My husband is socially useless
Q. Hi, i just don't know how to help my husband. Hes socially inept, and i have almost a fear of him meeting anybody in case he humiliates me and himself. Hes a great partner and father, i cannot fault him. he treats me well and is committed to us ...
A. 1 May 2009: First you need to understand that there is no such thing as "normal."
I, being an introvert myself understand his point of veiw. His need for social interaction isn't as strong as yours, thus he doesn't see the need to tolerate that which an... (read in full...)
My girl broke up with me for my cousin!
Q. my gf of 3 years broke up with me :'( cause of another guy who is my COUSIN!!! i hate him i hate him i hate him. im crying right now and i miss her even though she hurt me and cheated on me with him twice and she just told me. gosh. what do i do. im ...
A. 1 May 2009: Sorry to hear that dude. But my best advice would be to forget about her. If she is willing to cheat on you and leave you for your cousin, that is not only low, but it is insulting. You are young, so don't get too bent out of shape over it. Feel ... (read in full...)
I'm obviously in love, but I want to know for sure
Q. Whenever I remember something that I did with my boyfriend, I get this sort of warm feeling in my chest. What is this feeling, and what does this mean?...
A. 1 May 2009: Ok... first: If you are "obviously in love", then you already know for sure.
As for the warm feeling in your chest: That is for you to interpret on your own. Only you can truly identify it. Others will beable to tell you what they think...... (read in full...)
Tired of my boyfriend's immaturity
Q. I am so tired of my bf inmaturities and childish reactions. Yesterday morning he got mad at me and hanged up the phone on me, and has not call me since. I txted him last night telling him that I love him and that I cared about him. I also called ...
A. 1 May 2009: First off, calm down. Problems rarely get solved favorably with anger. Second, make sure he knows that you can't live with him if he is going to act like that. Both of your sanities depend on being able to deal with eachother on a daily basis.
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I am not high on his priority list
Q. my boyfriend is good man,gives me lots of affection. yet i can't help but feel that i'm one of the lower priorites in his life.whenever i wanna do something,go somwhere,ask him to do somthing,it's always wait,i'm tired or i have plans with my ...
A. 1 May 2009: You're right. You shouldn't have to take that. If he isn't even trying to fair then he just isn't worth it. You deserve to be in a better relationship, even if it is with somebody else.... (read in full...)
I feel my partner is going through a crisis just now... what do I do?
Q. I am a 31 year old male who has been in a relationship for 8 years. We have 2 beautiful girls age 3 and 5. my fiance told me that she has had and ongoing affair with a man for about 4 months and will not break it off with him. she will not give me ...
A. 1 May 2009: Counsuling is an option provideing both of you agree to it. If one of you doesn't then that is kind of a waste of money.
Failing that, I would ask a few questions: 1. Does she still love you? 2. What would have to change to make her happy ag... (read in full...)
My girlfriend rarely wants to have sex, what should I do?
Q. I am 22 and I have been with my girlfriend for nearly three years. In the last 12 months we have only had about sex three times. Each of those times she has only made love to me as a chore. I have brought up my concerns with her. However, s...
A. 11 June 2008: Maybe your libidoes are out of sync. Think about what time you usually try to start the act. Is it in the morning? Or at night?
This can, not always, but can be a factor. Guys are more apt to be at their peak in the morning, while women ar... (read in full...)
My online guy wants to marry me even though we've never met!
Q. So, I may seem insane to you guys after asking this question.... I've been talking to this guy online for about 3 1/2 years. We've become good friends and both have been wanting to date for quite some time..but he lives in TN. Last year he joined ...
A. 11 June 2008: Don't worry about the marrage thing... yet.
Don't even think about it. If you are interesting in dating him, then start with that. And work your way from there.
I say this because you have never met him in person. You don't even know what k... (read in full...)
What should I do to get my relationship back to normal?
Q. I have been going out with my boyfriend for about 15 months, I really love him, but it seems like lately we fight a lot and its mostly about sex, it is my fault though i don't really want to do it, not because im not attracted to him but becuase ...
A. 10 June 2008: How to get things back to normal... hmmm. I guess my answer hinges on what you mean by you don't feel much during sex. Do you mean physicaly or emotionally? So I will outline both. If you mean physicaly: Then maybe you need to learn why you do... (read in full...)
