I broke up with my girlfriend of 8 years but I just feel so upset. Help me please
Q. I'm in abit of a mess.. I finished a relationship with my ex girlfriend that lasted about 8 years, she was my first love, we were like soul mates. Unfortunately, over the last year or so we argued and issues began to arise, I started to think that ...
A. 22 March 2015: You should be happy it happened, cos most times, first loves often want something different. However, they often become what you ever hoped for, if they ever come back. Sometimes, its okay to allow them roam and explore, so they would appreciate ... (read in full...)
Am I too young to be with one person forever, even if he's perfect?
Q. Hi all, I am a 24 year old female who has been with my boyfriend going on 7 years. He was my first proper relationship and the only person I have had sex with. Everything between my boyfriend and I is what I presume all anyone could ever as...
A. 22 March 2015: I think what you feel is absolutely normal. You will always want to know what intimacy feels like outside your boyfriend. This escapist mode is very popular amongst the one-partner peeps, such that even after marriage, that feeling remains. Somehow, ... (read in full...)
Does getting back into a relationship with an ex ever work out?
Q. Hey I have a question. Does getting back into a relationship with an ex ever really work out? I was with a girl for two years and we have been broken up for a year now. I took it really hard when her and I broke up. I have had 2 short term relat...
A. 4 December 2013: My sweet lovely creature, I've been there, done and dusted! I adore your courage hanging out with her again after all she put you through, but that's absolutely no reason to get back with her. Just like the others have said, the chord of trust was ... (read in full...)
I've lost the attraction but I don't understand why.
Q. Hi, I really need help, I'm so stressed and I have no idea what I'm going to do! I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years we have no children and we both still live with our parents (we are 27, sad I know!) At the first 2 maybe 3 years o...
A. 17 July 2013: Trust me the problem here isn't that you don't love him, but something is draining that fuel of love and that is, He is your first boyfriend and you think there's much more out there you're missing out. The enthusiasm to explore is zapping d energy ... (read in full...)
7 years and I'm still not over my ex, help?
Q. Hi everyone, This might be quite long but I'm in dire need of some advice...i can't really talk to anyone else about this situation...Here goes: When i was about 17 i randomly met a guy at a gig, i can still remember it like it was yesterday, i...
A. 26 June 2013: 1. You have no clear idea of what you really want.
2. If you want him, have a serious conversation with him, and see if he feels the same way. If it was affirmative, set the ball rolling and rekindle your love life.
3. If there's no future with eac... (read in full...)
My ex-girlfriend is trying to get back to me, am confused!!!
Q. My ex girlfriend that we dated for four years left me for another guy, four months later she started sending sms to me just for us to get talking.I ignored all, recently she sent this one which got me very confused . She sent this " hello, how ...
A. 19 June 2013: I have never been a fan of on and off relationships. If she could do it back then, then she can certainly do it again. I think she's selfish and wants to eat her cake and have it.
Its a clear case of searching for greener pastures, which unfo... (read in full...)
She hurt me incredibly bad, I don't know why or what she wants from me, or even how to proceed from here. Help?
Q. help me, please. i have no idea what to do. i love my ex so much. we just broke up about a week ago and she hurt me incredibly bad. we had a stupid, small misunderstanding the other day and all of a sudden that night, she told me she needed space ...
A. 6 June 2013: Wow! CMMP and Relationship.chef has said it all. I feel however, that she's had most of those hurtful words bottled up inside her before the incidence. Although, anger makes one say irritating stuff, more than imagined, but I'm certain 60-70% of all ... (read in full...)
Should I down play myself? Are men intimidated by me?
Q. So I am a 26 year old female living in the Midwest. I have been single for about a year. I am putting myself out there, going on dates regularly and even do online dating....but still no luck. It seems the guys that like me, I don't like...and the ...
A. 6 June 2013: This is a pretty straight forward answer. Coupled with what YouWish said, you must understand that guys always want to take the lead. They want to be able to explain or teach u stuff (even if u do, don't behave as if u know it all). Men love showing ... (read in full...)
I want my boyfriend back and have no idea how to cope without him
Q. I am deeply in love with my ex boyfriend who has dumped me because he couldn't decide whether he wanted a single life or a relationship so it caused a lot of fights. I havn't seen him for 2 months and he phones me about once a week which is ni...
A. 5 June 2013: Your feeling towards him is normal, since this is someone u once loved. That said, its almost impossible to get ur mind of an ex if there's still contact. Most often time, d girl-folks get hit d most, cos they are most likely to be used and dump, ... (read in full...)
Trying to make my marriage blossom, but I can't last 5 minutes without thinking about my lover
Q. Married for 23yrs I met the love of my life who has been married 24yrs. We had an undeniable connection, and made love 24hrs after meeting. His first time and my first, since our weddings. We live in different states. I returned home and ...
A. 29 January 2013: How would u feel if your husband came home suddenly and asks for a divorce, just because he just saw an ex and a renewed spark. From your write up, you've got no issues with ur marriage. Put yourself in your husband's shoes and decide if you're ... (read in full...)
Why do I want sex all the time?
Q. Okay short question but here goes, I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 8 months and were pretty happy together, finally! I lost my vaginaty to him about a month ago, now it's all I ever think about and want, well 90% of the time! Why do I want ...
A. 26 May 2012: Its almost normal for most girls. Bt d fact dt u want something, doesn't necessarily mean u need it. Never let ur emotions override ur sense of reasoning. Be wise in ur decisions. Safe.... (read in full...)
Will she ever be able to end her abusive relationship for good?
Q. She is 19, studying and her bf is 22 and is working. She's in a unhealthy relationship with him for almost 5 years. She told me she broke up but patched back with him countless times, he's very possessive, she has cried and emotionally hurt so many ...
A. 28 August 2010: I hope you are not being selfish here!; now, put urself in the guy's shoes, would you want someone advising someone you love to leave you? Let the cards play itself out. You need not bother urself; she only knows why she's still keeping on. You... (read in full...)
I feel I need revenge on him!
Q. Hey guys i just got heart broken and im happy that im moving on but i still cant understand y he would leave me FOR HIS FEMALE FRIEND when i was there for him , I PUT UP WITH LOT HIS CRAP AND LIES ! SOMETIMES I FEEL K NEXT MIN IM HURT! I need ...
A. 27 August 2010: Tryin 2 take revenge wil only give him more reasons 2 ve left him, n d fact dat u cant do w/out him. U've got ur dignity n pride 2 protect here. For him 2 ve left u, it only showed, he aint worth u, ok? I knw its difficult, bt u've got 2 let it go n ... (read in full...)
Am I an idiot?
Q. All right, here goes... [before I begin, let me say...excuse my novel. ;]] I've actually been debating doing something like this for the last month or so. This isn't exactly something I want to discuss with the people around me who know both ...
A. 27 August 2010: Well, first, i'd say u aint an idiot; for pullin away when necessary, makin him realise he cldnt eat his cake n stil ve it! U've made some pretty gud decisns. Bt my questn is, u were away 4 just 1wk, n all these happend?, cos he was drunk?- which is ... (read in full...)
Slept with someone while we were on a break; is it worth telling him when the relationship is so rocky already?
Q. Hello everybody. I'm in a bit of a pickle at the moment. This may also be a bit long but I'll try to keep it as simple as I can, but I think I should give some back story. Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 18 months now and t...
A. 26 August 2010: I think its better 2 be all sincere to him. D fact he's nt been open 2 u doesnt mean u shldnt clear ur cnscience first.... (read in full...)
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