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writes: This sounds really silly, but...I'm 18 and I think my boobs are too small. All my friends a D's and big C's and I'm barely a C, probly closer to a B 1/2. I'm not a very big girl about 117lbs 5'6". So maybe it's normal for my size. Still my friends look so darn big, I want that! Relationship -wise my guys gonna love me anyhow, but does size really matter in attractiveness to guys? Do They really like the big ones? Oh, It's silly, I know, but I still want to know! P.S. Anyone know of a nonsurgical way to grow them bigger? Like an herbel supplement or something? I've heard Birth control can do it?
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reader, clyde88  +, writes (30 June 2011):
Don't fret, every gal has different size boobs. I've been with about 10 gals in the last 30 years and I've loved all the boobs. My wife of 20 years (happily married) is a bigger A cup, bigger C cup at each pregancy and at higher weights. But shrinkgs to A/B at her "fit" weight (115)....Love em all. If you are ever with a guy that complains or asks you to get a boob job, get rid of him
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2010): I'm 22 and my GF of nearly three years is an A cup..
I will be honest with you, breast size matters.. But not NEARLY as much as you would think. There's only so much you can do with them anyways right?
If your truly comfortable with what you have and have no hangups about it. Then the men you date won't be bothered by it.
If you want plastic surgery to "correct" this for you.. Don't do it because you think it will make you more confident, because it won't... If you want it so you can fit into more clothes properly, then that's fine.
Also, I'm turned off by anything over a large C.. They look bimbo'ish & stupid. Get what's proportionate to your body and don't go too big. I tend to not take women seriously if they have balloon boobs.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2010): im 17, the shallowest point in a man's life. my girlfriends a b cup. i love her to death, i could care less if she was flat chested. i mean sure, sexually, boobs are great. but if you want a guy to like you for you, and not your body, boobs dont matter.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2010): i personally prefer smaller boobs
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (1 August 2010):
 Not anywhere near as much as folks fret over penis size.It's not size that matters...it's frequency!
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reader, hindsight +, writes (21 July 2010):
If you're confident with what you have and don't have any hangups about your breasts that affect your sexual performance, most men will be completely satisfied.
Some guys might make comments about loving huge boobs or bragging about the biggest pair they've had, but in reality, most of us are happy just to get our hands on a pair, regardless of size. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2009): No. Boob size does not matter. There are, of course, men that are fixated on size, but they are probably suffering issues related to not being properly breast fed as infants. Then, some are just fixated on boobs, just as there are those that are infatuated with feet-- a fetish. They are a very small minority.One of the posts here mentioned breasts as part of the overall curvature of the female frame. I have to agree with that. As far as visual attraction goes, it's the total female. But I'm not so sure how much boob size plays into it. Personally, my eyes initially go right to the ass and hips and legs, then to the face and eyes. Boobs are the last thing I notice. Don't get me wrong, I like tits, but size is almost irrelevant. Even being an ass-man, it not size in that department either-- it's shape, and how that shape fits with the particular female.Whatever you do, do not get fake boobs. No. Nothing more unsexy that plastic tits. It's a turnoff.
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reader, twilightpisquiria +, writes (8 November 2009):
Hey I have small boobs too and I've always been worrying about them but when I talked about my "pancake chest" with my guy, he didn't care because he loves me for me, not my boob size and any guy that does care about that needs to get a reality check. When you find the right guy it really won't make a difference to him. Don't get surgery or try to do wierd procedures just because this is supposedly what's sexy. Just be yourself and learn to love your body instead of trying to change it
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reader, vienna +, writes (30 August 2009):
if bigger boobs arte not important teh why are plastic surgeons among the richsest guys and why do so many women have boob jobs:1. they think they will be more successfull in modeling, movies, magazine or as "escorts" or simple prostitutes.2. because men like them and have mostly the say who gets what job, women do it. ever seen a Playmate with a 32 B?????
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reader, haley92 +, writes (16 August 2009):
im a girl with smaller breasts. your breasts dont stop growing fully until your mid 20s . just remember that smaller boobs dont sag until way later in life!! so you wont have granny boobs at a younder age like some girls i kno!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2008): 'A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2007):
Big boobs are so prized in today's society because we've invented great bras to hide how saggy most of the big pairs really are. Most of the huge big boobs in the bar on Saturday are usually more attractive to look at than they are to touch.
