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Had sex with a co-worker, should I tell my fiance
Q. My fiance has been in jail going on three months now, his date to be released is May 28th. I love this man with all my heart and soul. We have been through so much with his probation officer and his time. I was able to see him twice a week and talk ...
A. 22 April 2010: I don't think you should tell him anything because tru confession may be good for the soul but it plays hell with personal relationships.
And uhhh, about your concern over this recent funtime hook up distroying him,,, it sounds like he's pret... (read in full...)
Just rubbing shoulders or something more?
Q. I belong to about 5 to 8 ethnic groups in India and Western Europe. Girls who are in a relationship seem to like brushing shoulders with me even though they are already in a relationship. After a while some get comfy enough to brush their boob...
A. 22 April 2010: Personal physical contact in any way could indicate a willingness to be more friendly, so just to be on the safe side, you should treat it as such and and make the next move.
It is not nice to hurt a girl's feelings.... (read in full...)
Can you forget someone completely?
Q. My boyfriend, J, of 10 months broke up with me. We were having a long distance relationship. He says he has to move on because I lied to him. But he still feels for me and that he would never give up hope that we'll one day come back to each other. ...
A. 22 April 2010: There is an old saying that's actually very good advise:
"The best way for a girl to get over
one guy is to get under another one."
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Life is too short to pout so it's time to move on... ;~) ... (read in full...)
Is sex with and in-law incest?
Q. I have a close girlfriend, who just confided in me about her sexual encounter she had with her brother in law, that would be her husband's brother. She has been married and known him for over 10 years. I really do not know what to tell her; that i...
A. 22 April 2010: Not incest... and about that "adultry" thingy, it's just another one of those words like "fornication" that was made up by a Pope and added to the Bible sometine during the Dark Ages around the fifth century. ... (read in full...)
Does this girl really like me?
Q. okay, so along with the popular girl from my school, I think another girl might like me...but the thing is I don't think she knows I'm 17 and she looks about 19 or so. She works at a resteraunt and all of the girls that work there are extremely ...
A. 18 April 2010: There's an outstanding chance that she is just a nice person with a friendly personality and she's just being nice to you as a regular customer of the reataurant.
When you go in the restaurant, notice how she treat the other customers as she may ... (read in full...)
What's the good thing about being FWB, not including sex?
Q. Hey everyone !!! I want to ask a quick question. What is the good thing about being friends with benifits and by that i mean holding hands, hugging, cute names, making out. (nothing sexual) ?? And what is the bad part ?? thanks alot ...
A. 18 April 2010: I've had one of those FWB relationships for the past eight years and I don't know of any "bad part".
He's three year older than me and was my first "all-the-way" sexual experience.
We get together whem I'm home on semester breaks, and several ... (read in full...)
I have trouble with him not replying for three or four days
Q. I need help....my ex and I broke up about 2 months ago and a month ago we started talking again. It was great at first.He is very independent.I get anxious if he doesnt respond right away to my voice mail or text message and has told do not do that ...
A. 18 April 2010: You "started talking again" because his ego needed a boost and your calling repeatedly has no doubt recharged his ego.
Now it's time to throw the player a curve.- Do not call him and when he tries to contact you, be busy, very busy, and put him off ... (read in full...)
Is my weight getting in the way of his pleasure?
Q. This might be a long story... Well my boyfriend and i have been going out for almost 3 years and everything has gone great, theres only one problem... he works out all the time and is super skinny while i'm overweight... our sex life is always s...
A. 18 April 2010: Your bf is at least being polite, perhaps out of habit.
There is one thing for sure and certain: If you don't care about your appearance, it will not be very long before he doesn't care about you.
Sorry, but that's the way it is in the real wor... (read in full...)
I'm afraid to lose my virginity.
Q. I'm 20 years old and I am a virgin still. I know i shouldn't think so much of it but the only reason I still am one is because every time I've been presented with the opportunity to have sex i got scared that i wouldn't do good enough and backed ...
A. 18 April 2010: Make a small investment in yourself and buy a copy of "The Joy Of Sex" (Revised) by Alex Comfort and read it. After you do that, you will have a better basic knowledge of human sexuality than most girls you're likely to meet. It's even bett... (read in full...)
I want to have my cake and eat it too
Q. I am married and have had a crush om a co worker for the last 7 months. I have been quite good at hiding my feelings from him til recently when we have spent a lot of time together at work. Working one on one. I let it slip about my crush on him ...
A. 27 January 2010: Your husband is at somewhat of a disadvantage when being compared to your friend at work.
Everybody has good times and bad, days when they don't feel well, many days that they're just too tired to be charming and sociable, and a married couple will... (read in full...)
My husband wont say "I love you"
Q. My husband has never said I love u in the 10 yrs. We have been together. I asked him why when we first were together. He said when he has said it in the past that all went to hell after that. Well 10 yrs later and I still can't get him to say it. Is ...
A. 27 January 2010: Many people are not very good at saying how the feel so if he is a good husband in other ways maybe you shouldn't put much importance on this one thing.
Just remember, actions speak louder than words.... (read in full...)
I think he could still love me to but I'm not sure because he said nothing more than friends
Q. Well.. I firstly want to thank anyone who replys to this it means a lot to me. I am in love with a boy (lets call him T) I have been since August last year. Me and T dated a lot like not as boyfriend and girlfriend but it was dates as w...
