I want her, but can't have her. I have ethics, but they are weakening. Please advise.
Q. She is with a buddy of mine. It was love at first sight, atleast for me, she compliments me completely. It is against my ethics to break up a relationship, even if she is my one and only, plus she has too much integrity to leave one man for another ...
A. 17 September 2007: Thank you for your answer, and I will consider it. In reply I have to say that I have never met a more compatible woman, so I will wait. As for my buddy, thats all he is, not someone I would consider a good friend, he does have the mentality to ... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant by the guy I've been having an affair with! I dont need judging, I just need some advice...
Q. I have been seeing this guy for years. Before you judge me you don't have to live my life and there is a lot of screwed up stuff in my marriage. I am married and scared to death of my husband. I found out that I am pregnant and don't know what to ...
A. 15 September 2007: sometimes the wrong decision is the only choice. If your husband is so twisted and demented that you fear for your life and ha to look for love somewhere else, then you made the only choice you could. End your marriage and start anew, it is not as ... (read in full...)
I need some advice about sex with the girl on top..
Q. Hi I really need some advise. I am a female in my 20's and I have never been on top! I was with one boyfriend for several years and this was never a problem as we were very in tune with each others bodies and had great sex anyway. He also said h...
A. 15 September 2007: Well, if you are uncomfortable being on top, think of ot this way. If you want to stay in good shape, the one on top is the one who works the hardest. So in time you will have fine abs and an appreciable weight and he will not. Grab the top girls, ... (read in full...)
How can I stop feeling guilty for cheating on my girlfriend?
Q. I have cheated on my girlfriend after 3years of being together, i kissed another girl. Can anyone help me get rid of the guilt that continuosly pesters me every second and every hour. Im struggling to forgive myself and it is affecting my ...
A. 15 September 2007: unlike these other people, I think you did cheat, so remember it always and do not repeat!!!, it will make you stronger if you let that experience help you avoid doing it again. Learn from your mistakes friend, and you will be stronger for it.... (read in full...)
Ashamed of my stretch marks, what's your opinion?
Q. i am an 18 year old virgin, who has never been in a relationship. the reason is because i have no confidence in myself. i have stretch marks all over my boobs, thighs and hips and im totally ashamed and feel discusting. i have met a lad, 21. who h...
A. 15 September 2007: there are things you can do for stretch marks, you can either gain some weight, or you can use aloe vera vitamine E enhanced creams to help yor body heal them.But in the end, it is YOUR worry, not his. If he likes the personality not just the body, ... (read in full...)
Years ago, I watched a bj video with a male friend, and he offered to give me one. I was just a curious child, is this unusual?
Q. Back when I was 11 (5th grade) I had a best friend since kindergarten (Both of us males). We were both straight and would often look at his fathers playboys, or look at women on the internet. Now, one day we watched a blowjob. My friend and I won...
A. 15 September 2007: no you are normal, so no fear. If you are a hetero and believe it, then you are, no matter your past experiences. Yor past s what makes you who you are today. I had a similar experience, even if it is the best bj I ever had, I am still hetero and ... (read in full...)
I lied about my age and our relationship is getting really serious! What do I do??
Q. okay let me start like this amd my boyfriend started dateing 5 months ago and i lied about my age and he is about to be 17 and im 3 years younger then him but we are like really serious about our realtionship and i dont know what to do ...
A. 15 September 2007: if you are becoming as serious as you believe, then honesty about your dishonesty now will only make you stronger. You are young yet, if he is put off, there will be another for you guaranteed. But try honesty now.... (read in full...)
Is it normal not to like sex? It's an invasion of privacy for me!
Q. Is it normal to not like sex? i mean i know its not normal in that most people DO enjoy sex but is it anything to be worried about that i really dont like it? It feels far too intimate and like it is a complete invasion of my privacy. i'm 22, ...
A. 15 September 2007: very simply... what is sex without love? I have been celibate for 6 years because I only like to make love. A woman needs much more stimulation then a man so mention it to him. He will make the effort to please you if he loves you. Hugs girl as you ... (read in full...)
