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i love music all tipes but i love songs with messags behind them i love poetry and reading my favriot time of day is night specially when the its a full moon and the stars are out iam single and the most important to me is my family my dreams are to travelle and i would love to work with indangered animals one day and maybe children and to become a counceler at the moment am starting to wright my own book as well as my own poetry nither is going very well lol i always try to keep a open mind |
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How can I start talking to her without looking like an idiot?
Q. Hey anyone and everyone :P Basically my situation here is that there is a girl on my bus to college in the mornings who I really can't stop thinking about but we have never said a word to each other and I'm not the most confident of people, rathe...
A. 28 February 2009: i was basically in the same situation with a boy in my high school we sat next to each other for 4 years i really liked him and everyone around us knew how we felt but i guess were to afraid to admit we were from different crowds and i never told ... (read in full...)
Unless I'm on MSN, I'm too shy to talk to girls.
Q. Well I've been 14 for a few weeks and, well I can't get a girlfriend. Unless I'm on msn I'm too shy to talk to girls no matter what I do, I don't know whether it's because I'm ugly or something but it's depressing me cos all my friends r dating ...
A. 13 November 2008: I am nearly 18 years old and I don't have a boyfriend so dont think that you need to be with someone to feel beautiful i bet you are a really good lucking boy i have the same problem even now so your not alone what you need to do is take your time ... (read in full...)
My periods have been regular for more than seven years - until now. What could be causing the difference?
Q. am 17 years old and started my periods when i was 9 and they have been regular but this month my period only lasted 3 days when they usually last for 5 to 6 days there is no chance of me being pregnant i was just wondering is this normal ...
A. 3 August 2008: thanks for all your advice it has helped a lot xx... (read in full...)
My boobs become very painful around my periods... do you think anything could be wrong?
Q. am 17 years old and a bit over weight as a result my boobs are quite big am a 44dd but for the past couple of moths right around my periods my boobs become very painfull a started my periods when i was nine and this has never been a problem before i ...
A. 28 May 2008: thank you very much for all your suggestions x... (read in full...)
Can I still have a baby after two abortions?
Q. when i was 21 i had an abortion i had it want my choice my bf wanted me to have the abortion even though it was a planned prenancy anyways he flipped on me the 2nd abortion was with this guy i loved and i though that he was different than the other ...
A. 27 May 2008: it is possible for you to get pregnent again as long as there was no problems with your last two abortions please dont blame yourself you deserve this as much as anyone but the anser to your question is thosands of woman get abortions every year and ... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant after a negative test or am I just imagining things?
Q. I recently had a pregnancy test after experiencing signs of pregnancy for instance, sore breats, feeling sick and not being able to smell food without feeling sik etc. It Showed up negative yet these signs have not gone. Could I Still be pregnant...
A. 27 May 2008: yes you could still be pregnent if you taking anything that effects your hormone levels you could get the wrong test it could also depend on how long its been since you had sex for example if you had sex and have not yet waited a few weeks before ... (read in full...)
2 years since I last seen him and I still miss him! Please help!
Q. i am 17 years old and i left school about 3 years ago because i was being bullied but there was this lad who i met when i started school and we became friends from the minute we met and i fell in love with him though i never told him, i think he ...
A. 24 March 2008: thank you for your replays am trying to stop self harming but its not easey ... (read in full...)
We broke up but she sees us together in the future, what does she mean?
Q. Hi, i have a question that keeps bothering me, I dated this girl for about 7 months till she broke up with me, the reason was that things didnt go really smooth between us. After the break up we somehow didnt lose touch and grew back together, b...
A. 12 March 2008: ok i think she needs time away from you to figure out what she s feeling it sounds like she is cnfussed and maybe one day you will be together but i think its unfair for you to put your life on hold for to long she is right to say take some time ... (read in full...)
Should I just accept that I am just a friend to her or keep going after her??
Q. Hi, Theres this girl I really like in the year below me. We get on really well, and are becoming good friends. We email each other practically every night and she knows how much I like her. Shes a year younger and has never had a boyfriend before...
A. 11 March 2008: i think that maybe she's not ready for anything kind of relationship no matter how mature you think she is she is most likely afraid that she may not be good enough or she doesent want to risk the friendship you have just give her time if she s ... (read in full...)