How do I initiate foreplay? Also how do I give a blowjob?
Q. i dont kno how to start the fore play,, actually i do how do i start the giving a blow job since i never gave one before how do i mak ethe first move with that?...
A. 10 June 2008: To start a blow job:
Step 1: Insert penis into mouth.
Step 2: Suck.
Simple enough basics. It's a good starting point. But if you want to go further and try some more advanced stuff... Try looking up some porn. Though there maybe somethin... (read in full...)
I feel hopeless right now, I want to split up but the dogs are keeping me with him!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 years and living together for 6 years. We have 3 beautiful dogs together. He has made it clear recently that he does not want to get married or have children even though he knows I want children more ...
A. 10 June 2008: Sounds to me that you need to sort out your prioities. Look... you said that you want kids more than anything... but are unwilling to leave the dogs, the job, and the security of what you have. I'm not going to tell you that you need to make a ... (read in full...)
We stayed virgins, and now the relationship is going nowhere!
Q. Me and my gf have been together for over 4 years. She wanted to wait till we got married before having sex which is fine with me, thus we are both still virgins. The problem I'm having is that the relationship isn't going anywhere. She so afraid o...
A. 6 June 2008: i don't know... hmmm... since you two are waiting for marrage, you are probably religious. and if you are going to wait then that means that you can't do anything that involves that much physical activity... but if you really feel like you need to ... (read in full...)
Should I stay with this guy?
Q. i have a boyfriend for 2 years now and boy is it a roller coaster. we have our good times then our really really bad times. it seems as if the only thing we do is fight. then after we fight we break up then get back together because we both end up ...
A. 6 June 2008: tough one... if he has anger issues, an anger management class may help... and you could even take it with him.. that way you both learn and he may not be so opposed to it. if you really love him.. you need to explore every option before you give ... (read in full...)
My 15 year old daughter is pregnant, any advice on how I proceed?
Q. well at the mo i should be called sad mommie..my daughter has come home tonite and told me she is pregnant..she is only 15..said she wants to go ahead with the pregnancy..im so confused..i cant think straight..told her we will talk tomorrow as she ...
A. 6 June 2008: its time for her to get a job... yes you said that you will provide support... but that doesn't mean that you will be doin it all... others have said it and i will reiterate... it is a HUGE resposibility... if she wants to keep it then she needs to ... (read in full...)
Want relationship with childhood friend!
Q. Ok so my best guy friend I knew him since kindergarten. We were always close we both moved to different states and went to different schools after 4th grade. Now I'm moving back to NYC where he is. And he is dropping little hints that maybe he likes ...
A. 6 June 2008: follow your heart... you will be able to live with yourself better if you take the chance and fail, then to never find out at all. and chances are that if he is dropping these hints.. then he is intersted in you too... the only warning i have is ... (read in full...)
My man is perfect and I still have doubts!
Q. A man who promise to marry me and did it. A man who help me in everything, a man who support me emotionally and physically a man who always say he love me, a man that is my husband now who is always there for me to cry on. Why I have a doubt in...
A. 6 June 2008: quite possibly a bad experience from the past... my ex gf had trouble trusting me because she had been cheated on... but if your guy is as perfect as you say... calm down, and be grateful that you got so lucky... and trust me... this doubt will ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for a girl to not like oral sex on her?
Q. My girlfriend doesn't like me giving her oral sex and is really squeamish about it. I feel as if its because she has a problem with me. I've only gone down town once and that was for about a minute. I've never heard of a girl who didn't like oral...
A. 6 June 2008: im not sure if its normal... but i can understand why she may not like it. if she's not used to the stimulation in that way it could be far to intense for her to truely enjoy... what you may have to do to remedy this... that is if she gives you the ... (read in full...)
I want to try anal with my girlfriend!
Q. Hi, My problem is that I want to try anal sex with my girlfriend. But she doesn't want to do it. I said i wanted to try it because I haven't ever done it before. She has done it a 'few times' before with her ex boyfriend but she didn't like it. ...
A. 6 June 2008: i feel you on the opening up to you part... but from a bit of experience... its nothing special
in fact it didn't feel good at all. and it kind of hurt. i really don't recommend trying it. and think about it man... you want to put Jr. some plac... (read in full...)
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