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writes:I am so tired of my bf inmaturities and childish reactions. Yesterday morning he got mad at me and hanged up the phone on me, and has not call me since. I txted him last night telling him that I love him and that I cared about him. I also called him but he did not picked up the phone. We are in a LDR and talk on the phone several times per day. I love him very much and I am moving in with him next month; but I am so feed up of his childish reaccions and not calling me for 2 days. What do I do? Any advice on how to handle his stupid attitude? I am mad and very angry. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2009): when he is calmed down then call him. My boyfriend is just as bad so who the heck am i to give advice!!!! LOL his dumbass went out last night and didn't even bother to call me to say he's safe or he got home safely??? Do you know how many times i've told him that it frustrates me when he does this???? But yet he JUST DOESN'T GET IT!!! Can someone be that STUPID???? I mean he's not the sharpest knife in the set but come on how can someone be so stupid and insensitive??? Especially since we have argued about the same thing over and over???? sorry for rambling on...but let him calm down then call. Why are men acting like babies nowadays???? good luck!
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reader, too strong +, writes (1 May 2009):
well why did he hang up the phone? Maybe he wants out, but doesn't know how to tell you. If he hasn't called in two days, do not call him!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2009): Look, I have to agree with the others that have answered above,Dont move in together if you are fed up, recipe for disaster.What caused this incident, some info would be great.Before you decide to dump him at least tell him that unless he cops on he will lose you. Give him that chance at least, if you love him that is. If you are fed up and dont love him, well then time to split up,Oh yeah and please do not play games like ignoring calls, that is total BS and immature
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2009): hmm.
Well it really depends what made him hang up on you. Were you two arguing about something? If so, what?
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reader, oneandonly?  +, writes (1 May 2009):
I have this same issue with my boyfriend, this is wat I do and I know its hard but it works, DON'T CALL OR TEXT HIM AT ALL!!!!! When he finally calls you don't answer the first time and when he calls a second time kindly explain 2 him that when he asks like a little kid it solves nothing, grow up, you are 2 grown 2 be worry about why a little boy aint calling you girl. As a matter of fact when you finally answer act like you aint even realize you aint hear from him...LOL
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2009): DON'T move in with him! If you are fed up with his childishness now, just think how much worse it will be if you live together!
Maybe you should seriously consider whether you want to continue putting up with his behavior.......
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reader, iamthesupreamegod +, writes (1 May 2009):
 First off, calm down. Problems rarely get solved favorably with anger. Second, make sure he knows that you can't live with him if he is going to act like that. Both of your sanities depend on being able to deal with eachother on a daily basis.
I know there isn't much actual advise in that, but it is all I can come with at the moment. Hope it helps.
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