Big ones get the attention from across the room, especially because men are so visually-oriented. But decent and non-saggy wins out every time once you're past the inital meet and greet stage."
its true.
big boobs might look better in bras
but most of the time to me smaller boobs look much better out of bras as theyre not all floppy and saggy but perky and cute and pretty and sexy
also small boobs to me are more elegant and modest and sexy
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2008): ima 17 year old guy and ..
yeah it does! guys dont want a totally flat girl who looks like she (and probably does) eats like nothing and does way too much exercise and even anorexic/bulemic... and they sure dont want a girl with digustingly huge ugly boobs that get in the way .. of an obese girl who does nothing for herself and make her look that like something that should just be locked up and hidden away..
guys love a girl who respects and loves herself and her body and eat a good amount of food and do a good amount of exercise.
but.. if the girl is just naturally small-chested or huge-chested and cant really do anything about it.. but respects/loves herself and eats/exercises well and stuff and has a beautiful funny happy personality..
she will be beautiful!
its true!
and any guy out there thats all like yes science tells us that big boobs are better... i mean just go away dont mix science and boobs it thas just a turn off! and that "A male reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2006):" with the really long comment which was total bullshit seems to me like some shallow, clueless, pathetic freak who spends all his time being educated by porn and has probably never seen real boobs! haha most of the things hes said there are totally untrue- that whole thing about girls chest sizes being the only thing that distingusihs them from males! seriously who is this guy?? .. and that small boobs arent visually stimulating? boobs are boobs! all boobs (like just them by themselves visually) are visually stimulating! unless they have like mold on them or something...
and fake breasts...? any guy who likes those are just disgusting! ive actually seen and felt them before- and it was truly horribly and very unsexy. they feel weird and hard and dont have the softness of real boobs that makes them so pleasurable. also fake boobs are a real turn-off for most guys.. especially me! i mean i dont want my girl to have like silicone and rubber and whatever shit they make fake boobs out of!. i want my gf to be real!
natural is beautiful :)
so boob size DOES MATTER- but dont change to be more 'accepted' by guys ... girls who try too hard are too easy- and this usually means they have a low self esteem- they are a turn off.. girls with self confidence who have accpeted themselves and made what they have work .. are HOT and SEXY!
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reader, darklord11 +, writes (19 November 2008):
if u still check back on this post ,well to me i don't want a girl with big boobs i would love to have a girl friend with your size over our friends boobs becuse think about it when they get older they boobs will sag and yours will stay cute and sexy,and if u have kids they will get a little big so i say stay with your cute and sexy small boobs
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reader, metalgearslayer +, writes (25 September 2008):
 well personaly i dont much care for boob size i wouldnt worry about it to much don`t do any thing drastic like a boob-job but don`t worry about it to much
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2008): hm, this was posted originally some time ago, but I'd like to add my opinions anyway.
Breast size doesn't matter much of anything, Contrary to the guys saying that it does. One person claimed guys are lying if they say they don't prefer big boobs. I can say for my own personal opinion at least, it's not boob size that does it.
What men are attracted to is curvature of the female body. Generally larger breasts modify the curvature of the body to look curvy on the upper part of the body, which incidentally is what the male eye likes.
Essentially as long as you have a curvy hips a guy will be attracted to you. Big boobs just enhance the attractivity level. Personally I don't care massively, though boobs are an appealing sight as long as they exist.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2007): Big boobs are so prized in today's society because we've invented great bras to hide how saggy most of the big pairs really are. Most of the huge big boobs in the bar on Saturday are usually more attractive to look at than they are to touch. Big ones get the attention from across the room, especially because men are so visually-oriented. But decent and non-saggy wins out every time once you're past the inital meet and greet stage.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2007): my comment is for the anon dec 4th guy, I have nursed three children and milk is produced on demand, it has nothing to do with breast size...if you have a hungry child who nurses alot, you are going to have bigger boobs when you start nursing .......I went from a B to DDD with my 10 lb boy.....also if your theory were true about small breasted women and nursing, wouldn't asian people be extinct?Breasts come in many shapes and sizes, I think that is why men like to look at them, the variety is endless
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2007): hi honey!
