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writes: My ex and i took a break about two months ago, it was my desicion, mostly because I thought he wasnt happy, we have a lonnng history (hes cheated, i have) and also because i liked someone else..instead of cheating, i wanted to do the right thing.Things didnt work out with the other, and I decided i wanted to get back with my ex. I took his love for granted and I wanted to fix it. It seems as though hes been hanging out with an old friend of his that suddenly reappeared as she texts/calls him everyday, and hes blown me off for her...we see each other almost every day and sleep together, and he says eventually well get back together....am i wasting my time? what does everyone think? I want to prove that Im ready to change, but I dont want to be a fool
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2007): move on, you took him for granted and cheated on him, by what youve said hes found someone he likes and want to move on. do the same
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reader, ols523 +, writes (10 January 2007):
ols523 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI've asked him if anything is going on but he denies it...he says theyre just friends, but when shes out with him and their other friends, he wont let me meet up, and like i said before, they text/call each other everyday and i know for a fact that theyve hung out a few times, it could be way more, but he would never tell me..thats the hard part, i dont know if he needs time because he is hurt by the break, or if he needs time to figure out which girl he wants
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2007): ok, you cheated on him, hes cheated on you, you say you left him after falling for someone else, now hes gone with someone else.
other than you still meet for casual sex, you have nothing in common, your both using each other and by the sounds of it both have no morality as you seem incapable of staying in a faithfull relationship.
move on, get a partner and for god sake if you cant be faithfull just stay single
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reader, kath +, writes (10 January 2007):
 this is not going to be easy, first id find out if they were/are having sex, if they are then stop havin sex with him yourself! this will show that your changing your ways. when you see him be normal and happy, like you were when the attraction first took place because "eventually" isnt good enuff for you. good luck and flurt you never know a Mr.new may walk past.
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