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writes:okay, well i wrote a qustion on here in august, about being raped on july 18th, the moderator deleted the part of my question, but it was the worst experience of my life and i would not wish it on my worst enemy. i got some fantastic advice back, and the replies actually gave me the courage to tell my mum what had happened. since then everything has been going great, my boyfriend connor and i have been together now for nearly 10 months, not too long i know, but it honestly seems like we have been together for years. hes been my rock through everything! hes been there for me no matter what, and we are stronger than ever before, hes practically living with me now, im not gonna say the guys name on the internet because even though he is a discrace, i have no right to blurt his name. the man actually did the same thing to another girl on the same night, her family phoned the police straight away and i ended up getting questioned, the other girl had to go to court but i luckily got out of that, he is actually in prison atm,.dont know how long hes in or anything! but thank god hes been put away.. anyway, thats not my question, i do now feel ready to go as far as sex with connor, i really want to do it with him, show him how much i actually love him. ive been quite open and honest with my mum and ive told her that i feel ready for sex and i wanna 'loose my virginity' properly, specially and with connor. shes been open with me, explained everything to me, shes put me on the pill and has said she knows me and connor are going to last and are in love, and although she doesnt want to 'egg me on'... doesnt want to persuade me to start having sex, shes not gonna stop me, and shes been there for me. but i was just though that seen as last time, you gave me such great advice i was wondering if you could give me a few tips on how to approach him, like.. (ive told him im ready) (we have spoke about it, for a few weeks) but how do i 'make the move' hes still a virgin too. does anyone have any advice they could offer? sorry if this question isnt appropriate. thanks in advance! you guys are great. xxx
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reader, kody08  +, writes (13 October 2008):
i really do feel for you my current boyfriend i havebeen with for 4 years and when we started together he was a virgin and i wasnt, which to me was a little ocquard but not as much as i thhought, all it took for me to be able to(do it) was a while of talking about it and one night it just happened, trust me if your both ready it will happen when it is supposed to, but you also have to understand that not all men are sex craved as many women thing i have a besfriend who is still a virgin and i honestly respect him for it because he thinks that sex should be special
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