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Would a guy invest his time for texting almost every hour and everyday only to get sex

Q.   Hello everyone! I am wondering, if a guy would invest his time for texting almost every hour and everyday only to get sex (my fear)? I don't know him in real life, we met online. He's charming and all that stuff. We've been texting about ...

A.   4 February 2016: Hey there - it's a tricky one. I used to think that if a guy puts all this effort being in contact it was more than sex and he was properly interested, but now im not sure. It seems like people text so easily nowadays and even have many different ... (read in full...)

Thinking of all three of them together makes me ill. Please help.

Q.   My child's father left me for my best friend. I can't seem to move on from it. It's been 6 months and it still hurts really bad. And the fact that I still have to be in contact with him because of our son makes it even harder to cope with this. Th...

A.   21 May 2008: I am so sorry you have to go through this. Off course it is very hard and it hurts a lot. How dare he??You need to think that things happen for a reason and down the line you will understand why...In the meantime all i can say, that might not seem ... (read in full...)

Broken up - what now?

Q.   I need advice towards when a person falls out of love with the significant other.You see me and my GF broke up my friends tell me that it can be the change i went thru b4 the breakup in other words i have to be back to the same way i was when we 1st ...

A.   21 May 2008: Hi there, i can't tell you "steps" for falling out of love as it depends on people and depends on why and how you broke up. One thing i can say is that, to be who you were before, you need to just be who you are now. Be yourself.Maybe you feel like ... (read in full...)

I went through his phone and he had been 'dirty talking' to some girl through texts.

Q.   I dont know what to do. I feel so hurt and trapped. I love my fiance more than anything in the world we've been together for just over a year and we've gotten engaged recently. We live together and everything has seemed perfect but just a few days...

A.   21 May 2008: i see that makes more sense. I hope you have been able to talk to him by now and that things are clearer for you. good luck, keep being strong, itll b ok in the end xxx... (read in full...)

I don't want to be with my live-in girlfriend anymore, as I'm interested in someone else! Any advice?

Q.   I have a crisis of conscience and I'm in a very sticky situation!! I having been with my current girlfriend since November. I knew her for quite a while before we got together. She moved in with me after a couple of months because she was having ...

A.   12 May 2008: I suggest stop seeing the girl you like until you end things with the girl your with-yes you kissed but do not let it go further and end it with the live-in girlfriend- you will hurt both girls less if you do it soon, and you will be really relieved ... (read in full...)

Is she cheating?

Q.   Really haven't got a clue where to start with this, my head is just in such a mess. But I hope there is someone on here that can help me , because I just don’t know what to do any more. Suppose I'd better start with some background informat...

A.   12 May 2008: Talk to her, confront her- yes you love her and off course its killin you but it seems that this amazing trustworthy relationship isnt what it was- you need to get away from her she is completely out of order, esp after you trusted her so much. Its ... (read in full...)

Is he waiting for me to get better or has he moved on?

Q.   Sorry, this is a long post. Just trying to clear certain things up in my head I guess. I was with my ex-partner for 18years, 10 of which we lived together. We never married, and never had children. But we were saving money for a house and were...

A.   12 May 2008: Perhaps there is still hope, i mean you have been with this man for so long and then without this again for a long time,so who knows what the future holds??However you need to get better without him for this relationship to ever work, it sounds like ... (read in full...)

Is there anything I can do or am I just forced to stay on the sidelines?

Q.   Me and my ex dated for 2 years 10 months ago, I still have very strong feelings for him, and he has a girlfriend, but has given me plenty of mixed signals. We're still friends, and I see him every now and then because I'm friends with one of his ...

A.   12 May 2008: What is the reason you cannot trust him?If you say a little more about your background it would be easier to advise you, but if you think you really want him back and that he will treat you well then i suggest tell him because life is short!!worst ... (read in full...)

I still can't get over him

Q.   Hello again people..my names _______ and my boyfriend for 1 year just broke up with like 2 months ago and i still can't get over him..i thought i was but other nite was prom and i seen him and when i looked at him he jsut liked stared at me..idk wat ...

A.   12 May 2008: Is that why he broke up with you?because you didnt have sex??if thats the case then i wish you not to be regretful and to be proud of yourself, for all you know he would have broken it off anyway the next day!! off course its normal that you are not ... (read in full...)

I went through his phone and he had been 'dirty talking' to some girl through texts.

Q.   I dont know what to do. I feel so hurt and trapped. I love my fiance more than anything in the world we've been together for just over a year and we've gotten engaged recently. We live together and everything has seemed perfect but just a few days...

