Please help, I cant figure it out... am I being weird?
Q. I'm pregnant, I have been with my boyfriend for a year, he wants me to get rid of it, but I'm against abortion, and have even protested against it, it will go against everything I've stood for, but I am only 17. Should I give up what I stand for ...
A. 7 November 2008: I know that all people's beliefs are different but I would never abort an unborn child, even if you and your bf r not ready to have a baby of your own there a many women out there that would be greatful for your child because of physical problem ... (read in full...)
Why didnt she listen to what I said?
Q. My ex-boyfriend broke up with me in August and started seeing someone else straight away. A few weeks later I found out I was pregnant by him. I told him and he said he would support my decision of what I wanted to do. I wanted to keep the baby and ...
A. 7 November 2008: breaking up is one of the hardest things to do inlife expecially in the situation u were in but everything happens for a reason and continuing to try to stay attached will do nothing but drive you seriouslly insain. What you honestly have to do is ... (read in full...)
Am I making the right decision to keep my baby?
Q. My Mum has always been my one and only source of unconditional love and support and the day she suddenly died was the most devastating of my life. I'm 26 and feel like I had the most important person in my life who I shared this unbelievable bond ...
A. 7 November 2008: I think that all babies are blessings and love is definatley smething you will get from your child, even if the father chooses not to stay around your baby will become the most important part of your life. It is a huge responsability but to me it is ... (read in full...)
Pregnant and my mum wants me to have an abortion
Q. Me and My boyfriend have been together for just over 8 months..he's the one for me,ive never been so happy, i couldnt ask for anything else of a partner. Weve been trying for a baby, and every month, i have my period, and its a smack in the face.ive...
A. 7 November 2008: Well a baby is a miracle no matter how you look at it, i am 18 years old and i am expecting my first child hear in the next couple of weeks. When i first told my mother she was also somewhat upset but once she realized that it was really happening ... (read in full...)
Five months pregnant and just diagnosed with the herpes virus!
Q. I'm 5 months pregnant and I was just diagnosed with the herpes virus. I haven't had sex with anyone else in over two years. I asked my bf if he was with anyone and he confessed and said he received oral sex from someone three months prior to me ...
A. 7 November 2008: Well yes you could have gotten it from him it is probally the only person you could have gotten it from if you havnt slept with ne one else, now this is kind of a serious std because it will never go away but the cheating situation i would have to ... (read in full...)
Why won't my Mom let me go on the pill?
Q. the relationship between me and my mum is rapidly changing and i dont know what to do. me and my boyfriend of 6 months recently lost our virginities to each other, hes the best thing in the world, treats me like a princess and he and my mum do get ...
A. 7 November 2008: well it is hard to tell why your mother is acting this way, i was having sex at a young age also but was to scared to tell my mother because i did not know how she would react to the whole thing but i knew that at that point in time i did not need a ... (read in full...)
How can I convince her to keep our unborn child?
Q. Hello cupid readers.... I once came upon this site about 3 months ago, when I had just found out that I got a 15 year old pregnant. I decided to delete my old account becuse of the rude things I was told. Now I have come back for advice, but not for ...
A. 17 October 2008: Well all you can do is talk to her, i know it is scary i am 18 bout to have my baby ne time now and it is just overwhelming for a girl trust me you just have to talk to her but you also need to realize that this your child also and you do have a say ... (read in full...)
No symptoms but late period....could I be pregnant?
Q. Im 24. In the middle of august I had unprotected sex. I thought I could of been pregnant but I came on my period on 5 september. The period was a lot shorter and lighter than usual. I didnt think much of it. Now Im 4 days late for my next one. I ...
A. 17 October 2008: yes it is very possible not to scare you, but my best friend just had her first child 3 months ago and never even realized she was pregnant until she went into the doctor for a check up and her urine came back possitive for the pregnancy hormone. ... (read in full...)
I had unprotected sex. Am I pregnant?
Q. I'm 14 and me and my boyfriend had sex without a condem and I think that i'm preagnet but i'm not sure. I haven't started my period in I don't know how long and I have all of the symptoms of being preagnet. Am i preagnet?...
A. 17 October 2008: The only true way to actually know is to see a doc and it is very importan that you do. I know at your age it may be more frightning and scary to tell your parnents more than the fact that you prego but you should and it will not be as bad as you ... (read in full...)
I haven't told my family yet that I'm pregnant!!!
Q. Hello, Im a 17 year old high school senior who will graduate in June 09. This year has been a good year for me, my grades have gone from a/b honor roll with the occasional c to all a's taking dual enrollment classes and planning to leave home to ...
A. 17 October 2008: Omg, Wow your story kind of sound like my life. I am 18 and am expecting my first child in about four weeks. I was 17 when i found out that i was having a baby and it was the best and worst news i had ever gotten. Well heres the thing. Just because ... (read in full...)
How can I get over my abusive boyfriend without turning to alcohol?
Q. I went to a friends place because i was worked up about my now ex because he beats up on me. My best friend had thought i needed a drink to clear my head and calm down. She gave me 4 shots and a couple of big glasses of alcohol 9 percenters. I got ...
A. 16 October 2008: Well i know that an abusive relationship canbe tough but it is good that you are out of it and it would be wise that you stay out of it no matter how much u love him... I have struggled over the past 4 years with ans alcoholic boyfriend and it is ... (read in full...)
