What is worrying me is that the other day I found my best mate attractive. It scared me badly and although I couldn't imagine us together or kissing
Q. The thing is i don't know whether im gay. I have posted on here before and people have told me that they don't think im gay but i can't get it out of my head I have recently found a lot of men handsome looking, and when they aren't clothed o...
A. 29 March 2007: The important thing is that you come to terms with your sexuality if you are , its nothing to be ashamed of. Its quite normal for people of your age to wonder about their sexuality as the hormones are raging and your growing up and making your own ... (read in full...)
He found out I cheated!! How can I keep my man ?
Q. recently things hadn't been going so well for me and my boyfriend of almost three years. i ended up cheating on him. then we had a long talk and we decided to make things work. everything was wonderful , and then he found out..... how can i keep my ...
A. 29 March 2007: well the only thing you can do is apologize and explain that it was a big mistake. Tell him that it meant nothing and that if you wanted this other guy then why would you be trying so hard to make things work? hope it all works out hun, take care x ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is mad at me all the time, How can I prove that I am sincere!?
Q. me and my girlfriend have been dateing for a month and 20 days and all of a sudden shes mad and i ask and it takes her a while for her to finaly tell me and she said that she is sick of trying to figure out when im being honest when i tell her that ...
A. 29 March 2007: If your feeling are genuine then explain to her although yes, you said it in previous relationships, it doesn't mean you have less feelings for her than the others, in fact its more. all the best sweety x x
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Shes happy giving me a hand job, I want to take things further but she pushes me away, when's a good time ?
Q. my girlfriend and i have been dateing for 2 months now and shes started to give me hand jobs and so i figured it would be ok to finger her but when i put my hand close to her she moves it but she lets me suck her boobs. what do i do wait for her to ...
A. 29 March 2007: By the looks of things she is making the first move which probably means she wants to take control of what happens and is only going as far as she is comfortable with. Talk to her and ask why she is willing to give not take, and you want to give her ... (read in full...)
She's split up with me to get her feelings for her ex bf in order. Should I wait for her or just move on?
Q. I was dumped by a girl I had been seeing for 2 months last week. She said it was because she still loved her previous b/f. She knows she can't go back to him but said if we stayed together she couldn't have feelings for me until she sorted her head ...
A. 29 March 2007: If i were you i would move on. She obviously has issues that she doesn't know how to handle and is confusing you in the process. If she was feeling like this then why did she start the relationship with you? Its not fair to just leave you hanging. ... (read in full...)
My vagina is itching really bad..what could the problem be?
Q. my vagina is itching really bad and it's red? what could this be...
A. 29 March 2007: This could well be a common vaginal infection called thrush and is easily treated.You can buy crea,s over the counter at your local chemist. Or if you have had unprotected sex it could well be an STI. Go see your doctor if in doubt. take care hun x ... (read in full...)
He dumped me got with her straight away, now he wont dump her for me and says hes confused!!!!
Q. Hiya, i was goin out with this lad for nealry a year, we had some rocky times, a couple of weeks ago i found out he was txting a girl which i new from school, that now goes to his college. i broke up with him on friday nearly 3 weeks ago and 2 days ...
A. 28 March 2007: This guy seems really confused over what he really wants. I think that maybe its time to walk away. This guy can't be that keen if he's torn between you and her. Take my advice and don't waste another second with him or you'll end up confused and ... (read in full...)
I feel my friend is using me to get closer to him!
Q. I have this realy close boy mate, and I made friends with this girl and I feel like she is using me to get closer to him and she keeps on excluding me when we all talk together and she is trying to take over my place as being realy close to him how ...
A. 27 March 2007: I don't think she means it. Ask her up front if she fancies him and if she does and it upsets you then ask yourself why your so bothered? do you fancy him? just tell her how you feel. That you feel she is pushing you away and would like to be ... (read in full...)
How can I perk his interest?
Q. hey, i just started going out with this guy but he doesn't act like a boyfriend how can i get him to be more affectionate and talk to me more?...
A. 27 March 2007: Sometimes in relationships you need to take the reins and point in the way you want things to go. A little encouragement will help. break the ice and start the conversations, make the first move and see if how he responds. he may just be shy or ... (read in full...)
I never stopped loving her, in fact I am STILL in love...
Q. in love after a recent breakup..... Recently (feb '07) my partner ended our relationship because I became emotionally detached and this hurt her very much. Unfortunately I was dealing with a traumatic issue that came up and I was having a difficul...
A. 27 March 2007: It sound to me as this girl is confused by her feelings. She wants to get close but is scared of being hurt again. If you can prove that you are over this upset you've had maybe she may give things another go. all the best x x x... (read in full...)
Why do I always want to push her away when we get close emotionally?
Q. Can anyone give me advice? I am in a relationship wit a girl that i love a lot, but I start to feel scared when me and my girlfriend get close emotionally. It was like this 4 months ago and I ended up cheating on her. I want me and my girlfrien...
A. 27 March 2007: By the sounds of things your not too sure on your feelings toward her and its scaring you because you want to be close. Maybe you should take a bit of time out for yourself untill you can figure out what it is you truely want. It sound to me that ... (read in full...)
Do you think he's falling in love with me?
Q. I've been seeing this man for nearly 3 months now and we enjoy each other's company and the sex is great.. just recently he's been saying that he misses me when I'm not around and he also says he has a great affection towards me and that he cares ...
A. 27 March 2007: Could be honey! guys have all sorts of weird and wonderful ways of showing love but it sounds as if you've got a good catch sweety! see how things go and he may even tell you that he does. All the best hun take care x... (read in full...)
How can I get over my guilt?
