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writes: Hey please help me, my boyfriend and I have been going out 6 months, we're both 15. He is circumcised, so I know it's harder for him to cum. The other weekend I gave him my first blowjob and handjob. I didn't make him cum. Is it possible to make him cum from a blowjob? And how can you speed up how long it takes him to cum from a handjob? Any lads who are circumcised got any tips to help? Any women/girls who have/had a boyfriend who was circumcised got any tips? I'd be so grateful for anything! Thankyou!! XX
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reader, mack76  +, writes (13 October 2009):
i'm circumcised and never have any problems coming. if you are giving a hand job you should use some lubrication and really work the head of his dick. i'm 18 and get girls to do that all the time and it always works. also when i'm having sex i don't use condoms as it feels less sensitive
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2008): Well im 16 and circumsized and i have no prblem cumming ive been cuming/ getting blow/handjobs from when i was 11 till now and i never had a problem. I would say when giving a handjob to your bf dont hit the tip try it and also sit down and talk to him and see what he likes blah blah
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2008): I have had similar problems. everyone is different. some guys cum more easily than others. As most people have said, technique is the key. Try different things, not just up and down his c**k. try saying sexy things, dressing sexy, strip-teasing for him, and playing with his dick. When you give a handjob get him really horny, and start slow just play with it and tease him so he'll want the hand/blow job badly--it'll make him hornier. Keep going slow and try different things with your hands two hands or just your pointer finger and thumb gripping it or maybe one hand holding on at the base while the other slides up and down. When trying a new thing, ask in a sexy way if it feels good like, "does that feel good, baby?" Also, so its not awkward, ask him (when your on the phone or aim--not while hooking up) about what he likes and what turns him on when getting head or handjobs. Also, use lots of lube i recommend flavored lube by the brand "wet" its great for blowjobs! Be safe if you have sex, and have fun trying new things!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2007): It might be down to sensitivity. I am circumcised and at the same age the head was still too sensitive for vigorous handjobs. Take it easy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2007): My penis is circumcised and I have no trouble cumming with a blow job but I am a lot older. I don't think there is any difference between foreskin penis or not with blow jobs but with masturbation one should be a little more gentle and not rub the penis roughly as it doesn't have the protection of a foreskin and it will hurt the male if not lubricated well. Most folk are saying no underage sex, whilst I agree with that, I still did it with my g/f at your age but with all these sexual problems these days you must take care and good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2007): Hello Hypergirl,I can understand that it can sometimes be hard to get him to cum! Like your boyfriend, I am also circumcised (thank goodness!!!!). My girlfriend also often has problems in getting me to cum.You should watch what he does when he masturbates and try to replicate that as far as you can.When you have mastered the technique, both your boyfriend and you will both be so glad that he has been curcumcised!!Pete
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reader, XxdepthxX +, writes (5 January 2007):
 lol me and my mate had the same convo a couple of days ago, its just perseverance and technique just keep at it at try new things see what works for him!
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reader, fairyprincess +, writes (4 January 2007):
 As far as I'm aware there is no difference in making your bf cum, so there should be no trouble, it will be your technique which just needs sorting out and as you are only 15 you have plenty of time to perfect it, i say dont rush into anything i dont condone underage sex, but if you do wish to take it that far make sure you use the proper precautions and do not get forced into anything you dnt want to do.
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reader, passthechocolate +, writes (4 January 2007):
It sounds to me like your boy just has a problem cumming from a blowjob. It just doesn't turn him on as much as penetration. My partner has the same problem. I find that he likes to be squeezed (as if it's my muscles contracting around him) and nibbled down the vein on the underside of his penis. Experiment with different pressure points and ways of pleasuring him instead of just sliding up and down with your mouth. also, if your boobs are large enough try letting him slide in between. Most guys absolutely love this!
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reader, Goosie31 +, writes (4 January 2007):
I'm circumcised, I had that experience with blow job and handjob, it's harder for me to cum from a blow job it took quite long, it took my girlfriend two months in the relationship to make me cum by blow job, she improved her technique and she kept on persevere and she did it. As for handjob, lubricant is the best bet. I dont agree with undeage sex, be careful.. be safe..
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reader, jabey +, writes (4 January 2007):
As a 36 year old woman, and quite a fair bit of experience in the blow job department, I have found that some men, do take a lot longer in cuming than others. Some seem to cum very easily when given a blow job but I do know other men who take longer. So in those cases it take quite a while can be a little jaw aching, but persevere keep going girl and he will come. Ive never used lubricant just lots of saliva will do !! And use the hand action. And most of all dont take it personally. I also agree at 15 I would not have known how to give a blow job ! Be safe and carefulxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2007):
You are barking up the wrong tree. Circumcised guys have NO issuing cumming. And I really doubt its any more difficult for them.
What you need to look at is your technique. You are inexperienced- big deal, you are supposed to be at 15. You need to work out some non-verbal signals where he gives you feedback on what is working and what isnt.
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reader, kath +, writes (4 January 2007):
 i think you should put a room all sexy light candles put music you both can relax to and invite your boyfriend round and when you feal ready make your move. i dont think you got to speed things up for him to cum just make the sensations great, massage with baby oil is good not just his penus, all over. good luck xx
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reader, Ponungalungb  +, writes (4 January 2007):
 I've been circumcised all of my life and never had any problem in the cuming department, so I never knew it was harder. You learn something new every day. LOL.
As far as techniques go, I've never had a bad blowjob. I'll let a female answer that one for you, however. You might try a lubricant for the handjob.
Good luck, and stay safe!
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reader, d4u04 +, writes (4 January 2007):
 It is possible to make him cum from a blow job yes, but just because you didn't make him the first time you did it, doesn't mean you never will. While I don't condone underage sex, if you're safe about it then that's fine. The only thing I can think of to suggest to make him cum quicker is get some sort of sexual stimulent maybe? I don't know where you live but in England the most famous sex shop is Ann Summers and they do some sensual oil for blow jobs, aptly called 'dick lick,' but if you don't live in England I'm sure there will be some sort of equivilent wherever you live.
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