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What do his actions mean... friends or more than friendly?
Q. A friend of mine, we'll call him Kyle, and I have been flirting quite a bit lately. I've known him for a number of years but have never acted like this with each other before. ever. Here is just one example. I want to know what his actions mean...
A. 24 September 2013: Thanks so much for your answer!
I do like him!
I flirt back and keep it subtle but interesting, I let him flirt with me, and I like it.
Is there anything I should or shouldn't do to keep the interest up?!
Should I reciprocate everything he do... (read in full...)
I compromise all the time with him. He becomes verbally abusive all the time. Then is back to normal 5 to 10 minutes later. What should I do?
Q. hey I am from an orthodox middle class family. I met a guy in facebook. He was charming and decent. We fell in love. It was fine then but now he is verbally abusive, calling names argues often. I compromise him every time. Thent he behaves n...
A. 13 February 2013: Hi there! How long have you two been together? I can understand your frustration. My best friend/boyfriend, who I have been dating for about 2 years now shows a similar behavior as your boyfriend. He can be completely fine and cuddling and cu... (read in full...)
How can I get closure when she won't give it to me?
Q. Hi All, Long story short, a woman I was dating for about 8 months and whom I supported financially and emotionally turned out to be using me and was seeing and sleeping with another man (who was separated but not divorced from his wife). I was crus...
A. 10 March 2012: I'm sorry to hear about you situation... It can't be easy :( You say you want closure... but what kind of closure are you looking for? Do you have questions that you want answered? You want to know why all of this happened?... I can understand ... (read in full...)
This was a bit vulgar to say to me on Valentines day, should I be offended?
Q. So I've been dating this guy for a few months. Everything has been going pretty good for the most part. Then yesterday, he kind of threw me for a loop. He sent me a text that said "Blow jobs are like flowers for guys on Valentine's Day". I was ...
A. 15 February 2012: I wouldn't be offended... But then again, we all have different senses of humour.
I would have taken it as a joke and laughed. It IS valentines day...but that doesn't mean that it is only about one person.
If you aren't 'comfortable' with tha... (read in full...)
Are these actions totally fine or are they a little inappropriate?
Q. I'm not sure what to think about some of my bf's interactions with women/female friends. First of all I want to say that I'm not an overly jealous person but I'm very perceptive. My bf is a very outgoing and chatty person. He's the kind of guy who ...
A. 15 February 2012: These actions are totally fine. There is nothing inappropriate or strange going on here at all!!!
He isn't going out of his way for any of these girls or trying to get with anyone!
If I was in a relationship with someone and this is what I saw, I... (read in full...)
I can't hurt my parents but I can't leave my boyfriend either
Q. My boyfriend loves me so much and I am his first girlfriend ever. He is the type that one woman for one life. I am also similar but I had my ex bf whom I broke up before I met this guy. My first sex was with my ex and it hurts my present bf. He ...
A. 15 February 2012: Hi there. First of all, no one has the right to speak to you in an abusive manner! I have seen this first hand with someone I am in love with, he is my best friend. BUT don't ever put up with behaviour like that! If he is unimpressed with you past... (read in full...)
I know he just sees me as a friend so how do I move on?
Q. Okay so I been having the biggest crush on this guy who might be so perfect for me. But the problem is I have done the chasing all this time always text him first, invite him out tried getting to know him. I see this going no where I see no sign of ...
A. 15 February 2012: Hi there! I am in the same situation. I'm in love with, basically, my best friend. and although we were seeing each other, he sees me as a friend. But, i see him as something more. We had a big discussion/argument about it on sunday. But we a... (read in full...)
Everything is not good enough for him. How do I get over him and stop contacting him?
Q. How do I stop contacting him? I have kept in contact with a man for 1.5 years. He has stated to me that he cannot have a relationship. Two times he dated other girls, so I know that he is not interested in me. I just kept hoping that he would li...
A. 13 February 2012: Well, As simple as it will sound, and as difficult as it will be. You just don't. There is no other way that makes sense then, putting down the phone, when you feel like calling, and so on. You just STOP. simple as that. It's not easy to just sto... (read in full...)
How do I make him care?
Q. I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 19 months and we've had our share of ups and downs. Recently, we have been in a spot where it's not really good nor bad. I'm crazy in love with him and he generally makes me really happy. But the other half ...
A. 13 February 2012: Hi there :) Your situation is very similar to the one that I am in right now. Unfortunately, there really isn't anything that you can do to make someone care about in the same way that you do for them. We do not get the luxury of choosing who we ... (read in full...)
Old flame, old rumours ...
Q. I have reacently been in contact with a guy I knew from late high school, we had been messaging one another on and off for about 6 months. We had said we would meet and catch up. Then I get a message from him that said he had heard a rumour about me ...
A. 13 February 2012: I believe that the only thing you can do at this point so to tell/write to him and explain that you apologize for the rumour that has circulated and the unfortunate reality that this inaccurate assumption has damaged the chance at a nice ... (read in full...)
Is she just being nice?
Q. I dated this girl like a year ago. Actually we had dated a year before that but I blew her off becuase I didn't know what I wanted at the time.(I know I was an idiot.) Next year we started dating again but like 6 months ago she told me she was not ...
A. 13 February 2012: There is no better way to know what her intentions are than starting up a conversation with her again... If something seems strange then bring it up to her, if you feel comfortable doing so. Just ask her what her interest is all of a sudden. What ... (read in full...)
B/f rarely gives me any time but yet when with his ex they were always together!
Q. My boyfriend has only had one previous relationship, and in this relationship he fell hard and fast. They were together all the time, but after a year they broke up and it absolutely devastated him. From mutual friends and himself I've heard it took ...
A. 13 February 2012: Hi again :) Well, the trouble with me is that I am shy by nature... I can't help it. When it came to what I wanted to see/get out of my relationship with my friend…I found it very difficult to voice my needs. I tried to speak up as often as I fe... (read in full...)
B/f rarely gives me any time but yet when with his ex they were always together!
Q. My boyfriend has only had one previous relationship, and in this relationship he fell hard and fast. They were together all the time, but after a year they broke up and it absolutely devastated him. From mutual friends and himself I've heard it took ...
A. 12 February 2012: I agree that I must have to do with the last relationship, a little bit anyways.
It's good that you are going to bring this up to him, it's very important that you never forget that you have a voice, and if something is bothering you, that you say ... (read in full...)
I am against drinking but b/f has started to drink! How do I deal with this?
Q. I was wondering, how much action i should take or not take with my boyfriend and alcohol. hear me out. I was raised in a very religious home, i have never even SEEN alcohol outside of TV/ads/in the store. In highschool, I never was around t...
A. 12 February 2012: Hey there.
So, I understand where you are coming from, and by that I mean that I completely understand what it feels like when someone is doing something that you are completely against.
The problem is, and you said it yourself, we can't all have... (read in full...)
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