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writes:i have recently been going out with a guy,we both decided to slow things down because things were goin to fast and we were fallin for eachother deeply.hes confused because his ex wanted him back but she cheated on him whilst they were together in their 7 yr relationship.he took her back and they had sex but now hes realised how stupid he was and says he loves me and wants me back shes stil hassling him and its gettin him and me really down. what do i do with him?
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reader, starfairy +, writes (11 March 2008):
 Ex's are TROUBLE! I was with a guy a year, and his ex was on the case constantly. She wanted him back, and it caused no end of trouble with us because he wouldn't stand up to her and tell her where to go!
This guy sounds confused. He may not love her, but he probably misses how comfortable it felt with his ex - especially as they were together almost 10 years, it's hard getting with someone new and getting to that comfortable stage. It's also hard to break the routine of a relationship, and get into a new one.
If I was you, I would back off for a little while - this guy needs to sort his head out. He needs to get it straight that he doesn't want his ex at all, otherwise everytime you have a blip in your relationship, he will go running back to her, and your confidence and self esteem will be destroyed.
Trust me, I was there!!
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reader, kirsty_29  +, writes (11 March 2008):
 This will be short and sweet. The advice I have for you is to KEEP WALKING. This is trouble and not worth anymore of your thoughts, energy or time, what happens when the next round of confusion hits? Do you really want to allow such
dysfunction into your life?
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