A. 23 January 2010: Kaytie, dating is all about gaining experience and experimenting. Problem is that the two people involved in a relatioship will almost never come to the decision to end it at ehe same time.
"I want to be a flirt" is just the most polite thing he c... (read in full...)
2 friends on dating site both contacting me. Are they playing games with me?
Q. I met a guy like 2 weeks ago on a dating site, we have been exchanging really long mails and we started chatting as well, it seems we have a lot of "chemistry", so I am starting to like him a little to much and it "feels" like he likes me a lot as ...
A. 23 January 2010: I've never used an on line dating site mainly because there has always been lots of guys around as I'm still in school.
Whether you meet a guy on line or in person, none of them come with a guarantee of satisfaction.
Just choose the one you have... (read in full...)
My b/f says he doesn't know what he feels for me
Q. My boyfriend says he doesn't know what he feels for me and needs to see me to help him decide. I went overseas and he had to move back to his hometown cos he lost his job. We had discussed we could manage a long distance relationship cos...
A. 23 January 2010: I'm thinking that after being with him for a year and a half and living together for 6 or 7 months and he still is unsure about his feelings for you only means he's missing the convenience of living with you.
That ain't love babe, so it's time to m... (read in full...)
How do you knock back a friends advances without losing the friendship?
Q. There's this boy in my year at school. We're good friends, but he's always hugging me and saying "Wuv you," and telling me how gorgeous I am and flirting with me... He hasn't actually asked me out yet, but, all my other friends think he will so...
A. 23 January 2010: If he does finally get the courage to ask you out, you should do it because just dating the guy does not mean you've committed to any long term thing.
The relationship would still be only friendship unless and until you change your mind and want... (read in full...)
Why Women Can’t Separate Sex from Love
Q. Lila here~. The truth is, most women genuinely cannot separate sex from love. Even in our post feminist, equal opportunity culture, women are still hard-wired to expect love and sex to be combined. Heck, I was talking to a stripper about b...
A. 23 January 2010: DoubleM you say, "Any man who resists more commitment is unworthy of pleasures from the woman." That may be if she is looking for a marriage partner but that would not be universally true. In June of last year I waved goodby to my boyfriend after ... (read in full...)
I don't know what I'm doing wrong but I've never been kissed by a girl... Help!
Q. Hey I'm 17 years old and I'm a junior in high school. I have never kissed a girl nor have I had a girlfriend. I have no self confidence in myself even though girls tell me I'm cute. I am puerto rican and have guido spiky hair and am 5' 8''. Most of ...
A. 21 January 2010: You're spending too much time and energy thinking,,, MAKE A MOVE... ;~)... (read in full...)
Why Women Can’t Separate Sex from Love
Q. Lila here~. The truth is, most women genuinely cannot separate sex from love. Even in our post feminist, equal opportunity culture, women are still hard-wired to expect love and sex to be combined. Heck, I was talking to a stripper about b...
A. 21 January 2010: I may be one of your exceptions.
I'm 23 and still have almost two more years of education to go. I'm not even looking for Mr. Wonderful yet but I do like the social benefits of having a regular guy friend including a very active sexual rela... (read in full...)
I want to give my new boyfriend head...
Q. so i want to give my new boyfriend head. we`ve been together 3 months and we have started to get sexual. ive done it before to my ex and the ex before that and they always said it was really good. but the problem is... they were both ...
A. 21 January 2010: Keep a good grip on the bottom half so you don't gag or up-chuck on him. (that is embarrassing)
If you get on top and do the bull rider thingy, he'll get over you choking the chicken... ;~)
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How do I make a guy go nuts in bed?
Q. i am not what you call experienced in bed, I'm shy and body concious around men so I would like to know how I can make a guy go nuts in bed which I think will help my confidence x...
A. 21 January 2010: You have to set the mood.
Been there, done that, even got a t-shirt...
In the bedroom with your guy, light several candles around the room (use big candles that can't fall over and be a fire hazard and set them in the middle of a plate and turn off... (read in full...)
I don't know what I'm doing wrong but I've never been kissed by a girl... Help!
Q. Hey I'm 17 years old and I'm a junior in high school. I have never kissed a girl nor have I had a girlfriend. I have no self confidence in myself even though girls tell me I'm cute. I am puerto rican and have guido spiky hair and am 5' 8''. Most of ...
A. 21 January 2010: Dude, I know I'm coming at this from the wrong side of the gender gap, but let me give it an analytical shot.
- First of all, the spiky hair thingy,,, crop it off a little shorter because girls like to be the show.
- Next, I'm thinking about yo... (read in full...)
How old do you have to be before age doesn't matter?
Q. How old do you have to be before age doesnt matter? Im 22years old and i really like a girl who is only 17, 5years is a big difference at this age i think, although she doesnt act or look 17, i feel as though we are the same age but i know when we ...
A. 21 January 2010: I've always dated older guys, like from 3 to 7 years older, and I see no problem with the two of you hooking up and really, it's nobody's business but yours anyway. Good luck and have fun. ... (read in full...)
Should I confess everything to my husband?
Q. i am a wife n a mother. i have been married for the last 5yrs. my husband has gone for offshore job for 2-3 months. last sunday i had sex with my brother-in-law. from that time i am really feeling guilty. should i confess everything to my husband?...
A. 21 January 2010: Honesty is almost always a good thing but in this case it would serve no good purpose and only hurt your husband.
If you truly feel guilt then there's a good chance you would not let it happen again.
Many married women have such affairs but your... (read in full...)
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