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writes:Are there any girls out there that prefer an uncircumcised man? I just had a girl in a club push me into a bathroom stall in the mens room. After some kissing she got on her knees, and unzipped my pants. When she saw my stuff, she visibly recoiled and said, "sorry, I just can't.". What was going to be this crazy sexual conquest turned I to my biggest humiliation. I can't explain how self conscious I now feel now. Do any of you girls actually ilk uncircumcised penises?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2010): Kinda silly. I like the large labia comparison. Some men find meat curtains disgusting. I find them kida hot and they feel good. Similarly, all women I've been with ooze whitish smeg once in a while. I've gone down on them anyway, and while it may have offered a brief whiff or taste that was off-putting for a moment, my sex drive countered it. Hell, many men like anal, and that tends to not be totally clean and odor free. So to all these woman who have aversions to a mans fluids, smells or appearances, I say get over it. We men do for you. It is natural, and if you are into a man enough to suck him off, be prepared for "natural" things down there.
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (9 August 2010):
 I love uncircumsized. She was being silly.
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reader, jujubelover +, writes (8 August 2010):
 My first boyfriend was uncircumcised and I loved giving him bj and I had no idea he was uncir. The other men in my life have been circumcised and I've loved givng them bjs too. I believe this girl was immature and very insensitive. Remember quality not quantity. When you are in a meaningful relationship she will hopefully be loving, caring and will love you just the way you are. The sponteneity thing is really overrated you really don't get quality girls; you mostly get neandrathal girls (yes, there are a many out there). I'm sure you will find kinder, sweeter and more loving girls than her. Best wishes.
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reader, alex74 +, writes (8 August 2010):
 Why in the hell would you care what a skank who would push a guy into the stall of the men's room, get on her knees IN A MENS ROOM, unzip his pants and possibly take his penis in her mouth thinks about anything? You should be relieved that such a putrid vector didn't infect you with anything and start looking for a more meaningful relationship. If you find a woman who loves you---- size, foreskin, etc won't matter. I've been with a girl who has been with an uncut guy and her complaint was hygiene. Keep it clean and you'll be fine.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2010): Dude more than half men around the world are uncircumcised. This practice is now going down and even in states, it is going down. Whole India, NJ, Australia and Asian countries etc etc, circumcision is not required in the religion and no one does that.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (7 August 2010):
 Again, can I ask.. why all this talk about being clean or smelly? Circumcised men can smell too!!! The foreskin naturally cleans itself, just like a woman's vagina. All this talk about needing to clean down there is actually a bit off. It is not particularly more dirty down anyones crotch, circumcised or not, than it will be on any other part of your body. Your face and hands I reckon is dirtier since it is always exposed to the environment and whatnot. And if you wear too tight underwear, or you just had a workout, everyone will smell! Circumcised or not! Do tell.. exactly what is all this talk about "smells" and "cleaner"? And I find it funny how it for most part is the women who talk about circumcised being cleaner. Whatever dirt you think is there is fabricated in your imagination. Does your vagina smell anything, just because you can't reach inside it with soap and water? Uhm.. no. And can you clean an uncircumcised penis? Easily, you just pull back the foreskin... Which, btw, should be done after sex. But circumcised men should clean their penises after sex too.
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reader, Yos  +, writes (7 August 2010):
 The USA is different from Europe in this respect. In the USA it seems most men get circumcised, so I guess you are unusual. In Europe I believe it's much more mixed.
I'm not circumcised and have never had any complaints at all in this regard from women.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (7 August 2010):
 I suspect this is somewhere along the same lines of women who have long labia. Some people simply find it too gross to continue while others couldn't care less. Either way the only way to fix either is to have expensive painful surgery that will reduce sexual pleasure. It shouldn't be a problem for someone unless you have poor hygiene or if the other person is really shallow. I have a slight preference for circumcised personally because it's tidier, but I would never reject someone for being un, unless they smelled funky. It's weird that this and the labia thing are considered problems to fixed by lobbing things off. Especially things that increase our sexual pleasure. You know that foreskin makes you more sensitive so sex feels better right? I actually had a guy complain about how angry he was that he was missing out because he was circumcised.
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reader, chigirl +, writes (7 August 2010):
I like uncircumcised. I like circumcised too, but I live in Norway where every man is uncircumcised. Up here we believe only the highly religious jews are circumcised, and find it odd when someone who is not a jew/highly religious are circumcised. I think this is an american fashion thing, totally pointless, and I have never in my whole life seen a "dirty" uncircumcised penis. Never. I never even heard mention of a penis being "cleaner" when circumcised. Really. Jeez. Well your feet wont smell when you amputate them, thats how much I can say about that. Foreskin is normal, natural, and looks great. Your foreskin wont be any "dirtier" than the rest of your body, so whoever thinks circumcised is cleaner need a reality check. Normal hygiene needs to be done to a circumcised penis as well. As for the smell, in my experience it comes mostly from sweaty balls, not the penis....
