What are your weight advice tips for the new year?
Q. Basically, for my new years revolution i want to lose some weight. I am overweight not majorly but yeah i would like to lose abit of weight. I am just over 11 stone (72 lbs) i am a size 12 to 14 ( european sizes) i...
A. 22 December 2011: Hello there.
Well, the only tips which anyone can really give is to make sure that you eat healthily, drink plenty of water and get plenty of sleep. Oh and to exercise too!
Just make sure that you have a balanced diet which give you all the nutr... (read in full...)
My husband's family don't respect my kitchen
Q. My husband had told me that some of his fathers friends were stopping by because they were driving up from Florida to Ny and they were stopping through. I had never met these people but it turned out they were actually staying at our house. No ...
A. 21 December 2011: Hello,
This doesn't seem like a major problem to me.
But if it does annoy you, then talk to your husband about it and tell him that you don't wish anyone to go through your kitchen cupboards ect.
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No matter how much I spend my gift isn't likely to please his mother
Q. My boyfriend's mom is ridiculously materialistic. She's like a walking talking brand name. She makes fun of poor people and judges them. Well this year she's holding a huge party and giving away extravagant gifts for Christmas (perfumes, Luis ...
A. 21 December 2011: She sounds awful!
The holidays are about spending time with friends and family and enjoying yourself not about spending heaps amount of money. Have you tried asking the boyfriend as to what he thinks you should get his mother?
Or get her a greeti... (read in full...)
Has anyone ever spent New Year's Eve alone?
Q. Hey aunts! So, I'm going through a pretty rocky phase in my life (my mom passed away last spring, I recently broke up with my 5year bf and I'm very heartbroken). Looks like I'm gonna be spending New Years Eve alone. I know it's a super loser thing ...
A. 21 December 2011: Hello.
I am sorry to hear what you have gone through this year.
Spending NYE isn't so bad.
Grab the girlfriends and head out for some drinks and fun!
It isn't as sucky as you think it might be.
Spend time with friends or family and enjoy you... (read in full...)
How do I keep his cheating from affecting our kids?
Q. my husband cheated on me, so many questions coming out in my mind, he said and promise me that its really over with d other woman but so many evidence coming out from d shelter keeps me in pain, what should and must i do in order not to affect ...
A. 21 December 2011: You need to ask him face to face, put aside the evidence for the moment and talk to your husband about what is going on.
If he denies all then tell him what you found out and if he admits to it then tell him to stop.
There is no point in carrying... (read in full...)
Found out my fiance has been cheating....should I go ahead with the wedding or not?
Q. Im about to get married with my bf of 2years. Ours was a long distance relationship for a year as we are both working abroad. Communication had been constant, almost everyday we did get in touch. Never did i doubted my bf's love and sincerity ...
A. 21 December 2011: Do you love him?
That is the question to answer.
He hurt you and betrayed you, there are no excuses for that.
It's understandable any girl would be hurt to find out their boyfriend of two years has cheated on them, but are you willing to f... (read in full...)
Sisters are best friends while I am out in the cold.
Q. My sisters block me out of there lives. I am in the middle my older sister and I are 18 months apart and my younger sister is 6 years younger than me. My older sister has disliked me since birth and my younger sister was so much younger than me, ...
A. 31 July 2011: Hello,
I am truly sorry to hear about the situation that your sisters have put you in. It can never be easy, having family ignore you and completely shut you out of their lives. I know you don't want to hear it but, ultimately whatever you do o... (read in full...)
He stopped communicating and I have no idea why!
Q. I am still confused on what to do..so here is my situation : i met this guy online. we been in a long distance relationship for 16months and we havent met in person yet.. we been planning to meet in person.. he been planning to come to my country ...
A. 12 June 2011: Hiya OP,
To me, it looks like he may be hiding something, because if he truly said that he liked you and so forth then he would have added you to his networking sites so that you both can post on each others walls and talk to each other through ... (read in full...)
I want to date and marry but do not want an arranged marriage!
Q. Hi, I'll try keeping this as simple as I can. Arranged marriage makes no sense to me. They're just selfish egomaniac contracts between two families and the woman and the man. I don't want this. Love is very scary for me, for it may bring he...
A. 12 June 2011: Hello, I guess it's not just your family who seem to uphold these traditional views on marriage and so forth. There are a lot of families where more conservative traditional views on marriage are held, with their views on how one must live one's li... (read in full...)
He stopped communicating and I have no idea why!
Q. I am still confused on what to do..so here is my situation : i met this guy online. we been in a long distance relationship for 16months and we havent met in person yet.. we been planning to meet in person.. he been planning to come to my country ...
A. 11 June 2011: Hiya,
Did it ever occur to you, that maybe he was just leading you on? He told you that he would visit but didn't on numerous occasions, maybe he isn't what he says he is.
Maybe, he has a relationship with someone else.
The thing which you ne... (read in full...)
Should I try to contact her one last time or just say bon voyage?
Q. Hi everyone! So here's the deal, my ''ex'', and I met over an internet game, at first we really didn't care for each other - I thought she was a terrible player, in turn she thought I was an asshole. But then as time went by we kind of grew on ...
A. 24 May 2011: You can't really do anything, you tried your best to come to terms with her, by admitting your feelings for her and doing your part, if she has decided to go, then let her go. If she really did have feelings for you, which I think she did, she will ... (read in full...)
I don't know if it's Love or Lust!
Q. I'm confused. Someone tell me what can i do... My relationship ended about a week ago today... Last night there was an earthquake and I got worried for him. i dragged on the worry for the whole night and i didn't sleep. I was crying and crying and ...
