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I had unprotected sex. Am I pregnant?

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Question - (15 October 2008) 8 Answers - (Newest, 19 October 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I'm 14 and me and my boyfriend had sex without a condem and I think that i'm preagnet but i'm not sure. I haven't started my period in I don't know how long and I have all of the symptoms of being preagnet. Am i preagnet?

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A female reader, smexi kitten United States +, writes (19 October 2008):

it sure does sound like ur pregnant to me i would take a couple pregnancy tests to be sure and u need to c a doc right away to make sure everythings ok if u r pregnant but pregnancy tests arnt always accurate and u should take more than one

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A female reader, kody08 United States +, writes (17 October 2008):

The only true way to actually know is to see a doc and it is very importan that you do. I know at your age it may be more frightning and scary to tell your parnents more than the fact that you prego but you should and it will not be as bad as you expect, but you really really need to got see a doctor asap.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2008):

It sounds to me like you're pregnant. You need a pregnancy test ASAP! I hope that you're not sweetheart. But if you are, then you need to do some growing up really fast. You need to prepare for the responsibility of motherhood.

p.s. They're spelled like "condom" and "pregnant". Not "condem" and "preagnant".

Good Luck,

MB

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2008):

It sounds like you could be pregnant, but the first thing I recommend you do is tell someone that you trust and you know will be supportive by what you say. This may be a best friend, an adult, supervisor, a parent, or even by finding a support telephone number and giving them a call and speaking to someone who is experienced and can give you good advice about what to do and how to do it.

The quicker you take action, by being responsible and having a pregnancy test, the more options you have available to you in case you are pregnant.

Stress can cause your body to delay having a period, so there is always a chance you are not. But do not sit back and do nothing, tell someone you trust what has happened, have a test and get as much information about your options as soon as you can.

Hopefully it will turn out you are not pregnant and you can put this down to a big mistake that you won't repeat, but if it does turn out you are pregnant, I'm sure you will decide what is best for you. Take care and good luck with whatever you decide to do.

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A male reader, Dr. Reality Check United Kingdom +, writes (15 October 2008):

Dr. Reality Check agony auntWhat the hell are you doing having sex if you can't even spell 'pregnant' or 'condom'? God Almighty!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2008):

If you have all the symptoms, then I guess you are.

Prepare for motherhood and the wonderful journey that awaits you.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2008):

Well if you think your pregnant, I think you should take a pregnancy test. And maybe go to a clinic to check for std's, even if you don't think your boyfriend has any std's, I highly reccomend that you get checked because its always a good idea to make sure your clean, and healthy.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2008):

Only a pregnancy test,and/or doctor can tell you for sure. You're young, your cycle is probably erratic, and there's a chance that your body is just messed up...BUT..ANYTIME there is unprotected sex there is a chance of pregnancy! I would strongly urge you to take a test, go to a family planning center, talk to a trusted older female, do something dear. You are so very young to have to deal with an unplanned pregnancy! Good luck, dear. I hope for your future that you are not pregnant.

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