I mean I have the same problem as you do...
At first I could tell that my BF wishes for bigger ones but with time to come in bed he understands that the biggest sexual arousal comes from your self-esteem and confidence in bed and overall.
So love what you have:)
And just imagine what gravity does to us within 10 years...
Find the one to appreciate you for who you are and drive them crazy:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2007): I think girls with natural small breasts are yummy be proud of what you have some real honest genuine guy will love them and you for who you are.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2007): well ill say this men that are worth getting with will like you for you me my self i go for the girl first then the breast are like...an add on the bigger the better but ill get with a fully flat chested woman if shes a nice girl
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2007): Boob size does not matter..."REAL MEN" love women that come in all shapes and sizes, and particularly love and give attention to those differences.THe Idea that all women should be medium height big-breasted-barbie-automatons is disgusting...We are all different, it is being human that makes us the same
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2007): all I have to say is this and take it as you will.
I have a friend who is of average weight and has 34ff boobs, and when she takes of her bra they look absolutley hideous, they are saggy with streach marks. men very often lust after her and when she gets naked nearly all of them ask her to put her bra back on!!!
I also have another friend whos boobs are 32b and I can honestly say that the are the most beautiful perfect boobs I have ever seen in my life so much so that I like to look at them.
My point is the biiger the boob the more likely they are to have something wrong with them, whether it be saggy, miss shaped, streach marks etc.
I have rather large boobs and I can tell you, I think if mine were three cup sizes smaller stayed where they were when I take my bra off and were perkey Id be a happy woman
In my eyes you have the perfect size boobs
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2007): OH PLEASE!
many of these posts are rediculous
Sounds so much like the way women respond to the "does penis size matter" question
No crap personality and looks matter more then breast size! but this girl didn't ask if large breasts were prefered to nice looks, or nice personality did she!
She asked if larger breasts were prefered to smaller ones!
So, all other things considered equal would you not prefer
a large pair of breasts over a small pair?
of course you would!
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reader, jmac1344  +, writes (24 April 2007):
 Alot of guys arn't very picky about boob sizes, myself included.
I prefer a girl with a nice ass though, as do alot of other guys.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2007): ok. seriously, no one in this convo knows what the band size is. its the width around your body right below the boobs +5 or something.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2007): After coming back to this thread a few months later, I would like to further my previous answers that like most other aspects of a person, moderation and balance would be a sure attraction for anyone with a stable mind. I find some of the answers here answer in the extreme side - "breast size don't matter, and personality is greater". Well if you choose a woman purely for her personality, but she weighs say 95 pounds, flat chested, skinny as a withered twig at 5-6, wouldn't that be a turn off in the first place, no matter how great her personality is?
I can already feel some people glaring at me and thinking how 'shallow' I may be. [sighs]
Personally, breast size does matter to a degree, but I will tell u that it won't compare to character. If the female has a great figure, gorgeous breasts, big eyes, and a nice round ass - my first reaction would be "wow, what a turn on". However, then I realize she is unintelligent, inconsiderate, laughs at things I find odd, and basically is a total snob to all my friends, I would then find that an anti-turn on to my previous visual turn on. Understand?
However it's just like an earlier thread here about this girl who fancies two of her best guy friends, where one has the great looks and a good personality and the other has below decent looks but a great personality. People whom try to make themselves feel guilty and absolutely moral would say go for the below decent looks but great personality guy, but that doesn't say why she should choose him over the other. Just because the mention of great looks for the other guy, people automatically assume that by choosing anyone other than the one with the below than decent is shallow.
To clarify and in simpler terms, we shouldn't feel guilty in choosing what we feel is compatible for our desires. We should not submit to how others feel whom we should choose, and rather, never settle for anything less than what we want.
Honestly, I cannot and will never be able to be in a relationship with someone who is 300 pounds at 5-4, laughs like a 5 year old girl going through puberty, has huge toes and massive Jupiter sized breasts - no matter how great of a personality she has.
