My bf's friend tries to hook him up w/ other girls! They say they're joking, but my guy almost cheated on me last year! What can I do?
Q. I have a problem with one of my boyfriend's close friends, let's call him Jake. This guy Jake spoke crap (really bad stuff, like calling me a whore, a slut and stuff) when my bf n I just started going out. He said all this behind my back and was a ...
A. 16 February 2007: i think that if your bf is annoyed when you talk he needs to understand what your fealings are too! It also tells me that he and 'jake' are just being male (not sexist) playing it cool is great for them but not for you. talk to your partner through ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend likes me to go on top but I feel I'm totally useless in this position... any suggestions?
Q. Hi, My boyfriend and i have a really healthy, enjoyable sex life. However, my boyfriend likes me to go on top a lot - which i dont mind at all, I am however absolutely useless in this position! I have recently become sexually active for the f...
A. 15 February 2007: male layin on his back female stands with feet either side of his hips bring your bottie down male enters and female moves up and down you dont need to do all the work, he can move if you hover,rhythm you will grasp in time and I dont belive that ... (read in full...)
I would rather find out that he no longer cared for me than suffer in this limbo.
Q. Hello Readers, I am desperately in need of your advice. In particular I would appreciate input from people who have experienced meeting their "soul mate" and you can't understand what this is like unless you have been through it. By that I mean hav...
A. 15 February 2007: your going threw the same as what i did for over 16 years my sole mate came home to me 14 months ago. I think that you should weigh up all the people that this is going to involve realy realy think deep before you say or do anything,we all have ... (read in full...)
We split after 8 years last April. Then he dated and split w/ the girl after 2 months. We've been getting along, but now she's back!
Q. OK - I really need some advice here. I have been in an 8 year relationship with great highs and terrible lows. Unfortunately my partner developed severe back problems, such that he was bed bound and unable to stand for very long. After 6 years ...
A. 12 January 2007: if he couldnt move on from you in december and he finished it with her,that was only two weeks ago! what makes you think he can now after spending a wounderfull week with you. talk to him about how you feal and ask him too, you also say 'things that ... (read in full...)
Tend not to like a guy until I've slept with him... then I'll obsess about him!
Q. hi. i hope someone can give me some reassurance or advice on a problem i have. every time i sleep with a guy i start to really like him, and i won't be able to stop thinking about him for months and months. Every thought i have is somehow related ...
A. 11 January 2007: sleeping with them on the first date is not giving you the respect that you crave. obsessing over most guys will only turn them in the opposite direction exspecialy after 1 date you know this is rong. how do you stop? well start by not having sex on ... (read in full...)
Been together 3 years, have a baby but I am fond of someone else!
Q. Sorry did post b4 but didnt add some details I have a girlfriend i been with for 3 years. we have split up for six month but have been back together for a yr. I love her but i met this girl recently who i have been really fond with. I am only ...
A. 11 January 2007: you say she fell pregnant It takes 2 and you had the choice to wear a condom! you need to care love and look after you child this will be the most rewarding thing in your life ever! if you want the relationship to work with the mother of your child ... (read in full...)
How do I help my grieving wife?
Q. how can i help my wife whos just lost her dad. She was extremely close to him and is absolutly distrought. She gets upset an awfull lot which i can understand but she tends to hold it all back and it really hurts me to see her like that because you ...
A. 11 January 2007: loosing someone so close is HARD. every day that goes past is healin it may not seem like it but belive me its true (i lost someone 17 years ago the pain eases but has never gone away) so dont give up this will take a long long time. make a time ... (read in full...)
My friends said he liked me, then I told them his name. They say he's like that w/ everyone. Are they being truthful?
Q. So I told a couple of my girl friends what's been going between me and a guy for the past couple of weeks and they automatically said that the guy must like me, but the second I told them who it was, they instantly told me that he couldn't like me ...
A. 11 January 2007: maybe he is maybe he is not like that with everyone and your mates are being mates well sort of id ask one you trust "how come you said ..... and when you mentioned his name you ......? but then only you can decide. my addvice would be to stay as ... (read in full...)
How do I tackle my sons behaviouir since starting school ?
Q. Help ! Since my son has started school he's become very boisterous and full of himself and is getting into trouble at school. How do i tackle this ?...
A. 10 January 2007: i am a single mum of three boys 16 14 and 4. to tackle the boisterousnes you need to fined the time to teach him how to play either with cars and a garadge, be first to pick up the car hed like from time to time and when he starts look him in the ... (read in full...)
Can't handle my 2-year old anymore!
Q. my 2 year old son is really naughty and does'nt listen to anything we say he hits me and bites me when things don't go his way.meal times are a joke and always end up with his half eaten food on the floor what can i do as i can't handle him anymore....
A. 10 January 2007: you are the parent and need to take control of this behavior as soon as possible! when my son use to swear i use to put a squert of either lemon juice (what you put on pancakes) or vinegar in his mouth. when he is naugty place him on the bottom step ... (read in full...)
We hook up and then the next day, he acts like nothing happened between us! Does he like me?
Q. Ok there is this guy that we are good friends and we flirt all the time he told me he like me and I like him back, but sometimes it seems like he does not like me as much as he says, he says he will do something with me and then we wont but I talk ...
A. 10 January 2007: you are talkin like not love so lets not look into this too much. you have a attraction so dont loose it keep the flame burning and when you can throw a look his way, flirt if your looking for a relationship! and if he dont respond move on you only ... (read in full...)