Should we try for the third time for the sake of our child??
Q. Ok. We have all been there. So I would like to here from those how have made it through. A break-up with my partner for 2 years; there was hardly any good times. And if it was good it was just because if he amount of passion between us. Now we...
A. 11 March 2008: i grew up with my perents fighting all the time and they alway got back together and i always knew it was for us but i knew that they was not happy now i blame myself because i love them both but because of me they have not had the chance to be ... (read in full...)
Do condoms really work?
Q. Okay so im really in love with my boyfriend and we want to have sex. Im scared the condom may break and so is he. He has everything going for him amaazing soccer player, super hot, and smart. He feels like it would be one of those " he had ...
A. 1 January 2008: okay you can use a condo but incase i woud go on the pill as well ts much safer that way i hoped this has helped... (read in full...)
My mother does not let me see this boy because "the apple doesn't go far from the tree" (she dislikes his father.) Suggestions?
Q. dear cupid, theres a boy that i love very much but my parents will not let me see him outside of school and its really taking a toll on our relationship. they wont let me see him because he has a father (in which he never sees) that my mother d...
A. 1 January 2008: ok your mum is being overprotective if you really like tis boy then tell him about yur situation and maybe ask him out just keep it a secret good luck ... (read in full...)
My husband has molested our daughter for years. What should I do now?
Q. I would like your opinion on this serious issue. I was in bed with my husband over 20 years ago when my daughter, then aged about 2, climbed into be between us. After some time, I noticed my husband was getting aroused and I thought he was masturba...
A. 30 December 2007: this isent about what you should have done because its to late for that its happend but now you have to help you daughter deal with it she need to know its not her fault and i realy think she need some counceling she might feel that there is ... (read in full...)
I've not had unprotected sex but I seem to be showing signs of pregnancy...Help!!
Q. ok so im really scared i have never had unprotected sex but i keep getting random waves of nausea and my stomach is really hard and it hurts im afraid i might be pregnant?? i need help and advice!!...
A. 30 December 2007: you cud be pregenent but it could just be a stomic bug or maybe you period or you cud have a infection {STD} go and see your doctor good luck... (read in full...)
How do I ask my girlfriend about taking our relationship further?
Q. I've been with my girlfriend for just over a month now, we're both 15. We're both sensible and intelligent so we're not gonna try anything major for a while and we both know where we stand on this because we were both in a conversation with a load ...
A. 30 December 2007: first of all am 16 years old nd can i just say i wish there was more lads like you were i come from now to ur problim she is most likley as nervious as you are but i think you sould just stick to what your doing for now and when its right you'll ... (read in full...)
Will the pill still work in given circumstances?
Q. HI, just a quick question regarding the pill. 5 days after my girlfriend finished her period, we had sex and i came inside her, she has been on the pill for about 3 years now, i was just wondering, will the pill still work, is there some sort of ...
A. 30 December 2007: if she missed the pill on the day you ad sex then it is possible for her to get pregnent you need to take the pill everyday for it to work propley and not to worry you but woman are more likey to get pregent in the first week after her period if you ... (read in full...)
How do you know as a parent when to step into a relationship that you feel is unhealthy for your daughter?
Q. How do you know as a parent when to step into a relationship that you feel is unhealthy for your daughter. She is 17 and has been going out with the same guy for a little over 2 years. Since he has left for college in the fall he has gotten very ...
A. 20 December 2007: i think you can voice your concerns to your daughter but in the end she has to make the decision herself a lot of perents who interfear with there daughters relationships end up getting resented if this relationship is a mistake then its one she has ... (read in full...)
She thinks we are soulmates, but refuses a relationship. I've been in long distances before and it worked like a dream. Any ideas?
Q. this is a hard one. I'm very close friends with someone that i fancy like crazy, she knows it. I fell for her, couldnt help it. She wanted just friends. So i explained that every time i talk to her on the phone, she lives in glasgow me in stoke on ...
A. 20 December 2007: i think she may be scard maybe she has been hurt to many times and is afriad to take a risk just give her time so she knows your in it for the long run maybe in time things will work out good luck ... (read in full...)
My step brother and I are having sex! what should I do?
