I love my boyfriend spanking me... but as a feminist it makes me feel degraded!
Q. I've recently discovered a real turn on for me but the feminist inside me weeps.. I've discovered I really love my boyfriend spanking me. Hard. Just thinking about it makes me want him to do it again. Hes only done it twice but I feel as though I ...
A. 21 July 2010: My wife would probably not call herself a feminist, but she's a very strong, confident woman. But she's said to me a few times "I love being a submissive little slut in the bedroom". ... (read in full...)
Hots for my sister in law!
Q. My wife and I see quite a lot of her married sister who likes to talk dirty in our presence. She asks her sister about intimate details of our sex lives. She was a naughty girl when she was single, I'm told, who encouraged her sibling to have ...
A. 21 July 2010: Keep this one a fantasy. You'll find that a number of men fantasize about their SIL's, myself included. It stems from the thought of having sex with someone that's very similar, but still different than your wife. I know I've beaten off more than ... (read in full...)
Guys: What does it mean to you if she wants to swallow?
Q. Question for the guys. If a girl wants to swallow your cum, what does it mean to you? Is is special in an emotional way or purely sexual? ...
A. 21 July 2010: I found a girl once that not only wanted to swallow, but enjoyed swallowing. I married her.
For more reasons that that, obviously, but it's a nice bonus. :)... (read in full...)
My g/f thinks it's weird when I cop a feel of her breasts a little, do other girls think the same?
Q. quick queston for all the girls out there: my gf thinks its weird that ill always want to randomly cop a feel on her breasts here and there. say for example we're laying down watching t.v and i notice shes not wearing a bra under her shirt, ill put ...
A. 21 July 2010: My wife would think something was wrong if I WASN'T trying to grab her breasts all the time. ... (read in full...)
My wife was a teenage slut - accepting her promiscuous past
Q. I just wanted to post this due to all the posts re girls with promiscuous pasts. Here is my story. I fell head over heels for my now wife when she was 22 and I 23. Our relationship progressed and soon we both realized we were utterly in love ...
A. 21 July 2010: I concur with Seneca's comments, and am in a somewhat similar situation. My wife and I are both comfortable enough to talk about our sexual pasts with each other. We won't usually go in to explicit detail voluntarily, but we'll share general ... (read in full...)
Do you like talking dirty during sex?
Q. I'll be honest with you. I watch pornography quite often. Not particularly because I want to get turned on, but because I learn new positions, techniques etc I was recently talking to my (male) friend about the stuff I say during sex for e.g 'bea...
A. 21 July 2010: All depends what we're in the mood for. We can go from romantic/sweet, where there are very few words exchanged at all, to exchanges like "Bend me over like a little slut and shove your huge cock in me! You think your pussy can handle all of this? ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend calls me derogatory names during sex. What does this mean?
Q. I am dating a wonderful, sweet, caring, thoughtful man and we are planning a future together. We have only been together for a few months. He absolutely adores me and I do him as well. We have an incredible sex life but one thing confuses me... ...
A. 21 July 2010: This is all a matter of personal comfort and what you might be in the mood for at the moment. There are times my wife and I are absolutely downright filthy to each other during sex. But it's nothing more than that, just something that both of us ... (read in full...)
Is my sexual obsession with my sister-in-law healthy... Or not?!
Q. Dear Cupid, I really need to know if I am "normal" and if this problem I have is common among married men. Cut the story short, I have been having sexual fantasies about my wife's older sister for almost a year now. I'm so afraid its getting u...
A. 21 July 2010: The SIL fantasy is one that is best kept as a fantasy, as there's a lot more bad than good that can come of it. I'm fortunate to have a great relationship with my SIL, which is, was and will be strictly platonic. We'll innocently flirt back and ... (read in full...)
Do interfaith relationships ever work out?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for two years. We have a seven month old daughter. A few months before she was born, my boyfriend started talking a lot about religion, namely chrisianity. In the present day he now seems to be obsessed with ...
A. 21 July 2010: People who have stable, deep-rooted beliefs in a religion can definitely make an inter-faith religion work. This, however, does not sound like your boyfriend. At best, this is a fad, a new toy that he wants to play with 24/7, to the detriment of ... (read in full...)
How do I explain my born-again virginity to my boyfriend?
Q. So my boyfriend and I are moving in together in 2-3 months. He is a warm, wonderful person. I recently decided that I want to abstain till marriage. Reason? I hit rock bottom last year. I was partying and drinking excessively, and I acci...
A. 21 July 2010: Let me get this straight. You've turned your life around, but now want to abstain until marriage AFTER you've had sex with your now steady, stable boyfriend? Additionally, you want to abstain from having sex until marriage, but have no problems... (read in full...)
I feel betrayed by what I thought was my good catholic wife!
Q. I recently went to my wifes 20th high school reunion. I was ok with the fact that some of my wife's ex-boyfriends were there and unfortunately I personally know them all. My problem began when i read the last wills and tenaments from their senior ...