How do I get rid of genital warts?
Q. I need advice, I am a 47 year old male and I have genital warts. I have tried various creams with not much success clearing the problem, any advice please?...
A. 16 October 2008: im sorry but i dont think that they go away and they are very contagious... (read in full...)
My friend has stopped talking to me because I talked to a girl she didn't like.
Q. so i have a problem...i have a friend we been really close friends for bout almost 5 yrs yea we had our ups and downs but its nothng we couldnt overcome....but yea any who this time i have a problem and i dnt know how to slove it... heres the thin...
A. 16 October 2008: Well i think you need to tell your friend that she need an attitude check not to be mean but let her know how you feel tell her that if we were trully the friends you thought then this would be something stupid tell her there is nothing you can do ... (read in full...)
Why did my friend try and keep this from me?
Q. My best guy friend, Alex and me were taking a walk together (as friends). We both got hungry and pick a random restaurant. When we're there he seems to be hiding something from me. He kept getting in my way and suggesting we eat somewhere else. I ...
A. 16 October 2008: Well not to be blunt about the situation but u r way better off with out him i know that i will hurt for a while but once u find the courage inside of you u will realize that u deserve better than that and from there on out u will walk a little ... (read in full...)
I wanna have my own baby!
Q. ok im 13 and i wanna hav sex i already told ma mom to put me on the pill. she already made the appointment. i wanna have a baby wat do i do. i raised ma little brother all by myself and i loved it i want to do it again but with ma own baby. ...
A. 14 October 2008: Wow Darlin,
Im not telling you that this is not what you want but what i am telling you is that i am young also i got pregnant at 17 and am 9 months pregnant right now and it is a huge responsability, your education and a successful job need... (read in full...)
If I was pregnant, how do I tell my parents and my boyfriend?
Q. I am 15 years old. I had sex 5 days before I started my period. My parents are really religious in there Christian beliefs. If I was to be pregnant, how would I get by with telling them? and how would I tell my boyfriend?...
A. 13 October 2008: I know how you feel i may not be in the exact sitaution as you but you really need to tell them both weather you are or not, trust me this will probally be on of the most scariest things you will ever do but once its over you will feel much better ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid my boyfriend might leave me when he finds out I'm pregnant!
Q. I have a couple problems that I need help with, so can somebody please answer my call for help? 1. I might be pregnant. 2. The father is a boy who doesn't even like me. 3. I've only had sex with two guys and now everyone who knows that tr...
A. 13 October 2008: Wow all can say is to figure this out with the help of an obgyn, remember you are still very young and you have alot more to worry about in your life than if your boyfriend is going to leave you. I think you really should talk to your parents a ... (read in full...)
Does a girl have regular periods in pregnancy or not?
Q. Hey Guys, Me and my Girlfriend regularly have sex. Please note that "I DO NOT INSERT THE COMPLETE PENIS INSIDE" YOu can say that only the head of the penis goes inside and i withdraw before exploding. Now, my MAJOR CONCERN is I want to confirm ...
A. 13 October 2008: Well you can be pregnant and still have a period but it is not very normal, and sorry to tell you this butit dosnt matter how far it goes in it can happen. But if you are honestly worried about it you guys should go to see a doctor or atleast a ... (read in full...)
How do I 'make the move'? He's still a virgin too. Does anyone have any advice they could offer?
Q. okay, well i wrote a qustion on here in august, about being raped on july 18th, the moderator deleted the part of my question, but it was the worst experience of my life and i would not wish it on my worst enemy. i got some fantastic advice back...
A. 13 October 2008: i really do feel for you my current boyfriend i havebeen with for 4 years and when we started together he was a virgin and i wasnt, which to me was a little ocquard but not as much as i thhought, all it took for me to be able to (do it) was a while ... (read in full...)
I love him, but our families don't get on...
Q. hi im 30 and my boyfriend is 20, we love each other but i dont get along with his family and he dont get along with my family. what should i do? when he was locked up i was the only one there for him not his family. so should i just move on and love...
A. 13 October 2008: I am kind of in the same situation as you i love my boyfriend but hate his family, I have been seeing him for 4 years and= am expecting our first child as we speak, this has been an ongoing problem for us since day one and it is not getting ne ... (read in full...)
I'm nervous around men as I have no relationship experience, please advise.
Q. I am loiking for some advice. I am in my 20s and I have never had a boyfriend, I work with a lot of guys and have recently fallen for one of them, although I have no experience with men I always come across as a bit of a flirt because I am so ...
A. 13 October 2008: here is the best advice i can give you..... be yourself no matter what! If you get to know somebody and you realize that really like them you eed to let them see the real side of you because if you cant be straight up and comfortable with them then ... (read in full...)
I want to stop hiding my relationship from my mum but am not sure if she will understand and give her approval.
Q. i am 13 years old and i have known this guy for a year we got together and i have been with him for 5 months now. my mom doesn't approve of me dating she would most likely get mad i just don't know why she doesn't approve. i want to be open with...
A. 13 October 2008: Wow hunny i know exactly how you feel when i was your age i was so scared to tell my mom anything, but once it all started coming out she was more ok with it than i thought that she would be. Most parent dont aprove of things because they want the ... (read in full...)
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