After proposing, she started ignoring me so I broke it off. I want her back but she refuses! I'm so confused.
Q. I need some advice from a womans point of view I met this woman almost 2 years ago, the first year we became very good friends. After the first year we became very close and fell deeply in love. and for the past year everything was perfect. ...
A. 10 January 2007: you are in a bit of a mess, I think she is trying to push you to the limmit, in your letter you mention all that you've done flowers ect... and sure you have both said things that you both didnt mean in arguments but she has come off at the top and ... (read in full...)
I feel he thinks sex is a chore... And when we try to talk about it we end up fighting!
Q. I am 45 and my partner is 28. He says he loves me and our age does not bother him. But he is not very compassionate and when I am upset he does not try to make me feel better. Our sex live is not what I want it to be. We may only have sex once a ...
A. 10 January 2007: your using all your energy on arguing you need to talk or better make mad passionate love!! maybe he doesnt have a high sex drive and you need to input a deeper sensation into his way of thinking. you dont say how long you have been together but if ... (read in full...)
Since our split I've felt my life is a boring routine. I've also developed feelings for my best friend!
Q. So I recently broke up with my boyfriend, and I'm going through a really rough time at home as well. Lately I've just felt really down and depressed, like theres no point in my life and that it's just like a routine I have to do everyday. I still ...
A. 10 January 2007: The fealings you have/had for your ex will pass all in good time, time is a great healer!! but your friend on the other hand will be there for life, your right in thinking the fealings you have for her are true but you are allowed to love your ... (read in full...)
I couldn't get it up when we were going to make love. Is it nerves? What can I do?
Q. HI, im 22, met a really nice girl just before christmas, probaly to nice for me, but she does really like me. anyway, went to hers the other nite and was going to make love but i couldnt get or sustain a full erection, this was my first time so im ...
A. 10 January 2007: hi you have nothing at all to fear the little man will soon be a big man! once he has had a taste he wont be able to get enough. all males have nerves the first couple of times and im sure that this is what you have, maybe if you light a candle ... (read in full...)
I'm prepared to do anything to get her back. Any advice?
Q. hi, just wondering if anyone out there has any advice to get my girlfriend back? we had been 2gether 10 1/2 years (engaged for 5) and i thought everything was fine, geting on as normal etc. then out of the blue 2 weeks before xmas she told me she ...
A. 10 January 2007: firstly if you are realy in love with her you have no reason to find someone elce so the contact you have now can grow! put the sparkle back in your eyes that won her over the first time!! not the desparation your fealing and when you meet tomorrow ... (read in full...)
Should we get back together after both of us cheated on each other?
Q. My ex and i took a break about two months ago, it was my desicion, mostly because I thought he wasnt happy, we have a lonnng history (hes cheated, i have) and also because i liked someone else..instead of cheating, i wanted to do the right thing. T...
A. 10 January 2007: this is not going to be easy, first id find out if they were/are having sex, if they are then stop havin sex with him yourself! this will show that your changing your ways. when you see him be normal and happy, like you were when the attraction ... (read in full...)
Could lots of sex do this?
Q. Does having a lot of sex make a womens labia big. Or is it because she has been with "big" men. Or are you just born with it. Please edjucate me!...
A. 10 January 2007: if you think about it men come in different sizes and shape so do females! this doesnt mean that she has had lots or "big" partners. their are exersises however, that can be done to tighten up inside the vagina, also the main female sex organs, the ... (read in full...)
How do other moms handle bus trips?
Q. I have to kids, one's 19 mons and the other one is 3 weeks old, I don't have a car, so I have to be riding bus I don't know how to handle this...
A. 4 January 2007: i have 3 sons and traveled by bus for years, no one wants to help you get on yet they cant wait for you to sit down. if i were you i would have the youngest in a babycarrier and your toddler in a folding light weight buggie with either reins or a ... (read in full...)
My kids' father left 15 years ago and now he's back and in love w/ me. But he feels bad asking his current lover to move out!
Q. My 2 childrens father walked out on us 15 years ago and on Nov 7, 2006 came back into our lives. He owns a home and has a woman and her son (18yrs old)living with him. Not far from where we live. He says they are not happy and we have connected ...
A. 4 January 2007: i can relate to your cry for help, i to got left 16 years ago and back with the love of my life and yes we got/have difficulties. my addvice to you would be to tell him how you feal and if he starts the ball rolling then just make sure it dont stop ... (read in full...)
It's hard to get my circumsised bf to cum - any advice?
Q. Hey please help me, my boyfriend and I have been going out 6 months, we're both 15. He is circumcised, so I know it's harder for him to cum. The other weekend I gave him my first blowjob and handjob. I didn't make him cum. Is it possible to make him ...
A. 4 January 2007: i think you should put a room all sexy light candles put music you both can relax to and invite your boyfriend round and when you feal ready make your move. i dont think you got to speed things up for him to cum just make the sensations great, ... (read in full...)
My future son in law gambled all his money away. We had an argument over it, but I want to keep the peace. Help!
Q. Please help urgently if you can.. My daughters fiance and I had a big argument today. He thinks he is in the right,and I know I am in the right.He was drinking all day at the casino and lost all his money,while my daughter went shopping.They ar...
A. 4 January 2007: most parents want the best for their siblins thats natural but what you want isnt going to be what your daughter needs. I would make a time for your daughter and son in law to call or go to them asap to say that not everyone can get along with ... (read in full...)
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