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writes: my gf of 3 years broke up with me :'( cause of another guy who is my COUSIN!!! i hate him i hate him i hate him. im crying right now and i miss her even though she hurt me and cheated on me with him twice and she just told me. gosh. what do i do. im heartbroken and i still love her. Help anyone!!!!!!!!!! please.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2009): mate, I hate to break it to you, but she is seriously NOT worth it. Even if you two get back together- remember this-once a cheater, always a cheater. She will hurt you again, if another guys happens to come along that she fancys more. I know if my man cheated on me, I would leave him and never give him a second chance. How would I be able to trust someone who obviously cares so little about our relationship?
your heart will heal in time, your young and you will meet someone better and more trustworthy in the future. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2009): Dude I agree with the aunts above,
She aint worth it, did you wver see the episode of south park where wendy breaks up with Stan, some sage advice there my friend,
Trust me it will get better in time, but keep telling yourself I deserve better. and youll get there
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reader, iamthesupreamegod +, writes (1 May 2009):
Sorry to hear that dude. But my best advice would be to forget about her. If she is willing to cheat on you and leave you for your cousin, that is not only low, but it is insulting. You are young, so don't get too bent out of shape over it. Feel your pain, greive if you have to, but ultimately realize that a bitch like that isn't worth your time.
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reader, iSmil3y +, writes (1 May 2009):
Calm down. She's obviously not too good of a girl anyway if she cheated on you. You don't deserve her, you deserve better than that. It might be hard to get over her because of you guys dating so long but trust me, you'll get through it. It will take time but that's wrong of her and you don't deserve that. You're still young so there will be time for other girls, maybe not right now but yeah in the future you'll find a girl who's everything you wanted and doesn't hurt you like that. It'll take time but you'll get through it, don't worry. Good luck and if you need to talk or need any advice, just message me anytime.
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