My wife was harassed when out for a drink with friends. She's scared and blaming herself, what to do to reassure her?
Q. Hi this morning my wife seemed abit upset it took her ages to admit what was wrong but she went out with some of her friends for a drink last night and there was this guy trying his best to well i won't say make a pass at her but he kept hinting he ...
A. 15 September 2007: reassure her that your love for her is unconditional. She is not to pay for the mistakes of anothers perversity and lack of common decency. She did right, she won out in the end by still coming home to you unmolested and in control of herself. Love ... (read in full...)
I love him and he loves me but he used to be my teacher; should I back off? He's afraid of the ramifications
Q. ive fallen for my ex teacher.I am 18 hes 27.We get along great.I told him how i feel ,and he feels same!however he is scared to take it further because of his job.its making me so angry that two people cant be together when we're both adults.He ...
A. 15 September 2007: go for it, as you are now an aduly and out of the school system, the only thing holding you back is your fear,and your respect for your mans fear. you two in love can overcome any obstacle Regardless of the ramifications, Be strong together you ... (read in full...)
How can I build my tolerance so I don't go so quickly?
Q. I cant really control myself while having sex. I dont last long while having sex and i feel embarrased and ashamed because i cant really please a girl that well. Any advice on what i can do to help build my tolerance so i dont go so quickly?...
A. 15 September 2007: don't knock it. cum quickly the first time, then you will last ALL NIGHT LONG friend. Be honest though if you must, tell the first times gonna be a quicky cause she is so hot and fine, then move along, many many times!!!... (read in full...)
My fiance is a control freak! He's forbidden me from wearing clothes I like and slapped me across the face!
Q. my fionce is controlling, weve bee together just over a year and at the beginning of the relationship it was so perfect! now, hes a control freak, i cant even wear the tops that i like. hes pinned me down by the throat wen weve bin arguin n slapped ...
A. 15 September 2007: Drop that man, there are plenty of fish in the sea and you can find what you already have and want in this man with another, but with out the physicality and abuse, cause thats what it is, plain and simple. so have some self respect and stngth, act ... (read in full...)
Is bisexuality wrong?
Q. Hello! I just needed to ask this one question. One of my friends told me that she was bisexual, and well, she also told me that one of my other friends, one of my best friends, was bi too. I had always thought that my best friend was bisexual, but I ...
A. 15 September 2007: In answer to that question I must talk from personal experience. I prefer bisexual women because they understand what a man wants better then a hetero women. That is a fact, so don't take it persona like. Also sexual devienc is the norm now a days, ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and self conscious about my 32AA boobs. I envy other girls with bigger boobs. What can I do?
Q. I'm 15, and have very small boobs, only a 32AA. I get so depressed when I see my friends and they've got lovely, B, C and bigger cups. I envy them so much I get obsessed and stare at them because I dont know how it feels to have big boobs. It's ...
A. 15 September 2007: Girl. just give it sometime for your body to catch up with your wishes. You are after all only 15, within the next 3 years you are going to change so much you will not rcognize yourself anymore. Also consider changing your diet or taking vitamines ... (read in full...)
Is he too old for me??
Q. Hi, I have a problem because i like a neighbour who is 20 years old and i'm 14. At the beggining he started talking to me and asked my name; then he gave me his cellphone number and he added me to his msn list. He noticed that i really like him...
A. 15 September 2007: Girl, you are by far the more mature person in this situation. Test this man, but be sure thee is someone there, or nearby to end things if they go wrong. When it comes to the heart, every move you make is a risk, so take a chance, just be carful. ... (read in full...)
I'm a 21 year old female, who's been told she 'intimidates men', but I'm not even sure how I do it.
Q. I was just wondering if I could get some male input here. I'm a 21 year old female, who's been told she 'intimidates men', but I'm not even sure how I do it. If a women were to initimidate you or scare you off, how would she do it? Im not the kind...
A. 15 September 2007: Girl, you have to provide some info on a specific situation, to get a feel for the players befor I can answer that question, I want to help, if you are willing to oblige me on this info request.... (read in full...)
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