Q. Please can somebody help me get over my guilt. I once betrayed my best mate, I slept with his ex girlfriend and she had our child, why I dont know. What came over me I guess I was feeling low and she was there offering herself to me and I took wha...
A. 27 March 2007: Theres not alot you can do im afraid other than to just accept that what has happened, has happened. you were obviously feeling really low at this point and needed someone to be there. just try to carry on the best you can and focus on the future of ... (read in full...)
Is it appropriate for a 17 year old female to date a 14 year old male?
Q. Hiya I'm a 17 year old girl (I'll be 18 in September and going to college) and I wanna know if it's inappropriate to date a fellow who's 14?...
A. 27 March 2007: wouldn't advise it hun he is underage and you should be out with people of you own age. if you wanna wait for him then fair enough- don't break the law! good luck sweety x... (read in full...)
Married and I was his 'first' everything! Now porn has made problems in our marriage! What should I do?
Q. I am glad i found this site and hope for some helpful advice. I cant talk to friends or family because I FEEL like an idiot! I have been married for 11 years to a man i thought and everyone else thought was terrific, till Jan of this year, when i f...
A. 27 March 2007: Just because he watches porn doesn't mean he don't love you. A a 'guy' thing im afraid. however if it is really causing problems then confront him. Ask him why he feels the need to do it? if not then maybe you should consider walking away. But do ... (read in full...)
He came on hard and fast and the minute I responded...he backed away! What's up with this guy?
Q. I began seeing this guy on November 1st. We really hit it off. He wanted an exclusive relationship, he said the word "love" first, he went overboard at Christmas and Valentine's so on.... So then one night I told him how I felt. Nothing scarey ...
A. 27 March 2007: give him an ultimatum. If he wants to be with you he has to make more effort. if not its over. Don't waste your life on people who don't know what they want.... (read in full...)
I'm 19 and all I think of is sex, sex, sex!! What should I do?
Q. hi i am 19 years old and i have a problem. im seriously interested in sex and i think of sex and sex and sex only. how can i get relieved as im being attracted to every1 and i think i have to maintain a relationship.any suggestions?...
A. 27 March 2007: Find fun things to do in the bedroom with your partner. Just because you have a high sex drive doesn't mean you should cheat. good luck babe x x... (read in full...)
My mum brought home her new boyfriend and it turns out he was my one night stand! Should I tell her?
Q. hey im in a massive mess right now and would really appreciate any advice people can give me ok Im 19 and about three months ago I met an older guy in a club. He started hitting on me and i did fancy him back but thought he was too old. he then ...
A. 27 March 2007: Unless there is a real need to tell your mum i would leave things as they are. Just accept that it was a one night stand and that it meant nothing. If your mum is happy with this guy then don't spoil it for her. If it doesn't work out between them ... (read in full...)
My lover wants me to leave my bf! What should I do?
Q. Im in a relationship with a guy for 7 yrs, and I just started having an affair. Now my lover wants me to leave the guy Ive been with. Can you please help?...
A. 27 March 2007: It depends on how ahppy you are with your current man? if things are not going so good and there is nothing holding you back then i would say go for it sweety, your happiness counts! x x x... (read in full...)
She talks about other guys all the time and I'm jealous! Does this mean she doesn't want to date me?
Q. There's a girl i like who I'm hoping likes me as well. The problem is that she frequently tells me about how cute other boys are that she's met and in spite of myself i find myself feeling jealous. I haven't yet asked her out cos i first want to ...
A. 27 March 2007: She might be saying this to do exactly that- make you jealous. Maybe what she is trying to say is that she wants you to ask her out, to get in there before she goes for someone else. Just ask her, you've nothing to lose! good luck sweety x x... (read in full...)
He wants a 3some but-I'm worried he'll like the other girl better! Any thoughts?
Q. My bf wants a 3some. and to be honest im not to bothered by this as i wouldnt mind one myself. we do have a slight disagreement though. i want another lad and he wants another lass. i wouldnt mind that but im really scared that he'll shag one of my ...
A. 27 March 2007: don't do it then, simple. If you have any doubts whatsoever then it clearly isn't the right thing to do. Find something else that could spice up your sex life, it sounds as thogh you need it! Why does your man want a threesome anyway? its you who he ... (read in full...)
I touched something inside her.... is she still a virgin ?
Q. hey.. i have a girlfriend and were still together like more than 2 years and shes worried because i put entered my finger in her thing..and it was about 3.5 inches..and i felt something its hard to explain what but it was a little deep and i hardly...
A. 27 March 2007: You are still a virgin unless you actually have sex. As for this ''hard thing'' you felt, dont worry its a natural part of her. remember that when the time comes where you do want to have sex, use a condom to prevent sexually transmitted infections ... (read in full...)
If I don't have sex with her she says she'll break up with me, the problem is her age, she's only 14.
Q. I'm in love with a younger girl. I don't have a problem with the age gap because age is just a number to me, but I turn 19 this November, and she just turned 14. The thing is that I love her so much, but she wants to have sex. I object to this ...
A. 27 March 2007: ok first things first if you were to sleep together you would be breaking the law. secondly if this girl is threatening to leave you over this, she obviously isn't mature enough to be having sex. I know you may love this girl but she is too young ... (read in full...)
I'm seeing a 28 year old and I'm 17 and was wondering if he is too old for me?
Q. hiya every one I'm seeing a 28 year old and I'm 17 and was wondering if he is too old for me? I have told my mum and dad that he is 22 but a hate lying to them and also I dont even no if I love him yet because I'm scared to fall in love again be...
A. 27 March 2007: im kinda in the same situation im the same age as you and i wanna get with a guy of 46! you cant help who you fall in love with/fancy. If the feelings are then go for it. As for your parents i would sort of bring it up in a conversation but not so ... (read in full...)
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