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writes: i have liked my friend for 1 year or less but she cant go out with anyone till she is 16 and we r the same age wat should i do should i take her out to the movies but not for a date Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2008): I've had the same principals for my daughter...we've allowed her to 'group date' (a large group of friends go to movies, events...) She's probably involved with her youth group at church...you should go too. The teenagers have good times together and strengthen friendships...Take Care.
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reader, fabian_rap_more +, writes (22 October 2008):
Yes. Taking her to the movies as just a friend would be the best thing to do. Or you could try reasoning with her parents but that will probably not work out.
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reader, feelsgoodwoman +, writes (22 October 2008):
You can meet up with friends as a casual get together, study at her place supervised. If you like her as much as I think you do, you will appreciate any time you can get with her! Talk to her meet her parents, you are going to eventually anyways!
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reader, JustChillin +, writes (22 October 2008):
Good for her parents...not allowing her to date until she is 16. I didn't allow my daughters to date until that age. I think kids try to grow up way too fast as it is.
Now, for what you two can do in the meantime, I would think that both of your parents should get involved. What I mean by that, it there are places that your parents can take you and then pick you up. The movies, the mall are good choices. I mean let's face it, you're not a licensed driver, so it's not like you can go pick up your GF and take her on a date anyway. =))
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2008): I could not date until I was 17. Taking her to the movies is a date. I suggest meeting at libraby, with a group, to study or meeting up at other group activities so you can get to know each other better. Don't push the situation if you want to remain on her parents good side and gain their respect.
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