A. 21 July 2010: I'm struggling with what exactly you're agonizing over. You knew she had multiple boyfriends before you. You knew she was sexually active, but not promiscuous. How exactly does one incident change your view of her? If you knew she had sex "a f... (read in full...)
If you are on birth control can a guy cum inside you as many times as he wants?
Q. If a guy cum so many times while you're on birth control pill, and you never miss a day. Can you still get preganent?...
A. 21 July 2010: It's unlikely, but it can happen. I wouldn't recommend it unless you were in a relatively stable relationship. My wife and I have used only birth control since around the 4th month of our relationship, which has been over 8 years now, and she has ... (read in full...)
Why do girls give oral sex?
Q. do girls give guys bj's because they want to or do they just do it to make the guys feel good in a relationship...
A. 21 July 2010: My wife loves, and says she always has loved, to give head. First, she says its about both giving your partner pleasure, and knowing that you're in control over that pleasure. Second, for her, it's a turn on to be in a somewhat submissive ... (read in full...)
Does boob size really matter in attractiveness to guys?
Q. This sounds really silly, but...I'm 18 and I think my boobs are too small. All my friends a D's and big C's and I'm barely a C, probly closer to a B 1/2. I'm not a very big girl about 117lbs 5'6". So maybe it's normal for my size. Still my fr...
A. 21 July 2010: If you're confident with what you have and don't have any hangups about your breasts that affect your sexual performance, most men will be completely satisfied.
Some guys might make comments about loving huge boobs or bragging about the biggest ... (read in full...)
Do any men like giving oral?
Q. I have only ever been with the one man in my life and he does not enjoy performing oral sex on a woman. He claims that men just DON'T like it at all. This may be a stupid and very obvious question I should know the answer to, but because I have o...
A. 21 July 2010: Love, love, love it. In the 8+ years my wife and I have been dating/married, there is no single faster way to give her multiple orgasms in such a short period of time than oral.
A lot of my favorite sexual memories are of us giving and recievin... (read in full...)
What should I do with my pubic hair?
Q. I don't know whether or not to shave my pubic hair. I have shaved it in the past, but let it grow back as I was not sure if girls are 'meant to' do this - I heard that it is a matter of opinion, but I am still unsure of what to do - where and how ...
A. 21 July 2010: Most men have a preference, but aren't going to turn it down if its being offered regardless of how your pubic hair looks.
I prefer shaved, but a small, neatly trimmed strip can be very sexy too. ... (read in full...)
To the men out there - do you get excited by the idea of seeing your wife having sex with another man?
Q. I would like to see my wife having sex with another man, the thought excites me. Does any other male have this feeling....
A. 21 July 2010: As a fantasy? Absolutely. What's not erotic about thinking about my wife having sex?
Would I want to do it in reality? Not really, there's a lot more bad than good that could come from it. ... (read in full...)
What is the average sized penis for a guy?
Q. hi, im 15. my gfs 17. i was talking to her about penis size, and started going thru them and what she though eg(1 inch? 2 inch? 3INch?), well i said my penis size and she laughed at it, im 4 inch 5. she laughed at all other sizes up to 4.5 an sed 5 ...
A. 21 July 2010: People grow at different ages, so even when you read about studies done about penis size, the test subjects are likely no younger than 21 or so.
Most studies put the average erect length of most (70% or so) men at between 4.5 and 6.5", with the... (read in full...)
My penis size worries me
Q. I am 22yrs old n a virgin. My penis is just 4.5 inches long. This worries me very much. Please honestly tel me if i would be able to satisfy a girl sexually with my penis? Is there anything i can do to increase its size? Is it normal? i masturba...
A. 21 July 2010: You're fine. Most studies put 70% of the male population between 4.5 and 6.5 inches. So, while you're toward the low end of the average category, it's not as if you're a toothpick up against a world of baseball bats. If you have good techniques ... (read in full...)
Ladies, I have questions about penis size.
Q. Ladies, for those of you who've been with a well hung (8-9") man, enjoyed it, but went to a more average (5-6") partner and enjoyed that too, which do you generally prefer and why? Is bigger=more masculine, or powerful or what? Do you long for the ...
A. 21 July 2010: As with everything, there's a varying spectrum of truth to penis size and pleasure. To say "Size is everything" or to say "Size is nothing" would be wrong in either case. The two things that I've learned from hearing most women talk about penis ... (read in full...)
Anniversary Gift Quandry
Q. Am I being greedy for having expectations of a gift from my husband for our 30th wedding anniversary?...
A. 18 July 2010: "A" gift? No. And shame on him if he thinks that 30 years excludes him from having to buy one. If my wife and I are still together after 30 years, I'd get her whatever I could afford for putting up with my crap for that long.
Now, the degree o... (read in full...)
Were you a virgin when you met the person you are married to?
Q. Were you a virgin when you met the person you are married to? Were they a virgin? Were you a giving oral virgin? Were you a recievimg oral virgin?...
A. 17 July 2010: No, No, No, No Both my wife and I had both been with other people before each other, we both knew about it and neither has a problem with it. ... (read in full...)
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