That girl was.. I dunno.. weird. Maybe she had never seen an uncircumcised penis before.
I think you are fine the way you are, and don't see any reason why you should feel ashamed. Think of it this way; that woman was weird. Not you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2010): uncircumsized is FINE!!!!! thats how you meant to be... This girl sounds retarded.
just keep clean!
I THINK UNCIRCUMSIZED IS CUTE
but yeah i from New Zealand.. its rare to be circumsised here... how strange,, imagine being so sexually adventerous that you happy to suck off some stranger in a club , but cant deal with a foreskin.. sounds like a stupid wench! Or you were not clean...
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2010): My boyfriend is circumcised and I LOVE IT. Its so much cleaner and it looks better too!
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reader, FluffyPie +, writes (7 August 2010):
 It's not gross unless you keep a proper hygiene. Same goes for a woman's crotch.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2010): Keep yourself clean and you should be fine. My boyfriend is uncircumsized and I LOVE giving him head. Do you want me to write that again?
I love giving my uncircumsized boyfriend head.
Just keep it clean, a lot of guys aren't circumsized, but some girls do have preferences. If so, don't deal with the cows that don't respect the way nature made you ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2010): If it's going in my mouth , it's got to be circumcised
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reader, Over..worried.  +, writes (7 August 2010):
 my boyfriend isn't I don't really care. And any people that do have problems.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2010): well first of all with all due respect to Bernard, his information is way off. I'm not circumcised and I've received plenty of head. I've dated mature woman though, and I don't mean old I mean just that. Mature women who didn't act like teenage twits when they saw a woody with a hoody. I never had a one night stand though. I was always in a committed relationship. That might have made the difference. Uncircumcised is normal. The foreskin was put there for a reason. Besides sexual function it also helps keep the glan free of yeast infections. People often say that it can cause a yeast infection.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2010): From the countries I have traveled to, South Africa, Australia and New Zealand, it is very uncommon to be circumsized. I thought it was mostly for religious reasons, altho know of lots of people who do it for health reasons. Just because they believe it is more hygienic. However, men wouldn't have been created the way they are naturally if it was going to be a problem right?? If they were meant to be cut, then surely they would have quickly been lost in evolution, instead of every man having it. Personally I think it's normal, and wouldn't judge if the guy was or wasn't cirucumsized. I don't think you should feel self concious. It was that one woman, and she went about it really badly, making you feel repulsive.
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (7 August 2010):
 I would totally marry a Spanish man, and circumcision, like I said, is NOT customary over there.
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reader, sophieee  +, writes (7 August 2010):
there is alot of women who arent paticurally bothered, now a days more men do have foreskin. some women prefer no foreskin, some women arent bothered. dont let it get to you too much. everything happens for a reason.
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reader, BAMMM +, writes (7 August 2010):
 I think she dealt with that situation very badly and didnt take your feelings into consideration!I personally find circumsized the best but every woman is different.Having said that, if i liked a guy, the fact that his penis was uncircumsized wouldnt stop me from wanting to have sex with him, its just NOT that important! I mean, if you like a girl, it doesnt really matter if she has big boobs or small boobs, right?i dunno thats just my opinion. : )
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reader, marry35 +, writes (7 August 2010):
don,t worry about that, just as you like certain kind of women, there are women that like certain things, so don't make that harm you.
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reader, maofone +, writes (7 August 2010):
im an african american woman who is with a haitian man. he isnt circumsised. where he is from they dnt do that. he is a very good lover. as long as you keep it clean under your forskin,most women shouldnt have a problem. if she's a narrow minded type woman she might though
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reader, celtic_tiger +, writes (7 August 2010):
 I think this is just a case of what is normal in the country you are in.
Circumcision is widely practised in the US where you are from. In the UK, it is not common in 1993 only 5.6% of boys were circumcised.
http://www.cirp.org/library/statistics/
http://www.boystoo.com/history/statistics.htm
http://www.malecircumcision.org/publications/documents/HIV_MaleCircumcision_A4_Global_web.pdf
You are normal. It was the woman who had the problem - and she has just been culturally schooled to believe that "cut" is the norm.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2010): I've never been with an uncircumsized man, so I have no idea.......but sorry to hear you had such a horrible experience.......
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2010): cant say Ive ever seen an uncircumsized one but surely its cleaner.....I wouldnt be too concerned. If the girl was prepared to perform that act in a toilet stall shes not really worth worrying about...Maybe she just got cold feet about the whole scenario you automatically thought it was a reaction to your bits!
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reader, SirenaBlusera +, writes (7 August 2010):
Throughout most of the world, uncircumsised is the norm.
They did an international sex survey and (no offense to anyone not from Spain) Spanish men were ranked #1 as world's best lovers. As a recent resident of Spain I know (NOT from personal experience) that most are not circumcised.
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