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I just have this bad gut feeling that the bar maid is texting my bf.

Q.   Saturday night I was out with this guy I have been seeing for about 3 months. We went to one of the Bars he is familiar with to see a band. I knew no one. Every time he spoke to someone (including a few women) he knew he would turn his back to me ...

A.   29 January 2010: just ask him.... if your not confident to do it now, u never will be! keep dropping hints to him like.... oooh, your popular with the ladies.... what do mean?... well that girl in the bar. youve got to ask him. hes probably told her to get ... (read in full...)

What can I do to prove to her it's the real deal?

Q.   I'm in love with my best friend. We've know each other for years (13 to be exact). She knows. She says that she is afraid of losing me when I've made it abundantly clear that nothing, and I mean nothing, could make that happen. I love her too ...

A.   5 January 2010: what you just said, say to her! tell her youd be in it for the real deal, your not just after 1 thing, tell her u love her, tell her u wanna be with her, just repeat what u just wrote to her. simple!! x... (read in full...)

My dream pretty much came true, how could this happen?

Q.   well, heres my problem.. i have a girlfriend.. that im totally in love with.. she loves me.. we been together for 12 months, and the other day i had a dream that my step cousin wanted to have sex with me and she was sitting in my room naked! but ...

A.   5 January 2010: im not sure i understand u here hunny, i think that it was a coincidence. i think that you shouldnt let 12months worth of a relationship go down hill, because of sex. i think that youd be really stupid to let this girl go for sex. you claim you love ... (read in full...)

I can never be bothered to make the first move

Q.   i've completely lost my sex drive and i dont know why. i've been with my boyfriend for 2 years, lived together for 1 year and for the past 4 months i have no sex drive whatsoever. Dont get me wrong, once we start having sex i really enjoy it ...

A.   5 January 2010: youve been with this man for 2 years, if you are insecure with him now, youll always be. I suggest trying it on with him in the dark! lights off will make you feel more confident! good luck chick :)... (read in full...)

Sexual tension between me and my cousin's husband!

Q.   I was at my cousin is house for a party and i got really wasted with her husband we had like shot after shot after shot long story short is we ended up making out touching and he fingered me, i didnt stop him tho, i felt horrible in the morning ...

A.   5 January 2010: your 15! this man could be on the sex offenders list for life for doing that. its sick and hes a peodophile!! to finger a 15 year old girl and hes married and a father is bad enough!! goodluck :) ... (read in full...)

We both like the same guy, would it be wrong for me to date him, if he asked?

Q.   My friend has liked this guy for quite a while now, and I also like him. I've told her that I like him too and we've promised not to get in a huge fight about it. This guy that I like likes me back, but he hasn't asked me out yet. So I don't know ...

A.   5 January 2010: no not mean, it may hurt her, but talk to her, say if he likes you and asks you, then your going to go out with him because u like him 2! but then also say, if he likes her, and asks her out then she should go out with him. be careful though b... (read in full...)

Our song is his and his ex's song too...what does this mean!?

Q.   Please help even if this is a silly question! I don't know what to think. I've just found out the mine and my boyfriend's song was his and his ex's song! What does that say about him? Should i worry that everyone time we listen to it he is thinking...

A.   5 January 2010: what is the song? i know it must hurt, so change the song... put on a different song on all the time, one that the lyrics match the way u feel together! my song with my boyfriend is tracy chapman fast car, because we both love her, he has a fast... (read in full...)

Can a relationship where both people involved have a mental illness ever work? I'm worried this could become very messy but the connection is incredible!

Q.   I recently broke up with my boyfriend of almost a year, for somebody else who can satisfy me more. My previous boyfriend did not like sex, so we never had it. I am bipolar and we frequently fought, and I would go from hating him to loving him very ...

A.   4 January 2010: i think that you should keep in touch with your ex as hes your friend aswell! i think you should end the relationship with your boyfriend! youv known him 4 2 weeks and hes really paranoid and controlling alredy. thats not healthy hun. sex isnt ... (read in full...)

Is minimal contact best way to fall out of love?

Q.   I fell for my best friend (female). Didn't say, because I was certain she didn't feel the same, although we are ridiculously close. Anyway, many of our mutual friends were convinced she did feel the same, as although she denied it verbally, her ...

A.   4 January 2010: as a woman myself, and have been through this, i suggest you ask her if she has any feelings for you, beside friendship! if she ask why do ask? just say a few mates have told you! you will tell by her reaction if she thinks the same way or not! i ... (read in full...)

Does his reply mean he cares for me at least a little?

Q.   I have a very dear friend (more like a crush) who is in Afghanistan deployed right now. I wrote to him for New Year's and I sent him in the note something like" I know I'm the last one in your friend's list,but I want you to know I care for you". I ...

A.   4 January 2010: question: does he know who it is thats writting the messages? maybe if you wrote more, hed write more back!! good luck :)... (read in full...)

Is it wrong to fancy my teacher, especially since he is the same sex and a lot older?

Q.   I am a 13 year old boy. In school, my P.E teacher (who is in his twenties...or thirties) is a close family friend. He comes round my house often and we all get along really well. He favours me over the other boys and he treats me like a really good ...

A.   4 January 2010: whatever you do DO NOT TELL HIM! reason why: 1. it would make him stop coming round to see your family 2. he would tell your parents 3. i think its just your hormones! how can you know that your gay 4 sure at 13? youve more than likely n... (read in full...)

Fishy situation... should I trust my long distance boyfriend?

Q.   ok so im seeing this guy and its long distance..hes coming back to see me soon.. he lives in ireland .. on his facebook the other day it said he was in a relationship i was so mad i didnt speak to him for days and it ruined my new years.. he wasnt ...

A.   4 January 2010: was he only single on FB because he is only seeing you and your not in any kind of relationship yet? i think that you should keep your eyes open and keep your mind clear! but dont let it ruin your potential relationship, youve told him that it... (read in full...)

Why can I not get that chemistry with someone any more?

Q.   You know the feeling you get when you just meet someone and your stomach drops because of that amazing chemical reaction? I haven't had it in almost a year. Seriously, i'm going insane, no matter what situation, who i'm with or even if it was just...

A.   4 January 2010: i disagree, i think that chemestry in a relationship is important, even though you shouldnt go out with anyone based on these feelings, they truly help, theres nothing better than having butterflies when hes around, or jumping with energy when the ... (read in full...)

Is it normal to want someone to love and hold you?

Q.   Okay so Im 14, and I have an issue I hate. I wanna no if its normal to want someone to love you and hold you like a boyfriend haha. Like half of the day I wish I had someone like that. And when someone shows interest in me, im to scared to talk to ...

A.   4 January 2010: ok, your 14, and want a boyfriend relationship, OF COURSE THATS NORMAL! but being shy isnt going to get you anywhere lovely, youve got to come across as confident and chatty, thats what boys like! girls who are desperate for a boyfriend will date ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend wants to have sex and we're thirteen, what should I do?

Q.   hey im 13 and my girlfriend who is pretty and i really love her. she asked me if i would have sex with her what do i do?...

A.   4 January 2010: you have to think about it seriously! by the soubds of it, you dont seem ready, even if she does! if you do decide to go for it, ou should use protection, and be careful! ... (read in full...)

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