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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: my girlfriend and i have been dateing for 2 months now and shes started to give me hand jobs and so i figured it would be ok to finger her but when i put my hand close to her she moves it but she lets me suck her boobs. what do i do wait for her to finaly let me or not let her give me hand till i get to finger her
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2007): Be thankful she does that for you; and dont push her.
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male
reader, winter_one +, writes (29 March 2007):
As has been said already, wait for her indicate that she's ready for you to return the favour. Don't attempt, under ANY circumstances, to pressure her into something she's not ready for. She'll hate you for it and rightly so.
By the sounds of things, it won't be long before that happens, so be patient and let things take their course naturally.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2007): she's not ready that's why. Don't push her or she'll regret it & you. In due time. BELIEVE ME i was her years ago.
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female
reader, Bailey J +, writes (29 March 2007):
The best thing to do is wait for her… she may not be ready. Don’t pressure her, make her see that no matter what your relationship is more important than sex. The time will come and it will be worth the wait.
Take Care
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female
reader, mum2be +, writes (29 March 2007):
Definately wait for her... she could have a good reason for not letting you too close just yet...
Just be happy you are making slow progress, rather than getting nothing from her at all!
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female
reader, Lady tinks +, writes (29 March 2007):
By the looks of things she is making the first move which probably means she wants to take control of what happens and is only going as far as she is comfortable with. Talk to her and ask why she is willing to give not take, and you want to give her pleasure too. There maybe a good reason for it. all the best x x x
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female
reader, chelychel +, writes (29 March 2007):
No, wait for her to let you. I'd say it wont be that much longer til she will let you! Things are deffinatly progressing, thats how it works when you first start dating someone. It was the same with me and my boyfriend. It was about 3 weeks after I started giving him hand jobs before I let him fingered me. A little time and she'll be wanting it!!!
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