So as to further my answer, breasts as well as the other parts of the body are important in attraction. These factors should go hand in hand with her character, her interests, wit, charm, intelligence, and the like. It's all about balance, moderation, and connection.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2007): Boob sizes don't matter. If your funny and a lovely person they should love you for that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2007): i'd say alot of guys do find bigger boobs more attractive. id say most guys seem to like c's to d's but alot would be happy with b's. as for ways to make your boobs bigger besides surgery the only way to make your boobs bigger would be to get pregnant and that dont last too long. I like big boobs but they arent the only thing in the world. : )
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2007): No, It doesn't Matter, In fact I know more guys (Including myself) Who like smaller boobs, they look more attractive to be honest.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2007): yeah, sorry, but all of my friends agree, thres really no one physical stat more important than chest, but a personality is a stronger charisma enhancer than anything.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2007): Most guys don't care what size a woman's boobs are, dear, unless he's someone who doiesn't respect woman that much. Those types you can do without. What is more important to a decent, nice guy is what is between the earsof a woma he is interested in. Let him learn to love you for your personality, your essence, your confidence and your intellect. Once he's done that, the size of your boobs won't matter! Don't worry about this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2007): i dont think size matters all that much to them, i think guys just like boobs, as long as you have a some sort of a pair they'll like you (except in unfortunate cases of mastectomies,(such as my aunt, who had one and got married later that year) in which case your outstanding strength and courage will woo guys). Anyway, i'm an A and my boyfriend is seemingly fine with mine, at least they're pretty, in proportion and pert. Being a B im sure you have a pretty amazing figure so work it girl and make the most of it! Be confident in yourself and you will shine no matter what your size. If it boosts your self confidence, wear a pretty, well fitted bra and make it padded and find shirts that suit your figure. At the end of the day, if a guy turns you down because he claims your boobs are too small, it just proves he's not worth thinking about!boobs are only a small part of a girl, we have many other special features as all dateable guys will realise.good luck!
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reader, Dana33 +, writes (20 January 2007):
With the number of women in this world fighting breast cancer, you should give your breasts a loving caress and thank god every night that you have normal, healthy B/C cups that don't require mastectomies. My best friend's mom wasn't so lucky, and had both breasts removed last month.
Besides, any many obsessed with HUGE breasts is probably not worth the effort. Look at the great beauty queens in Hollywood... many of them have B and even A cup breasts. Kate Hudson (who is gorgeous) is almost completely flat-chested... it didn't stop her from marrying a rock star and becoming a movie star!
Appreciate what you have, and others will too!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2007): If a man really care about you then what ever the size you are shouldnt matter. All you hear about anymore is how people have to look perfect(model like) to get a good man. Well I am a man and I want someone who is a caring and loving person, I dont care what they look like, how big or how small their boobs are. People please be happy with what you have, stop trying to change what god gave you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2006): Your boobs are not too small. I'm 55, and I've seen my share. Some have been firm, small, large, pillowy, sagging. The ones that are the most memorable are the ones that loved to be touched, pinched, bitten, licked, and sucked. (Hope this isn't to explicit for you.). Bottom line: it's what they like done to them, not what they look like.
At your age, with the men you're likely to be dating, larger sizes are likely to be more popular. But with the guys that are really worth knowing, it won't matter a lot.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2006): Dont worry about it. As a guy, i can tell you that there is no "perfect" size for most of us. It all depends on the body of the girl. You sound like you're on the small side physically, so a B or small C would be just right for you. I'm dating a girl who is a B right now, and she is about your size(body-wise). She is a great girl and I don't give a care what size her chest is. If her boobs were much bigger it would just look unnatural. If a guy really likes you, your size won't matter at all. Also, trust me here: smaller natural boobs are MUCH more attractive than huge fake ones.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you sooooooo-much,Peter. You sound like such a nice guy. I hope there are more men who think like you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2006): In response to the male reader who very interestingly remained anonymous on dec 4th...you sound like a pervert, who has been corrupted by pornography! I am a 23 year old male who loves women, and you obviously can't have seen many naked women if you think that the only thing that distnguishes a guy from a girl are tits...my chest is flat and hairy, not like a girls at all, they have compltely different nipples and everything and very few are flat chested. In response to the girl writing in, I'm sure you're beautiful and you should love yourself before you want any man to, don't believe the hype...men are all different and like all shapes and sizes, just as you will do with the men you choose...give us more credit than that arsehole wants for us, women are more than the peroxide, massive titted whores on the net and magzines, just look around you for confirmation of that. Peter
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the tip, I am looking up that special bra right now!
