How can I kick her out?
Q. I broke up with my partner about 3 weeks ago as her behaviour has been awful and disrespectful in the last few months getting worst up to the day we broke up. I then discovered she was cheating on me. I caught her once before and forgave her 2 years ...
A. 11 June 2012: If the house you live in is entirely yours than you get to make the choice.
You are the man and you have a child. So you do everything to protect the life of your baby.
I think you know what to do. You want the child to still have a mot... (read in full...)
Is it bad to stop wanting to be friends with people where our values and outlooks are different?
Q. Hi Aunties, I have an issue that is bothering me because I feel like my character is becoming flawed and I am changing into someone that I am not sure I want to become. It might be a long one, so I apologise in advance. I am 34 years old. I hav...
A. 11 June 2012: You are not bad for wanting to get far away from these two people.
They are negative and you want to be positive. What you need to do if you have not done is to talk to them properly, maybe you can invite them for a dinner. Give them a gift and... (read in full...)
He means the world to me, but treats me like a sister. Do I tell him my feelings?
Q. I am in love with my best friend of 5+ years. I don't mean that idiotic "isn't he just so amazing and cute" kind of love that takes a few months to get over, i mean love as in...I love his faults, i love the way he always speaks his mind, I love...
A. 11 June 2012:
If you are 99% percent sure he is not into you than you know he is not into you.
You do not want this friendship to end but it will eventually because you are not being honest with him.
Take some out from him, readjust your life, maybe spe... (read in full...)
Will I be judged as a bad person if I go 'no contact' with my parent?
Q. Just wondering, is it better to honor a parent that usually has nothing positive to say about your life, and usually puts you down about your appearance, your home, your way of handling finances, raising your child etc. Or just to go cold turkey and ...
A. 11 June 2012: Its your call. Do you want Respect? than you will tell your family that they better quit saying mean stuff to you because you are not having it any more. You need to have the courage to tell them that what they have been doing for a long time ... (read in full...)
How do I know if he cares and wants to be more than friends with benefit?
Q. How do i know if he wants to be more than friends with benifits ? how can i Find out if he cares? How do i realize if im just another girl to him?...
A. 11 June 2012: Ask yourself why are you being a friend with benefits?
Friends with benefit actually work in the guys favour, while it may work in your favour for a while, its you who has strong feelings for him. So you see.
I say even though you like ... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant and don't even know the guy's last name!
Q. im gonna make it short. im 16 and about 2 months ago i went to a rave and got with this way older guy that poped my cherry and said hes got "it" under control and obvi. didnt it was the worst thing in my life he wasnt gental at all and i just found ...
A. 11 June 2012: Wow, listen first thing first you need to talk to someone (someone face to face in confidentiality), if not possible, call a help line. I should not influence your decision but are you really ready to have a baby? The way out may just be an a... (read in full...)
Does my online love want me or not?
Q. I was in an online relationship for 2 years. They were truly blissful years. He understood me. Every moment was exciting. He was hilarious.. he got all my jokes and FINALLy there was someone who on my wavelength. After 2 years.. I feel like it has ...
A. 11 June 2012: you need to meet this guy face to face before you can really say you love him or if he really loves you. On- line is living on a virtual world where things are not really 'real'.
I had guys claim they love me on - line but its not real, you can ... (read in full...)
He's the worship leader at his church and shamed of being gay!
Q. Ok so I posted an ad on Craigslist stating how disappointed I am with the gay community because it seem like most of the gay guys just want sex..so this really nice guy responded to my ad and said that he could relate to me because hes tired of the ...
A. 11 June 2012: The best way to help him is to remind him that you are always there to help him and be a good friend. you can't pressure him to do anything because ultimately he needs to find a source of courage and do it himself. He has a choice either to... (read in full...)
In love with two men...and my boyfriend doesn't know!!
Q. Hello I need help or advice with a problem I created for about 6 years. Im in love with two people and my boyfriend doesnt know about the other man. I met my boyfriend now father of my two year son about 6 years old. We were both young and we had m...
A. 11 June 2012: I have to be honest,
it sounds like you need to clear your head.
You got into a relationship too soon and had a baby too young, so what did you expect.
I say take some time out and ask yourself what do you want.
And talk to guy numbe... (read in full...)
As a guy, I am asking girls, Is it true that attractive girls choose guys the way I am suggesting?
Q. If there were no marriage, and contraception was 100% effective, it seems to me that generally speaking, girls (specifically, girls in the hottest 20%), would choose guys based on rank/status relative to other guys. Not that these girls would choo...
A. 11 June 2012:
seriously, is this what you will spend your day thinking about? But if you want to know the answer, yes, hot girls want a guy who is ranked high. The idea is the hot girl provide beauty (that's her asset) the dude provides her with securit... (read in full...)
I try to be nice to others. Why is it not reciprocated? Why is it so hard to make friends?
Q. I'm feeling really upset and low; I'm trying not to dwell but I just feel awful right now. I don't have anyone that I can socialize with due to my unfortunate past. However, I realized I need to start putting myself out their and going after thin...
A. 11 June 2012: Are you implying that your problem with people is that you are too nice? Listen, people can smell desperation from far away. Its how life works. When you want something it eludes you. So this is what I do, I will be nice to people if I choo... (read in full...)
She said that she can never love me but kissed me!
Q. She is not in contact with her bf anymore now.. We have kissed when she considers me as her friend..! She said that she can never love me..! And thats because of her x-bf, should wait..? Is there any chance that she will love me as her life ...
A. 11 June 2012: She kissed you because
1) she knows you want her
2) she feels lonely
3) she wants physical touch
If she goes on about her ex than she is still into him. You want her but she is not ready for a new relationship.
Best thing to do is stay ... (read in full...)
Do you have to be physically attracted to someone to have sex with them?
Q. I think I worded a question wrong the other day, but what I really wanted to know is do men sleep with women that they aren't physically attracted to, especially more than once. I think my suggested question title got changed and people basicall...
A. 11 June 2012: Men can and do sleep with women who are not attractive.
If the woman has sex appeal and she is confident than yes, they do sleep with her more often. Its not the case of someone being beautiful, sex and love are different things, a men does not... (read in full...)
Is this more than a sex buddy?
Q. I have a sex buddy , im always understanding torwards him i dont want him to think im so demanding or clingy so i play it off there are times when i get jeleous and show it like last week we were in the pools and my friend slashed water at him so i ...
A. 11 June 2012: You should know that being someone sex buddy is what you are just a sex buddy. You see he may or may not like you, but what he sees in you is that you are meeting his sexual needs, and he may see that he is meeting your sexual needs. Guys and ... (read in full...)
What are some things about a guy that a teenage girl likes?
Q. what are some things about a guy that a teenage girl likes? I am an awesome artist, or at least im told so, and i am quiet, smart, but make stupid choices sometimes. my grades are good and I got a high overall average last quarter. im only 14...
A. 11 June 2012: This is my first time as agony aount on this site. But here it goes. You are a artist, and if people tell you you are good at it than take it and believe it. However it does not matter what others think as much as you think about yourself... (read in full...)
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