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writes:Back when I was 11 (5th grade) I had a best friend since kindergarten (Both of us males). We were both straight and would often look at his fathers playboys, or look at women on the internet.Now, one day we watched a blowjob. My friend and I wondered what that would feel like and he offered to give me one. I was scared but I agreed. Keep in mind I am straight til this day and still am not attracted to men. I have gone my whole life with not telling a soul of this incident.I was just a curious child, is this unusual? Anyone else have an experience like this? I just want to know I am not alone.
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reader, Kohjakza  +, writes (15 September 2007):
no you are normal, so no fear. If you are a hetero and believe it, then you are, no matter your past experiences. Yor past s what makes you who you are today. I had a similar experience, even if it is the best bj I ever had, I am still hetero and confident of it. Don't worry buddy, you won in the end, you know what you like and don't like.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2007): my husban had the same exp. hes mate gave him head and my husban gave it to him up the ass and hes so stright now
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2007): i have had an experience like this when i was little. When i found out what sex was, not properly new wat it was but all i knew was 2 people got on top of each other and did it, so me and my friend (female) deicded wed try it one day, i am so embaressed about it, my friend cant remember but i do !! =[ i asked her and just laughed and stuff but i feel sick when i even think aobut it, her mam and dad even saw but theyv never brung it up since tht day.
i still go red thinking about it and yet im not attracted to woman im like 100 % straight!
so dont worry !!
your nt the only one!!
xx
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (13 September 2007):
Everybody has done something they don't want anyone to know. In the scheme of things your issue hurt no one and you'd be foolish to let it occupy any of your thinking time. Better to concentrate on what your doing now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2007): How would she ever figure out unless you tell her? It is private and you do not need to tell her. Very few people actually talk about the details of their sexual experiences with ex's, so why would you have to? If you feel that you are bisexual, wyou might want to mention this to her, but if you are straight then you can simply leave this burried in the past.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWhat made me start worrying was the fact that I have fallen madly in love with a woman. And even though I have lived my life without this ever coming up. I can't imagine how it would turn out if she figured out.
I keep telling myself it happened so long ago; and i doubt she would even care. But I still don't want to deal with that situation.
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reader, rockelle +, writes (13 September 2007):
 No it is not unusual for children to expirement. I know lots of children who have done things to each other, just out of plain curiosity. You are not alone. However, if it is really bothering you maybe you need to get some counseling about the ordeal. Everyone handles things differently what may be the norm for others could have emotionally scarred you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2007): I know 2 guys who were childhood friends, they were stoned one night when they were about 11, and they did it to eachother. They did it a few times actually. It is a bit disturbing but Im sure it's normal cuz guys are so horney at that age they will take anything they can get. Oh yea these guys are straight too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2007): Hunny,
Im sure your not alone, Though how many would admit to it is another thing, Ive been told and heard of many sexual experierences happening at a young age due to plain curious.
You no who you are and thats all thats matters love TAKE CARE LOVE MANDY XXXXX
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2007): Nothing to worry about,As lots of us men do get blowjobs on the way to sexual maturity. It happens, And it's just one of those things in our lives, I wouldn't lose any sleep over it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2007): I don't think that you should beat yourself up over it. As you say, you were just curious children and were both probably really turned on by what you saw and needed some release. Kids fool around when they are little, I think that it does happen and is no indication of your sexual preferences. Why is it bothering you so much? Are you emotionally scarred by the incident or are you questioning your sexuality?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2007): i myself recently experienced a similar thing with my sister in law,im not a lesbian but i wanted to know how it felt licking a girl out and i realized instantly it wasnt for me,my partner wasnt present at the time and i told him what i`d done and he was ok with it
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (13 September 2007):
This is not a life definning event. Smoking 1 cigarette does not make you a smoker. Nor does getting one A get you into Harvard. Punching one small kid does not make you a bully.
Falling in love with a man and expressing it physically make you a homosexual. If you also love women in the same way you are a bisexual.
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