Thank you all for your help. I guess at this point I want to be bigger, but it's no biggy if I can't get that way. I'll just wear padded bra out on dates.
Thanks I really appreciate in depth answers and the tips you all have given me. Thanks. Keep 'em comin' I could use all the help I can get!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2006): Very good question
I'm a man, and I can say that the size of a girls breasts is of extreme importance in sexual attractiveness, and quite important in overall visual attractiveness. I think that most men delude themselves into thinking that they like little ones, just so they can say so on posts like this, and feel good about making smaller women feel better. But, let's face it...I think deep down every "normal" man prefers a larger then average chest on their women. Nature programs us to feel more pleasure from copulating with women with larger breasts because larger breasts are superior to smaller ones for breast feeding. I'm sure you've heard many times over that size doesnt matter when it comes to breast feeding. Well, in my research that just isnt true. Larger breasts may not inherently produce more milk, but they have more storage space, and since breastfeeding is very energy consuming, having lots of extra stored fat around your mammary glands would have been a major survival advantage when food was in short supply.
So, as we evolved nature programed men to feel a desire for larger breasts for these reasons. Large breasts also do other things like "Confirm that she is a woman"! Remember that men have breasts too, so the only thing that differentiates the two is the SIZE! So the larger your chest the more you stand out to men as being a true woman! and the more men will anticipate sex, and companionship when looking at you. So, don't be fooled when guys say they prefer a small chest on a women (Some are outright lying to make you feel better, and some just say that because overly large breasts are indeed gross!) Remember, guys like girls because girls = pleasure, and sex (but how do we know a girl is a girl?) nature gives women visually distinctive features to make her stand out as being a true women to men. Big breasts are a powerfull feminine feature, so therefore having a large chest will make a huge difference in how men perceive you sexually!
That being said, I'll try to explain my prefered sizes. Let's say you were to take a women with a perfect body, and face, skin, ect. ect. She is my absolute dream woman in every way, except that she has a completely flat chest. Now, her flat chest by itself is not going to arouse me very much visually. Now lets say you could inflate her chest to larger sizes. As her flat chest got bigger, and bigger it would begin to visual stimulate me more, and more, and would be more fun to play with during sex, and foreplay. At a certain point my pleasure would reach it's maximum (probably a 36D or double D)and as they got bigger beyond that point, they would start to give me less pleasure because they would start to look too big, and disproportionate. So for me, and I think for most guys the best size is somewhere between 36 C and DD. The "a handfull is about right" remark that most men make about breastsize is true. Allthough I would say a little more then a handfull is about right. I mean, you want them big enough to grab to feel their weight, but no so big that they're all over you.
As much as the size of the breasts matter on a girl, I think the overall looks of the breasts matter a lot more (to an extent) "to an extent" meaning that if they're so small (anything A cup, and maybe a low B)then I would prefer added size to perfect symmetry, and skin coloring. To paraphrase that, I would take an average looking 36 c or 36 d cup over a perfectly symmetrical, perky, ect 36 a, or low b. But, I would take a perfectly looking high b, low c cup over an average looking optimally sized D cup.
The shape, and sag of the breasts is also very important. I think there is a certain shape that the breasts are supposed to be, and when they're shaped like that they look more beautifull then any other shape. Of course if they're too small then they can't have that shape, so too small loses points in both the size category and shape category! Alot of fake breasts look to perfectly round to me. Like the're trying to get the perfect roundish shape when they do implants, but perfectly roundish is not the best. I would have to show you pictures of my favorite racks so you get an idea of what I mean.
so, the way the breasts look overall is most important (which includes factors such as size, shape, sagginess, firmness, skin coloring, absence of blue veins, nipple size, nipple shape, nipple coloring, ect.) but when you're talking the sexual arousal that you get from looking at a pair of breasts, its the sheer size that gets you sexually excited.