A. 27 May 2010: Hey,
wow thats really bad.
I dont understand how he can say that to you one day then the next say something completely opposite?
Its quite unrational.
Anyways, is this his first relationship? that may explain something, seeing as he doesnt know h... (read in full...)
I thought a party would make me feel better about not having a boyfriend. And I'm not getting on with my family!
Q. hey, when my grans was on holidays i had a prty and nw i regret it mega. she came home today and found lots of this wrong and im just waiting for it to kick off. anyways i had i have been feeling depressed and and just want a boyfriend i though this ...
A. 27 May 2010: Hey, Well seems like your in a situation. Well maybe you can try to get along with your family more, and just go out with them and talk with them. And try to get along, really. Say sorry to them and see what happens. And why cant you discuss it w... (read in full...)
I don't have the guts to leave him but I don't want to stay either
Q. I have been in a relationship with my partner for 4 years. We have a 2 1/2 year old daughter. I was 19 when I fell pregnant and at university 3 hours drive from my parents house. I moved in with my partner and I feel that the last few years I have ...
A. 27 May 2010: Hey,
well i think that you should tell him how you feel as this is the only option you have really, i say this because i dont think anyone should stay with someone if they dont love them or are unhappy.
Yu should tell him, because the more lon... (read in full...)
My mother is dying and I'm having thoughts of cheating on my husband..what is going on??
Q. Hi. I need a lot of opinions on this, may be from your own experience, but i really need to understand what's going w/me before i go and spend 200/hour on a therapist. I am in my early forties, been married for over 20 years, and my marriage is v...
A. 27 May 2010: Hey there,
After reading this a few times i thought id try and help you the best i can.
Well maybe you and your husband are drifitng away and that hes never really there for you physically. You say you havent had intamicy for a month or so, mayb... (read in full...)
He cheated and thinks I'm blowing it out of proportion
Q. Need some advice!!! My fiance have been together for almost 10 yrs now,he cheated on me with a lady from a local bar right b4 we were to get married 3yrs ago! I have tried to work past that but he still talks with the woman and just recently I found ...
A. 27 May 2010: Well i know that you must be angry seeing as its your man, not anyones elses. If he tries to denie it or to say that your going crazy well then he has something to hide. If a guy did go to this womans daughters graduation, he wouldve told you that ... (read in full...)
Every time I see her I just love her more
Q. Right.. My Ex-Girlfriend broke up with me 5 months ago. I have been in love with her for 5 years. We were going out for 6 months and it wsa really good and working well until she broke up with me because she thought we were having problems.. Duri...
A. 27 May 2010: Wow, well i understand because im in the same situation. She broke up because you were having problems? what sort of problems? or did she break up because she was getting bored of the relationship or was there another guy? Girls love to flirt wi... (read in full...)
I want to stop being her friend without interfereing with our social circle
Q. I need advice on how to deal with my so called best friend. We have been friends for 5 years and were at one point so close we knew what each other were thinking and even had our own coded language. Over the past year though we have not been getting ...
A. 27 May 2010: Hey there,
That must be very upsetting to through that, with your best friend, well i think you should tell her direct you dont really want to talk or be friends as this would alert her. Or you could just stop talking to her, thats what i have done... (read in full...)
How can I build my confidence and self-esteem and meet more people that I can trust?
Q. I dont feel part of a group anymore. Every friend of mine and even the closest ones I could say something about which makes me doubt them. I have lost trust in loads of my friends and can only trust one person fully. The rest i just don;t know. I ...
A. 27 May 2010: Hey there,
i understand what you meen, i am also classed as being the "quiet" person, and i also find it hard to make friends as i am shy, but now im fine.
What makes you doubt your friends? is it something they have said about you or done to you, ... (read in full...)
I'm not happy with my partner, should I leave him?
Q. I need help I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years. I've got a 3 year old son with him, and I've just found out I'm pregnant again. I should be happy but I'm not, I don't think i love him anymore. i'm miserable all the time he hasn't done anyt...
A. 27 May 2010: 5 years is a pretty long time, and you have a son, and another child comming on the way, do you think you can support the children finacially? If you can, then i say you should try and talk with your partner, seeing as theres no point "drowning" in ... (read in full...)
Do you think he has a thing for me too?
Q. Hey guys ! So there’s this guy at my school and I think he’s really good looking and funny and cute and at the beginning of the school year I got his phone number and I texted him , he always answered back but the convo went nowhere , and then a w...
A. 26 May 2010: Heyy,
Well it seems to me as if the boy likes you, if hes giving all the signs then i think he does. Hes shy so it would be hard for him to tell you how he feels, just flirt around with him for a while and see where that takes the two of you, and ... (read in full...)
Does he love me or does he play games with me?
Q. Hello! I need your help. I have been chatting with him for 5 months.We live in different countries. We understand each other very well. We are like real friends. Recently he has become a manager of very big company and he rarely writes to me. We ...
A. 26 May 2010: Hey There,
Well i get what you mean, you say that the guy is a manager well that explains it. Guys are generally honest with girls, if they say they're busy then they're busy. If he didn't want to talk to you then he would have stopped by now, hes ... (read in full...)
Where are the good men????
Q. I've been dating a man for over two years. We went into this relationship saying that we didn't want anything serious but over time I have fallen in love with him and care a lot about him. I expressed my feelings to him a few weeks ago only to have ...
A. 26 May 2010: Unlike the previous two comments, i understand how you must feel. I know that you didn't want anything serious, but i mean its not your fault that you fell in love with this guy, i mean its not surprising considering the fact that you have been ... (read in full...)
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