Q. im Annabelle and im 14. about 3 nights ago my brother (jayden) and i were home alone and he got me drunk. i remember him getting into bed with me. jayden is 16. he started touching me and then kissing me, but because stupidly i was drunk i kissed ...
A. 20 December 2007: first of all this is classed as rape where i come from and you step brother is in the wrong you should tell somebody as soon as possible its not right and its not your fault you never done anything wrong please talk to someone before things get out ... (read in full...)
How can I make my relationship better?
Q. I'm having problems with my girlfriend.I just am losing motovation and am starting not 2 care as much anymore. but I know if I really did lose her I'd go insane. will someone please help me with ideas to save this? idk, give me a whole day that ...
A. 20 December 2007: if you really want to be with your girlfriend try going out on dates and spending time together. i think when two people are in a relationship and they feel bord its because all the passion and romance has been taken out of the relationship. try ... (read in full...)
I'd decided to ask her out but now I'm losing my nerve
Q. Ok, i'm really lost right now. I've decided to ask a girl out tomorrow. The last day before the two week break from school. I decided this during the weekend. Before, we were talking a lot, and I was seeing her in the halls all the time. This week ...
A. 20 December 2007: i think you should go for it life is to short i was in the same possition once and i never told him i like him and now i regret it everyday just take a chance and if things go wrong at least you wont be wishing you had you never know she might like ... (read in full...)
I think my 15 year old son was looking at my porn collection, how do I approach him?
Q. i believe my 15 yr old son has been looking at my few porn dvd collections which i kept well away from view in my room. i saw they ave been disturbed and one found under d bed where it should not be(maybe left in a hurry)I ave now gotten rid of a...
A. 19 December 2007: okay first its not unusal for teenage boys to look at porn they could be curious about certain things but ashamed to ask you about them maybe you could have a man talk to him about it he already probley knows you found them just sit down and make ... (read in full...)
I want to have sex but I'm not sure how to prevent pregnancy
Q. I want to have sex but I am scared That I will get Pregnant Btu I really want to have sex so what should I do??...
A. 19 December 2007: if your really sure you want to have sex there are a few options open to you
you can go on the pill but many people forget to take them
you can use a condom
you can have the pill injection but many people find they put on weight
i think th... (read in full...)
I'm a bored married man, with a wife obsessed with the kids, how do I kick start our marriage again?
Q. Hi not sure why i'm here but i am so i guess i should say something right? ok i am married but i feel so lonely my wife is so busy with our children which are not children anymore the oldest is 29 and the youngest is 24 so i can't understand why we ...
A. 19 December 2007: maybe you could try going out on dates having romantic nights in and tell her calmly how you feel she maybe feeling the same way and maybe thats why she's focusing on your children so mmuch try and put a bit of romance back into your marrage maybe a ... (read in full...)
I have strong feelings for this boy, but he decided we can only be friends after hearing deceitful rumours about me. What next?
Q. A guy that i have been seeing for the past 4 weeks, has decided we can only be friends. He made this decision after hearing different rumours about me which are all lies. I have strong feelings for this guy i do not know what to do. How do i move ...
A. 19 December 2007: i think you should try to expain the situation to him and try and work things out tell him how you feel and if he's still not intrested then maybe you are just better off as friends good luck ... (read in full...)
Confused, hurt and upset. Please help me figure this guy out!
Q. It's a long story but he has sent me mixed messages for a long time. I figure he is not into me because of his inability to be direct and he now has a gf. six months ago when my bf and me took a break and I told him I think I liked him HE DID ...
A. 19 December 2007: it sound to me that this guy is in it for the chase i think that you should concentrate on the relationship your in and if you dont love who your with then find someone new good luck ... (read in full...)
I'm worried that I won't find anyone to lose my virginity with
Q. I know I'm only 15, but I am really starting to worry that I will never lose my virginty. It's not that I don't want to, it's because I don't think that anyone would ever want to have sex with me! People at my school think I'm really wierd and don't ...
A. 19 December 2007: i understand what your going through am in the same position except am 16 still a virgin and i self harm but i self harm over something else one of my best friends recently had a baby she is only 16 and i feel so sorry for her but back to your ... (read in full...)
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