Anybody ever cured a sexual fetish/obsession?
Q. Has somebody ever cured an obsession? I'm talking about a sexual obsession here. Before I could understand what sex really meant, I was obsessed about this one body part. Now I'm not gonna say which part because I want the answers to be in...
A. 15 June 2011: I'm scratching my head as to what it could be that's so terrible. I wonder if you really should attempt to deny yourself though. Repressing something doesn't normally make people happier if you ask me. Is it worth just accepting it is a part of you ... (read in full...)
Should I one day try and have sex with a woman? To see if it will stop these feelings?
Q. I am a 39 year old 'male ' and have never had sex, not even a kiss!I was very,very,very,very, shy when I was growing up. I could not dare go near a girl!!!! One day when I was off ill form school , age 14-15, I wondered what it was like to be ...
A. 15 June 2011: Do you think overall if you could accept who you are and be open about things and be able to dress and act how you wanted openly you'd be happier?
If someone had a magic wand and you could be a woman and thus perceived to be female so your tas... (read in full...)
Should I one day try and have sex with a woman? To see if it will stop these feelings?
Q. I am a 39 year old 'male ' and have never had sex, not even a kiss!I was very,very,very,very, shy when I was growing up. I could not dare go near a girl!!!! One day when I was off ill form school , age 14-15, I wondered what it was like to be ...
A. 15 June 2011: I think you need to talk to someone about how you feel. If you repress your feelings and actions because you feel ashamed then you will never be happy. I have just taken the decision to transition. I've told some of my immediate family and I feel so ... (read in full...)
Should I be worried about the way my breast looks?
Q. When I'm in the shower I usually check my breasts for lumps and such stuff and recently I noticed that my nipple is a strange colour. But when I havent been in the shower its normal colour again. My left nipple has always been a little bit darke...
A. 16 May 2011: It would be foolish in this day and age to not go to your GP or local Genital and Urinary medicine (GUM) clinic and get it checked out just to be on the safe side. Likelyhood is it's just natural colouration. Noone is symetrical and frankly symettry ... (read in full...)
Does she truly care for me and how do I handle her current behaviour?
Q. I am a cute guy who's who got no girlfriend until i travel to another town to continue my education but I'll be with my uncle for a while in his factory where I work. In his factory speculates no relationship of opposite sex is allowed. I've been ...
A. 26 April 2011: She seems like a bit of an attention seeker. I do not think she really loves you she just sounds young and sexually adventureous. People who are in love seldom act as she has acted.
I would suggest you respect your uncles wishes, he was good eno... (read in full...)
I can't stop thinking of him inside her, especially as he's bigger than me!
Q. So my ex gf and i broke up a few months ago and we both went our separate ways. I only dated a few girls but i never went as far as touching them. Now my ex gf and i started talking again and we are thinking about getting together again. the problem ...
A. 26 April 2011: Assuming you don't think she's being vindictive it's nice she's been so honest with you. Although she could have been slightly more tactfull and said maybe 7-8 instead of 8-9 possibly.
That said what's done is done and you're just going to have ... (read in full...)
My depression ends the relationship every time. What can I do?
Q. I dont know where to start. but i've been with a boy on and off for just over 2 years. I love him! But i suffer from depression and everytime im in a relationship with him, my depression takes over an it always ends. We decided to leave it and just ...
A. 14 April 2011: You've answered your own question. You need to severe contact with him completely and try and move into a whole new routine. What have you done to try and conquer your depression? Can you tell us a little more about that?... (read in full...)
How do I make him see that he is the only one for me?
Q. I am a girl at varsity and my boyfriend is working.He has beeen doing everything for me,but he thinks that when I finish school I will leave him for another educated person like me,I love him and I am not vene thinking about that,but he keeps ...
A. 13 April 2011: You should first be sure he does want to stay with you and he's not trying to make you leave him because he doesn't have the courage to leave you.
If you're both totally sure you want to be together then all you can do is reassure him and then... (read in full...)