A.   12 May 2008: I have to agree, perhaps break the engagement temporarily tell him its too soon and even though you were sure, now he's made you doubt him- he needs to prove to you he really is serious by being patient and waiting for you to be ready again n trust ... (read in full...)

I'm getting nuisance calls, what can I do?

Q.   My question is a bit strange but it is something that has been bothering me for a long time. Ok, it all started bout 8 months ago, i fell out with my bitchy best mate. A few weeks later i started getting anonymous phone calls, the number would alw...

A.   12 May 2008: Usually if i get anonymous calls, as in the number doesn't show on screen, or it says withheld, i don't pick up. If it's someone abroad they can leave a message and you will call back. if you keep picking up, whoever is doing it will keep doing it ... (read in full...)

My crush took my number, now what do I do??

Q.   My crush just took my number and he said he would call me in a few hours..god!!!! I am so nervous..what do i talk about? How do i make the conversation interesting so that he likes me too???...

A.   12 May 2008: Just be yourself, there is reason he took your number! Ask about him and his day etc, but really don't panic you will be fine!!How exciting for you! Good luck!... (read in full...)

My practical driving test is tomorrow and I can't find my theory test certificate? Please help!!

Q.   Please help me!!! My practical driving test is tomorrow and i cannot find my theory test certificate? I dont know what to do? Can anybody please please help me?...

A.   12 May 2008: Normally you should have already shown the certificate and they would've taken the number off it in order to book your practical test, so don't panic. Call them tomorrow before your test to make sure its ok though. Don't worry good luck!!... (read in full...)

My friend used to be a tomboy but now she's a girly girl! What should I do?

Q.   Hi I don't know where to start with this but I've got a friend (who I consider to be my best friend) that I've known since we were 9. We're now both 21 and I'm God Mother to her son. But recently she started hanging out with another girl tha...

A.   11 May 2008: I say talk to her, even though i understand that its hard and off course she's allowed other friends, but if you feel she is not getting her priorities straight such as her son, then its worth talking to her about. Make it seem more like you are ... (read in full...)

What if my saddness pushed her right into the arms of this new guy? How do I pry her back out again?

Q.   Dear Cupid, I find myself in quite the dilemma of the heartaching kind as i write this. Here's the back story... I fell in love with a girl and she with me. she's everything i ever wanted and much more. we connected right away in every way ...

A.   2 October 2007: Hi there, this must be so hard for you, i am sorry you have to go through this. You clearly have a strong connection with this girl and you deeply care for her. She seems to care for you too, yet some events, as you say, can be overwhelming and can ... (read in full...)

He doesn't want to be w/ me because his friend - someone I went on 4 dates with - is refusing to talk w/ him!

Q.   I am so unhappy. I am 26. I was seeing a guy (Mr A) (24) and we only met up on 4 occasions, we weren't really well suited so it didn't work out and kind of fizzled out. Before this happened tho I met his friend (Mr B)(25) and there was an instant ...

A.   18 September 2007: Oh dear that really is a tough one, poor you!But dont lose hope i think that MrB is correct by suggesting to give it time.Perhaps MrA is insecure and surprised that this happened even though it was clear that it wasnt working out between you two,but ... (read in full...)

My daughter is acting out to be with my ex and I don't know if I should trust him.

Q.   Well an update here for my problems with my ex husband that some of you know about. Its been almost 3 months since my divorce and I thought after going through all the drama with my ex, me and my daughters would and could be fine on our own. That...

A.   18 September 2007: I am very very glad that your oldest daughter saw sense and is finally staying with you!Try not to worry too much about your ex at the moment, just enjoy having your daughters with you and remember that once your girls have your back and are on your ... (read in full...)

I'm due to get married and love him but get cold feet at times, is this normal?

Q.   My boyfriend and I are planning on getting married very shortly. I'm very excited about it! And everytime I look at him, I can't help but think of how much I love him. Sometimes though, when I have a minute to sit down and put the wedding planning ...

A.   17 September 2007: Hi there, thank you for your question. It sounds completely normal to feel this way. You say you have have troubles in the past and you are worried they might come up again or that new ones will arise. I think the most important thing is to remember... (read in full...)

My daughter is acting out to be with my ex and I don't know if I should trust him.

Q.   Well an update here for my problems with my ex husband that some of you know about. Its been almost 3 months since my divorce and I thought after going through all the drama with my ex, me and my daughters would and could be fine on our own. That...

A.   17 September 2007: Hi there, This is clearly a very hard situation for you, especially as you thought everything was becoming better. You say you were happy as a family after your ex left and that you and your girls had worked through everything. Your daughter... (read in full...)

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