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... Send *ustChillin a private message | | | *ustChillin's profile:Well, first off...I'm a "born and bred" Texan, currently reside in the BIG D of Texas!! =)) I'm a mature, notice I said "mature", NOT OLD, because even at wonderful age of 50, I feel far from OLD!! I don't feel, look or act my age!! Most take me for late 30's early 40's. I can easily relate and interact with people of all ages. However, even with the fact that I'm from the "Baby Boomers", I find that I can best interact with and be a mentor type to the younger generation, typically of "Generation X". I raised two adorable daughters, successfully!! They're now on their own raising their own families! I'm a very strong-minded lady and can even be considered opinionated at times, but truth is I like giving advice...and guess what it's FREE!! =)) I enjoy receiving advice as well, as there are times that I'm stumped as to what to think and do about situations that come up in my life. =))
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Looking for a light at the end of the tunnel...
Q. I've been single for a while now and I'm quite sick of people flaunting their boyfriends around in front of me. I'm fine with being by myself. I love who I am and don't have a care in the world, but my friends are so annoying when that's all they ...
A. 15 January 2009: Love your confident attitude about being happy with who you are! You should be! =D
As far as your friends flaunting their BF's, is it possible they're not doing it on purpose? Maybe it's just a case of you hang with your GF's and their BF... (read in full...)
I just found out I'm pregnant from a one-night stand! What should I do?
Q. hello everyone and cupid, im 18 years old and my adult life is goin great, but sepemtember, my friends, azlynn and alanna, invited guys from murfreeboro, of course they were from a band called [moderator removed identifying details]. We all got a ho...
A. 14 November 2008: I don't mean to be so blunt...but it appears you've already done two stupid things!! One, by having UNPROTECTED SEX with someone and two, having SEX with someone you met one time!! =/ But, now that you are in this predicament...yo... (read in full...)
I want to have sex with him because I know he's leaving in 8 months.
Q. I am 14 years old dating a foreign exchange student who will be leaving in 8 months. We've been only dating exactly a month and I want to have sex with him because I know hes leaving and I need to fast forward... I know it's too soon and I'm too ...
A. 4 November 2008: Why would you do that to yourself? Seriously, why would you have sex at age 14, and why would you have sex with someone that is going to be moving away.
Why don't you just go out on the streets and become a streetwalker (prositu... (read in full...)
How do I get her to like me?
Q. im trying to get this girl to like me, shes a year below me and im 16. i have met her once but we have been texting for a few weeks now. i think she think likes me a bit as well however the downfall is im not very good with women at all. could ...
A. 4 November 2008: With the fact that you've only met this girl once, it might be a bit more difficult for you to get her to like you. But, first you need to let her get to know you before you can see if she likes you.
Fact is you two don't really know one anot... (read in full...)
I told my girl cousin that I am in love with her...
Q. I told my girl cousin that i am in love with her...and now i regret it. Let me tell a few things about myself: I am an 18 year old boy and i am love with my 19 year old cousin. This might be a long and confusing story, so i will apprecia...
A. 29 October 2008: Hun, wow...what an awkward situation you have experienced and it sounds as though your cousin was trying to help you out of this by saying she hoped that you could keep your "cousin" relationship. It's very understandable that you thought you were ... (read in full...)
My world is total devastation, caused by an affair!
Q. Hello, My world came to a crashing an total devastating end at the end off July when I found out my wife of 25 years and my partner and soul mate as I seen it of 27 years finally admitted that she was and had been having an affair with her teacher ...
A. 28 October 2008: Dear James45,
I'm so sorry for the pain you must certainly be feeling right now. However, I'm going to suggest that after so many years with your wife, don't be so quick to just throw it all away.
Yes, your wife has done a horrible thing b... (read in full...)
How can I "talk dirty" to my boyfriend?
Q. How can I talk dirty to my boyfriend to turn him on more? Just to make our sex life better? ...
A. 26 October 2008: First off, you seem a little young to be having SEX!! But now that you've already tasted that fruit, I guess it will be hard for you to turn back now. =/ So, since you've put yourself in an adult situation by having sex, here is what I would sug... (read in full...)
Boyfriend or bestfriend, I NEED help...
Q. It was my 17th birthday last month, ive been seeing my boyfriend for just over a year, he is the sweetest and funest guy ive ever went out with, he has never cheated or hurt me, he always texts to say he loves me and misses me. I've started g...
A. 26 October 2008: Awhhhhhh the glory of youth..."Puppy Love"..."First Crush"..."Infatuation"...hun you're 17...you'll experience many of these things as you grow up.
I would suggest that before you hurt your (year long) boyfriend's feelings, if you really d... (read in full...)
How do I leave him without hurting my children?
Q. I have two sons and I am tired of their father cheating on me with other women and denying it. How can I leave this man that I love and who is the father of my two children without hurting my children? ...
A. 26 October 2008: How do you know your husband has cheated on you? Have you physically caught him cheating, or do you have solid evidence that he has cheated on you?
If he is in fact cheating on you, then you need to confront him, but not in front of your chi... (read in full...)
I'm being blamed for something I didn't do, so should I feel bad?