I'm trying to explain the way men percieve and judge the breasts they look at. I hope this has been of some help.
to sum this up "Men are aroused at the size of a womans breasts the way women are aroused at the size of a mans penis"
I highly recommend the sight penissizedebate.com
it is a websight intended for men worrying about the size of their penises, but, I think it could be really helpfull for women worrying about their breast sizes too. It's mostly true, except for the part about men prefering big pussy lips, and some of the pictures of breasts I think are too big. but, check it out.
I've done some research into breast enlargements (However, I spend most of my time researching ways to enlarge my penis!) muhahahaha
I think surgical implants are the best way to go, since creams and stuff probably dont do jack crap! I've been wearing a penis extendor for allmost a year now, with modest gains. It stretches the penis slowly and without too much force, and I wear it probaby about 6 hours a day, and I've gained a little bit of length. I've heard of a bra that applies pressure to your breast tissue, that you wear for 8-9 hours a day, and that pressure is supposed to force cells in your breasts to multiply. Supposedly you can gain a whole cup size in 6 months or a year of wearing it. I read about this somewhere, but havn't looked into the details, so I would suggest googling it.
I mean, you say you're a petite girl with a high B, maybe low C cup size, (I'd have to see pictures of you naked) haha! shirt off please shirt off! to form a true opinion of how good you look, but guessing from the info I have, you probably have really attractive breasts. Maybe even optimully sized breasts allready! and if not, you could allways find a method of enlargement, or go for surgery, or better yet, just except yourself the way you are
People are worrying about they're bodies now a days more then ever because we're attacked by the media, and stuff on the internet all day long! This makes us all feel even more of a need to have perfect bodies. But, it is true that us guys like all sizes of breasts, just not all sizes equally. So, don't listen to people when they say it doesnt matter, because it does to guys.
But, remember there are a lot of things about you, and women that matter even more then the size of their breasts, butts, vaginas ect.
you're never gonna be perfect (implants or no implants, plastic surgery or no plastic surgery) so you should just except yourself the way you are.
However don't let somebody discourage you, and say you're shallow to want larger breasts (if you decide that's what you do want) I mean, you should except yourself the way you are, that doesn't mean you can't want to be better, or look better. I mean, women are obsessed with putting on make up, and looking all beautifull, so I think its ok for them to get breast inlargements, or wear padded bras to enhance their sex appeal.
I hope this has helped you a bit (if you actually read this all OmG!)
but seriously check out penissizedebate.com
its a fun websight, and has many truths
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2006): C is the best cup size its right in the middle not too much.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2006): Size does matter a little. You should have boobs that you can see are at least close to average, but I would say that a woman's face and the fat hanging from their stomach ( hopefully not a lot ) are more important than breast size.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2006): my boobs are only a small size B n theyr'e reali firm!! im 17 n 2 be honest i don't care is ppl say they are small. Guys who only date girls wi small boobs are only shallow n need a reality check. We should all be happy with the size of our boobs n not care wot anyone else says.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2006): I'll be honest, I am a guy and I prefer small boobs over bigger. I mean completely flat (like a guy) isn't that attractive, but a B cup to me is ideal. Anything in the range of A-C is ideal, D is ok but too much bigger is almost too much to handle.
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reader, Yos  +, writes (6 November 2006):
 For some yes. But for many, no not at all. Personally I like them in ALL shapes and sizes, as long as they are not too big (and by too big I mean huge).
A 'B' is a very good size in my book :)
I suspect the easiest way to make them bigger is to get a bra that accentuates your cleavage (like a wonderbra), and then wear a low-cut top.
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reader, Rainee +, writes (5 November 2006):
 Dear, having big boobs isn't all cracked up to be. I used to be a 44DD before I had a breast reduction--my back was hurting from the weight I was carrying up front. Those of average-to-small size have a better chance of buying anything off the rack and it fitting, they're better able to wear clothes without always worrying about a bra to contain themselves in, and the less you have to begin with, the less you have to sag later!