He talks to me online plenty, but not much at school anymore. Why?
Q. Hey, There's a guy in school who I am really good friends with, we used to talk quite often and were good friends, we still are good friends, but recently he hasn't been talking to me as much as he used to in school. He still talks to me loads on...
A. 12 April 2011: Without more information it's terribly hard to say but the first thought that struck me is that possibly he thinks (and perhaps rightly too) that hanging around with you at school may put other girls off approaching him?
If you're really that goo... (read in full...)
I'm confused, am I bi or gay?
Q. 3 years ago when i was 13 i discoverd i liked men and now im 15 i still like men but im not sure about girls anymore, im really confused right now so can i just have some advice please?...
A. 12 April 2011: Hi If you derive any pleasure from having sex with women then you are bisexual and not "totally gay". Sorry if this doesn't clear things up and it seems I am simply stating the obvious. You say you're "not sure about girls anymore" what makes ... (read in full...)
Tiny, hard spots in the sides of vagina, help please?
Q. Hi, I've had tiny hard spots under the skin of my vagina for a long time now, but i dont know how to tell my mum or go to the doctor. I was wondering if anyone could shed some light on what they could be? The spots are small, hard and unde...
A. 11 April 2011: Good shout with the link. I'd strongly suggest you get it checked out by a professional just to be more certain of correct diagnosis.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is confused and wants her space. Its tearing me up inside
Q. My girlfriend of almost ayear told me she wants time and space to be on her own for a while. She has been very stressed at work, her 4 year old son gets sick often and her divorce is almost finalised. She has told me that nothing is wrong in our ...
A. 11 April 2011: By deconstruct I mean disassemble what has happened, look at what has happened in it's most basic form, without any distortion you may yourself have placed upon events. (distortion that will increase over time by the way) "My girlfriend of al... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is confused and wants her space. Its tearing me up inside
Q. My girlfriend of almost ayear told me she wants time and space to be on her own for a while. She has been very stressed at work, her 4 year old son gets sick often and her divorce is almost finalised. She has told me that nothing is wrong in our ...
A. 11 April 2011: You said she is a very selfless woman, it sounds to me that right now (thankfully) she is being selfish and asking for what she needs. You absolutely must respect that and respect her wishes and not appear needy. She is about to close a very large ... (read in full...)
Tiny, hard spots in the sides of vagina, help please?
Q. Hi, I've had tiny hard spots under the skin of my vagina for a long time now, but i dont know how to tell my mum or go to the doctor. I was wondering if anyone could shed some light on what they could be? The spots are small, hard and unde...
A. 11 April 2011: There's no need to feel embarrassed about this. Since your issue is related to your vagina simply go to your local GUM (Genital and Urinary Medicine) clinic at your local hospital and get it checked out. You can be anonymous there and are re... (read in full...)
I am not sure if I am falling out of love or not.
Q. I have been seeing my boyfriend for 5 months now and after a month i knew he was the one and he felt exactly the same, i didn't see him for a week and so was really was looking forward to seeing him at the weekend but when i got to his house i ...
A. 11 April 2011: I don't think it's totally unusual to miss someone less than you anticipate or to slow start when you see them again. Don't obsess over the idea of being with this guy, let yourself feel whatever it is you’re feeling and if your feelings really ... (read in full...)
Depressed because of age. Any advice?
Q. I am getting terribly depressed and although not suicidal. I keep getting very depressed because I am coming up to 60 years of age. No man will want me now I know that and cant help wondering what a bleak future. I know one doesnt have to have a ...
A. 9 April 2011: It sounds like you have real self esteem issues. 60 is the new 40 my dear. Why do you think no man would want you now? I am 30 and I find older women attractive I think Anne Robinson in stunning and when she winks at the end of weakest link bad ... (read in full...)
Should I marry her while I still have this desire to be with men?
Q. I have a lovely girlfriend. We've been together for a few years. I want to married her and start a family soon, but there is a problem. Back when I was in my twenties, I made a very bad decision that landed me in prison for almost a decade. While I ...
