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writes:hey im 13 and my girlfriend who is pretty and i really love her. she asked me if i would have sex with her what do i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, depression32  +, writes (4 January 2010):
Hey buddy as far as I know, I'm the closest to your age group. I'm 13 myself so you might want a same siders veiw point. I'm saying don't do it. it's not worth the risk of getting her pregnant. It's probably just her hormones acting up, which is perfectly fine. Trust me man I've seen how lives can get messed up just by inocence. Tell her flat out no, and give a reason. She'll understand most likely. If she doesn't and your sure you love each other, still don't have sex. Do other things. Search your questions up on the internet. you'll find other ways to make each other happy.
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reader, lipsnperoxide +, writes (4 January 2010):
I remember being thirteen and back I was eager to do sexual things to impress my friends. I decided against this as I was simply not ready at that age and it's turned out to be the best decision. My friends who lost their virginity at young ages are often ridiculed for it as the idea of self-respect becomes a lot more appealing when you get older.
I lost my virginity when I was sixteen to my boyfriend who I'm still with two years later. I can relate completely to your girlfriend as I remember the urges and desire to compete when I was that age. Whatever she decides to do, just be safe and use contraception that's the most vital thing. Don't rush into anything if you don't feel ready!
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reader, Wise Owl +, writes (4 January 2010):
There is absolutely no rush at all to have sex :) You can have it as long as you live! Just ask yourself this, how old would you be now if your mum had given birth to you at 13?
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reader, Me_117 +, writes (4 January 2010):
I am 13 aswell and I understand the situation that you are in. Reputation is on the line. I know there is a chance that the other guys might laugh at you for not going with the hot girl when you had the chance, but the truth is, they wouldn't either. Just say no and if you are afraid of peer pressure then just bring up the fact that it's like not legal and that your parents would kill you and send you to military school. ;)
I agree with mezzy, we can't really comment until we find out how serious this relationship is. How long have u been going out?
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reader, mezzy0192 +, writes (4 January 2010):
Sweety, you are way to young to have sex, how long have you had your gf first of all. Justme222 is also right.
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reader, crazy08  +, writes (4 January 2010):
You are young and innocent. If you knew that you're not yet ready having sex with then don't do it. If she's really into you she will understand, just be open with her with your feelings and doubts. This is just an advice and it's still up to you it's your decision. Hoping you'll get the answer you really need.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2010): I say wait. You both are thirteen and you just entered your teenage years! Figure out other ways to build intimacy in your relationship by getting to know each other and, more importantly, getting to know yourselves. That's what your teen years are about. I'm 17 years old, too, (almost 18) so don't think I'm an adult telling you this; I'm a kid myself. At 13, I got my first kiss! Not to say sex is wrong, but I just think you two should wait. And if she's a girl who respects herself, she'll see that you're respecting her by asking to wait a while. I wish you the best.
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reader, kayxlovesxjamiex +, writes (4 January 2010):
 you have to think about it seriously! by the soubds of it, you dont seem ready, even if she does! if you do decide to go for it, ou should use protection, and be careful!
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