Do drunken mistakes really exist?
Q. My boyfriend and I have had a rocky relationship, in which we just went through a period of saving it. We came clean about everything we had done, and he told me he had slept with one of his best friends, who was also living in the room next to him ...
A. 27 February 2009: Sometimes if someone is willing and your inhibitions are way lowered - and also said physical rebound, even if she wasn't ugly, he might have slept with her. He didn't need to be terribly attracted to her to want to sleep with someone for the ... (read in full...)
Differing religious beliefs and relationships.
Q. Can a relationship work when in different religions? I feel like even the most accepting catholic would not make it with a jew or friend because different religious beliefs could be the cause of conflict. what do you think?...
A. 27 February 2009: It depends on how strongly you believe in your religion and your personality as well. Raising children - if you believe in an afterlife, then the fate of your partner... That might cause problems. And pertaining to personality, I have found per... (read in full...)
Are women put off by skinny men?
Q. I know everyone has different tastes and personal preferences, but in general, are women put off by skinny men? I'm 22, and while I eat like a horse, I just have never been able to put on any tangible weight, and have virtually little...
A. 27 February 2009: I think I've never really been that attracted to the really muscular type... There are women out there with all sorts of different tastes. So no, I would say women are not put off by skinny men, in general.... (read in full...)
Have I made a mistake? Should I apologise?
Q. Here’s how it goes. (I am posting this because I’m frustrated and I need to vent.) To make a long story short, since I’ve been telling over five sources this already and I’m sick of typing it out, in grade 10 I was in band with a guy I’ll call ...
A. 4 November 2008: Thank you for your advice. Emily: Thanks, though I can't say that he's ever exhibited behaviour of the sort, so I'm not sure his personality is like that. Then again, having a subjective view, I could be wrong. I'm just worrying that I'll se... (read in full...)
Why are girls against polygamy but okay with being the mistress?
Q. Why girls against polygamy? You might say it cause she doesn't want to share her guy. But I don't think it's that simple. A lot of girls are okay with being the mistress. They don't mind sharing a man, as long as the other girl doesn't know abo...
A. 4 November 2008: That's funny, because I'm not okay with the thought of being the mistress.... (read in full...)
Why do men value their women's virginity?
Q. Why all this negativity towards men who value virginity of a woman? I'm astonished at certain responses which seems to candidly brush this aside as a selfish attribute. It seems people don't understand the psychological and emotional aspect...
A. 4 November 2008: To me, it is on the same level as women valuing their men's virginity. To enter a married relationship knowing that you are not being compared to anyone, to know that your spouse saved themselves for the special you is a gratifying thing.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to purge my life of any man from my past.
Q. I have dated my boyfriend for over 2 years. He is 35 and I am 28. I love him deeply. He wants me to give up all contact with any man from my past. I am not in regular contact at all just friends on facebook or myspace, I'm not hiding anything he is ...
A. 4 November 2008: I'm sorry, but I'm afraid that this is usually a sign of the other being too controlling. If he can't trust you like this and is making you cut out all communications with any man, his controlling tendencies will only get worse. Have you been able ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for him to have naked women on his phone?
Q. My husband thinks it's normal for him to post naked women on his phone. I disagree. Help please. ...
A. 4 November 2008: I wouldn't be comfortable with it anyway but I don't think that is unusual for a man to have that...
However, considering that he is MARRIED and your HUSBAND, he should NOT be having those pictures or porn around anywhere. In my opinion, that's n... (read in full...)
I don't feel any chemistry with him. Break up or play it safe and stay?
Q. OK, well here's the thing. I started going out with my boyfriend a couple of months ago, and he used to be my best friend. he had a girlfriend before, but broke up with her and then we got together. however, now, i do still like spending time with ...
A. 4 November 2008: I think you should stick with it...and bear this in mind, when you get married, there will be times or a time when you may no longer be sexually attracted to your spouse. But if you get along, and he's a good boyfriend and the only thing lacking is ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my colleague how I feel? She has a boyfriend.
Q. Dear Cupid, I'm a university student, and recently came back to school from a 4 month work placement in another city. In the work placement I met a girl who I thought was special but avoided going further that just friends for a few reasons, mos...
A. 3 November 2008: If you know or suspect that she has a boyfriend, it may not be the best idea to try and pursue her, especially if she may have feelings for you. If it is apparent that she's having trouble in her relationship, encourage her to hash it out with her ... (read in full...)
Porn in relationships? Healthy or not?
Q. I just wanna get your feedback on how you feel about Porn in relationships. tell me as much as you can please! answers from both sexs is appreciated!i feel as if him watching porn is affecting my sex drive with him and im not wanting to have as much ...
A. 3 November 2008: I feel porn in relationships is not a healthy thing. To me, he/the other is in essence cheating on you by having sex to something else that is not you. You are being replaced in his sex life, and it is perfectly understandable that you don't like ... (read in full...)
I just wish I could have untouched lips again!!
Q. I've never kissed my boyfriend, but i kissed another guy, my first kiss, and i hate to think i did. I feel awful and it makes me want to be sick! I just wish i could have untouched lips again. What can I do to forget?...
A. 3 November 2008: It's hard to get the same feeling of purity back. Know that it's excellent that you even feel this way and you don't take the issue of kissing lightly. If you can forgive yourself this and come to accept that it was the past, it might help...
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He said 'it's not his fault' that I'm pregnant!
Q. please can someone help me because i really dont know what to do! my boyfriend and i had been together for just four months and he knew i was no where near ready for sex, even though im 16 and legal n all that i didnt feel physically ready for it! ...
A. 3 November 2008: Hun, this isn't your fault and you need to tell an adult you trust. Number one, the fact that he slapped you and was so rough with you means he's abusive and you should not be with him, even if that may be a hard thing to do. Secondly, that was ... (read in full...)
After 3 months we are finally together but have not even kissed! I worry she's not into "us" as I am!
Q. It took 3 months for me and my new girlfriend to finally get together after gingerly tiptoeing around, wondering wether or not we like each other. Finally i plucked up the courage and asked- we are now i believe official. However, we still have not ...
A. 3 November 2008: I believe a slow relationship on a strong foundation of friendship is always best. Sparks and feelings can be finicky and fade. Don't be discouraged; take this time to really strengthen your relationship in this area and see where it takes the two ... (read in full...)
Should I wait for her to make up her mind..is she stringing me along?
Q. I've just broke up with a girl I've been seeing for around 6 months. We previously broke up 3 months into our relationship, largely caused by too much drink and a lot of baggage on both our parts. We got back together after that but the trust ne...
A. 3 November 2008: I'm suddenly realizing that we as girls seem to do that a lot.
And my opinion is this: I'm sorry, but it's been going on like this for so long, and she does seem to be stringing you along, intentionally or not. The constant uncertainty is not a... (read in full...)
I'm seriously in love but depression wrecked our relationship! Now I'm depressed I can't get her back...
Q. I was with this girl for about a year, in a long distance relationship. I was up at school, she was back in my hometown. She was so, so good to me. However, I was going through a really tough bout of depression during our time together. I hated my ...
A. 3 November 2008: The funny thing is I chanced upon this while looking for something about my own problem...
I do not have "another boyfriend". However, it seems I am very much the girl who is sending mixed messages while saying I don't want to pursue a relation... (read in full...)
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