A. 8 April 2011: I honestly think you need to talk to a professional and try and get over this idea that what you're feeling isn't right and that it makes you a sick person. You are a product of your surroundings nothing more and nothing less and for the last 10 ... (read in full...)
When should I kiss my g/f?
Q. please help i have been with my girlfriend for almost 3 months, we live quite far away from eachother and i dont get to see her often, the first time i was with her i was too shy to kiss her, she then said "i got a hug today but not a kiss", so i ...
A. 7 April 2011: Kiss her when you first see her is my advice. A kiss is a physical manifestation of emotion. I assume you'll be very happy to see her so kiss her to let her know that's how you feel. She'll appreciate it. This has the plus side of getting it "out ... (read in full...)
Does the 3 day rule still apply?
Q. Does the 3 day rule still apply? I know it is kind of old fashioned but i'm just wondering if men in particular still go by the 3 day rule? Does it still apply with texting, chatting online, phoning and everything? I have a wonderful guy and i don't ...
A. 7 April 2011: http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=three%20day%20rule... (read in full...)
Are there any ways to see if a guy is gay or bisexual?
Q. As I'm getting older I see that I am either gay or bi and I wanna talk to a guy for once but there are problems. Right now no one knows about me being gay but me I'm not ready to tell anyone because I not sure about myself but I dont want anyone to ...
A. 7 April 2011: If you're really 18-21 have you considered a gay dating site? Atleast you can be pretty sure the guys on there are gay.
If you're not ready to "come out" maybe approaching guys at school is a little risky anyhow. If a guy came up to you at schoo... (read in full...)
My BF's political views are self destructive. I will be leaving and I am worried about what he will do when I'm gone.
Q. I think my boyfriend is delusional and lost. We're both 16 and he's confusing me so much. We come from different backgrounds. I live a comfortable middle class suburban life and go to private school. He goes to a rough school (People have been ...
A. 7 April 2011: I'd add it's also important to let someone else in his life know just how extreme his views are, for his sake if nothing else. If he vents through you and suddenly you're gone his outlet is gone and he may drift further away from mainstream ... (read in full...)
Husband is impotent and no idea why?
Q. What would you do, if your husband , suddenly becomes impotent , but you don't know why? My husband got impotent ,pretty suddenly ,after he lost his erection middle of intercourse a few years ago . Since than , he can;t get a normal erection....
A. 7 April 2011: Does he get erections whilst asleep?... (read in full...)
Should I marry her while I still have this desire to be with men?
Q. I have a lovely girlfriend. We've been together for a few years. I want to married her and start a family soon, but there is a problem. Back when I was in my twenties, I made a very bad decision that landed me in prison for almost a decade. While I ...
A. 6 April 2011: I'm terribly sorry to hear of your rape during your time in prison. Have you talked to a professional regarding this? That consideration aside, first I think you need to realize if you really desire being with men specifically or if maybe it's th... (read in full...)
He won't go against his parent's wishes for me. I don't know what I will do without him.
Q. Dear Agony Aunt, I'm a 18 yr old girl in love with an 24 yr old guy. We met on a social networking site but havent met each other personally as we both stay in different cities in the same country though. Our's is a very clichèd tale but unfortun...
A. 6 April 2011: If he is unwilling to fight his parents you should evaluate that. :- Does he love you as much as you love him? :- Are his values just fundermentally different to yours, could you be with someone so different for the rest of your life? :- Are... (read in full...)
Did my dad over-react? And should I go all the way with my boyfriend?
Q. me and my bf are both 15 and in love and about a month ago my parents left and he came over. we were making-out then i gave him a bj, (we still had our clothes on, his pants were unzipped). then my dad walked in grabbed him by his neck and started ...
A. 6 April 2011: I was the male with all the questions.
If he walked in when the act was being performed I don't think he over reacted considering your age and it was under his roof.
As someone previously mentioned you are his little girl and to some extent y... (read in full...)
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