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writes:ok, so i have never dated a girl before and I`m just scared that I might not be spontanius (sorry for spelling), romantic, or brave enough in a relationship with a girl. I`m the kind of guy that doesn`t have a problem playing games and surfing the web all day. I`m also shy and like to think things out not rushing into things, but based on what I have read on the interent girls like spontanius guys and I don`t know if I`m spontanius or how to be spontanius. I also don`t know if I would know what to do after I started dating a girl. Please give me some advice.
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reader, jujubelover +, writes (5 July 2010):
 Please don’t worry about being spontaneous, there are girls that will love you just the way you are. Spontaneity is sometimes soverrated. I adore shy guys and have always had a soft spot for them. Thank heavens we all like different kinds of people. Just be yourself and things will happen. It’s like magic; when you least expect it, the right person or persons will come into your life! Have a great time and remember the old adage,” if at first you don’t succeed try and try again”!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2010): It is natural to not know how to approach girls especially at your age. My advise would be that you are thinking to far ahead. Start by hanging out with girls more, make some friends that are girls.
If you do find a girl you really like and she likes you, you will learn from each other' she will help you. A first relationship always has awkward moments, but hey you're young and you have to learn sometime. Most people don't marry the first person they date; at your age I would keep things somewhat cool, but have fun. Again my first advise, make some friends.
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reader, GuitarFreak  +, writes (5 July 2010):
 I'm a shy guy too, coming off my first relationship with a girl. I can say that some girls just like shy guys, and they don't care if you aren't spontaneous. They are hard to find mind you, but there are girls who are willing to get a guy out of his shell. You have to come out of your shell in some way if you want to meet girls though. I did it at a school dance, I was nervous but once I came out of my shell a bit I had a blast. Don't worry about what to do once you start dating, take it one step at a time.
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