Q. Ok my feelings are hurt and I want to know if I could have done anything differently. My friend of 5 years who I talk to off and on is pregnant, newly married and just finally got her own place. I had been asking for a few months when we could ha...
A. 26 October 2008: Well, it does sound like you are the more mature one in the friendship. That's too bad that your friend got herself into a situation where she got pregnant after only dating the guy for a couple of months. Wish the best for them, as they're going ... (read in full...)
I'm being blamed for something I didn't do, so should I feel bad?
Q. Ok my feelings are hurt and I want to know if I could have done anything differently. My friend of 5 years who I talk to off and on is pregnant, newly married and just finally got her own place. I had been asking for a few months when we could ha...
A. 25 October 2008: Unfortunately, you two are at different places in your lives now. You are single, she is now married and on top of that she is an expectant mother. I'm sure her priorities have changed. Try to be more understanding.
By all means, don't gi... (read in full...)
Why does my wife want to "just play" and not have sex?
Q. all my wife wants to do is give me head or jerk me off and all i want is to touch her but when i do she says no or stop i dont want to have sex i just want to play to it feels like its been like this for months ...
A. 23 October 2008: I'm in total agreement with Miss Potter's answer. Great answer! =))
Health was the first thing that popped into my thoughts when I was reading your question. It is very possible that she could have some female things going on and she is not c... (read in full...)
She can't date me until she's 16! What can we do?
Q. i have liked my friend for 1 year or less but she cant go out with anyone till she is 16 and we r the same age wat should i do should i take her out to the movies but not for a date...
A. 22 October 2008: Good for her parents...not allowing her to date until she is 16. I didn't allow my daughters to date until that age. I think kids try to grow up way too fast as it is.
Now, for what you two can do in the meantime, I would think that both of ... (read in full...)
My husband wants me to have sex with another man?
Q. i need an opinion. i've been married to my husband for 13 years, my husband can't stop thinking about me having sex with another man. we agreed to try swinging a few times even though i was back and forth about it i tried it for him, after ...
A. 22 October 2008: Wow...this whole "Swingers Lifestyle" thing has me scratching my head!! Is this something that has now given us a license to CHEAT...out in the open...in front of our spouses...including, with our spouses??!! Can someone just say ORGY!!
Pleas... (read in full...)
Should I give him back his ring?
Q. okay this is going to sound REALLY dumb after my last post I just did... but my bf of 9 months dumped me last night.. He didn't even have the courage to tell me in person, or even through a phone call! He did it over texting, around midnight...
A. 21 October 2008: Dinosaurexx~
Sorry to hear that you just experienced that kind of break up. Not a very nice way to break up, but some guys can be jerks in that respect. Just know that you'll get over this...and you'll move on to your next BF...as he'll mo... (read in full...)
Could my boyfriend be gay?
Q. I have been dating this extremely nice thoughtful almost perfect guy, but I can't help to think that he might be gay. He is 32 years old, has never been married and has very little dating experience. He has some female mannerisms such as crossing ...
A. 21 October 2008: The first question you need to ask yourself, is "do you enjoy going out with this guy"? Well if you do, then quit trying to "pick" him apart. As it seems you are being very judgemental of him, which could be a good indication that you two are not ... (read in full...)
Proving my love for him? How do I do this?
Q. I am 18 and seeing a 27 year old, we are in love and we got in a arguement the other day. he told me that I need to prove to him that I still wanna be with him.. How do I prove to him that I wanna be with him?...
A. 19 October 2008: Well Babygurl~
First off, there is a 9 year difference between your ages. You being 18, the "love" you are feeling for this 27 year old, is probably nothing more than what is termed as "puppy love" or infatuation. You are still very young an... (read in full...)
I am wondering what this is doing to my body?
Q. Hey, I was just wondering what this is doing to my body. At the moment I am eating nothing all week apart from on Fridays when I have a binge. After this binge I am sick but I only make myself sick three times after each binge, no more and no less....
A. 18 October 2008: Well...I can answer that first hand...you see I had an eating disorder for many years in my late teens and early twenties. It most certainly is NOT good on your body and it will do damage to your teeth, as I've had to spend quite a bit of money in ... (read in full...)
My wife has been masturbating a lot lately and I'm distraught she's doing it without me!
Q. My wife has been masturbating a lot lately. She has stated that she had never even masturbated before. She is now 44 and she masturbates regularly. I have figured out that she masturbates at least 4 times a night when I work nights. Even if I leave ...
A. 18 October 2008: OMGawd...would you rather her be "doing the deed" with another man...or her sex toy(s)? In case you're not aware...women have their sexual peak, or more of a sex drive in their forties. My suggestion to you...is you'd better step up to the plate ... (read in full...)
He won't "jump through ANY hoops" in this relationship. What does a guy really mean when they state something like that?
Q. My Boyfriend of 3 years, recently made a statement to me that he won't "jump through ANY hoops" in this relationship. What does a guy really mean when they state something like this?...
A. 16 October 2008: Thanks so much for all of your answers on this one. They're ALL great answers!! What makes it even harder on me...is that I LOVE this man unconditionally, unfortunately it appears that with his nonchalant attitude towards our relationship...he ... (read in full...)
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