhythm, thrust back, circle your hips, grind... that sort of thing. Secondly, at some point lean ... (read in full...)
My kids got gyped at Christmas by my boyfriend's family!
Q. I have been with my bf for three years, we each have two teenagers from previous marriages. Every Holiday season, my kids and I are expected to join him and his extended family (his Mom, brother, sister in law and their kids) to celebrate Christmas. ...
A. 17 December 2009: As someone who was also abandoned by their father I can tell you that the most important thing by far to your kids will be that they are with you at Christmas, & that you are happy. All this other stuff is just the nonsense of life that will barely ... (read in full...)
Fiance' fooled me into thinking the gift was his idea and I found out!
Q. Look what I found out.... My Fiance brought me a gift for my birthday last July. It was really cute. It was a Yellow Rose Plant with a Birthday Bear and a Perfume. I loved it. It was a little weird for me thought that he asked me earlier that ...
A. 17 December 2009: As a starting point I'd recommend calming down. You haven't even established why he spoke to your ex & you already seem prepared to accuse him of..... I'm not exactly sure what. Perhaps he just didn't have any idea about what you might like as a ... (read in full...)
I'm so broken, hurt, and confused!
Q. So me and my ex have been together for two years on and off were just friends nows but he acts like he wants to be with me the only promblem is that he got a 15year old girl pregant im 18 and he is 20. Its been so hard to deal with because he been ...
A. 17 December 2009: Well, in a completely bastard like way he has told you everything you need to know. He's 20 & he's gotten a 15yr old child pregnant..... which is statutory rape at the bare minimum.
You're only 18 yourself, you've hardly had time to live or expe... (read in full...)
Professor giving us dating and courtship suggestions
Q. Hello,Guys~~ one of my professors is always telling us not to touch g girl even though she probably is you girl friend to protect her and make sure she is clean. Telling this, he also aften do some disgusting actions... The problem is that I ...
A. 17 December 2009: By all means, if it's a subject you want to study, register for hiss class again. Just take into account that your professor has an agenda, & that being a Christian, he's almost guaranteed to try and impose this upon you. What you need to remember ... (read in full...)
Do girls go on top or on bottom?
Q. I have a question, during sex is the female normally on top? i no its more of a choice thing but generally are girls expected to go ontop??...
A. 17 December 2009: Not necessarily, although that position does have one or two benefits from a mans perspective. A lot of men prefer to be 'in the driving seat' so to speak (women underneath), but it should really be about what satisfies the most, not whatever ... (read in full...)
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