Honestly, if I could do it over again, I wouldn't have the breast reduction--but that's only because of the scars and strange shape of my breasts now (I've had several doctors tell me what a great job the plastic surgeon did and if this is good, I'd hate to see what bad looks like!)
Don't worry about your breasts too much; guys don't like insecure girls a lot. They much prefer a girl confident in herself and when you find the right guy, I assure you, he'll love every inch of you (or the lack thereof).
GL
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all so much for your advice:) I do feel a bit better now thanks to all of you. Oh and thanks for the clothing advice , Sexybum, I might just try something like that. You've all been so nice & so helpful!
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reader, Sexybum  +, writes (4 November 2006):
 Believe me honey having big boobs isn't all it's made out to be.... constantly needing new bras... only certain types are even comfortable and also if you've got big boobs it can get a tadge annoying when it's the only thing that people pick up on!!!!! especially if you wear a nice top but other people don't like it cause your boobs look big!
Alos you have to buy larger size clothes and that makes you feel bad... When I was a B I could buy size 8 or 10 now I've got bigger boobs and I have to buy bigger tops because otherwise they won't go ther my chest... It can be dis-hearting but you just have to love yourself for yourself
Everybody is very different and it's each to there own. There are soem clothes that you can wear that I could only dream off like corsets for example... Bet they'd suit you but look attrocious on me! heheheh........
I hope that you feel about yourself and love that actually you've still got soemthing that others would want....
Good luck honey
Sexybum
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2006): To be honest, lots of guys like boobs that aren't huge. you say you are a B 1/2, that's a good sixe. Lots of guys like the "cute" sized boobs rather than the monstrous ones, trust me. I get turned on a lot more by a girl with small, cute breasts.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2006): Oops, sorry, forgot to answer the question... [sighs and smiles] Hmm... I don't know if this was psychological or not, but I noticed that my then gf's breasts would be rounder and larger after having a month-long daily sex fest, especially after many hours of doggy style. Mind u, I don't know if this was my mind playing tricks on me. If it indeed helped her get rounder boobs, then... Oh wait, she did gain about 5 pounds... ???
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2006): I like boobies of all sizes... [ponders] Well, it has to be proportionate to their bodies. I mean I like to hold breasts in both my hands - I def prefer B, C, D, and DD's. The thing is A's are alright too - about 38 A, but like I said, proportion is something greatly desired. 8]
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2006): I love B, C cup breasts. You ought to as well. I guarantee you that as time goes by, you'll really be glad about your size.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2006): Im only a B cup and I go on web cam and I have over 100 hits a day im told that my boobs are great so what does that say you are listen to the wrong people x
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2006): Im only a B
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2006): I have a D cup and trust me its not all its cracked up to be!, they were nice and firm when they got large at first but, after having my son they just went saggy!!, its not very pretty to look at to be honest!.
Dont worry about your size babes I'm sure you have very pert boobs, (damn you!).
lol.
XX
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reader, Lemonpixie +, writes (3 November 2006):
 No, men do not care for the most part. if your thin size B is very vell proportionate I have plenty of friends with small chests that get men left and right. Honestly it varies. Some are ass men, some are boob men, some love a pretty face and some love long legs...it depends on the guy! Most asian women have small chests and they seem to be very popular with guys nowadays! There is something for everyone in this world! Plus big boobs are a hassle...they will just get saggy as you get older I'm only 22 but im dreading having children I would hate to have size f or something!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2006): You're breats are a fine size. All any guy wants is a mouthfull or a handfull, lol. B and C cups are an ideal size for me.
Whatever you do, though, do not get breast implants or anything like that. Fake breasts are the worst. I'd rather date a flat-chested woman than one with big plastic things bouncing around. Natural is the way to be!
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reader, happylife +, writes (3 November 2006):
I’m sure there are some men who prefer smaller breasts. However, haven’t met anyone who said so.
As for me, size makes all the difference as far as physical attraction goes. I only date women with a good size chest. As for your second questions, I am not well educated on the subject of non-surgical breast enlargement procedures, so I don't think I can advise you there.
Thanks,
Happylife
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