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well, i originally found this site when i was searching for a online diary but this is heaps better =) i like it because i can help ppl and get help from ppl who are here purely to give me advice and not tell me something to manipulate my decisions.
u could say i've been through a hell of a lot in my life time, even if i'm only 17. i forgive but i'm sorry i don't forget and it'll probably replay in my head ocassionally.
i'm shy with alot of ppl except ppl i can just click with. i have trust issues.
on the good side of me tho, i love joking around! i am a good listener, i care for very few ppl but if ur one of those few ppl (not to be up myself) but i'm a real good friend bak, i've had plenty of friends stab me in the bak or do something horrible so i noe how they feel and how much it would hurt.
i HATEEEEE cheaters and liars i don't understand how you can be so selfish and think of only urself.
anyways.
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My ex says he wants to be with me but he can't..how am I supposed to get over him?
Q. Hey everyone I'm here for a little bit of help, me and my boyfriend of 4 years have broken up. He hurt me really bad and i just dont know what i want to do anymore. We are going to be attending College together everyday for the next year and t...
A. 30 January 2009: cause he doesn't want to hurt me anymore, he does stupid things like to push me away whenever we get too close. i dunno. i wish i could work it out, i just dunno how i miss him and i wish that he was with me still everyday. ... (read in full...)
He says he doesn't love me anymore, but I don't think that's completely true. I'm so confused! Plese help!
Q. i recently fell in love for the first time with my boyfriend. who in my eyes is the most perfect person ive ever found.but then he finished me a few weeks ago.and i am heartbroken,he wont talk to me face to face even to get his stuff.he still ha...
A. 27 March 2008: i am goin thru the exact same thing as u are, my boyfriend and i were together for 3 years on n off, den randomly we had a huge fight and he said to me by the end of it that mayb he doesnt love me anymore and that he doesnt kno how it happened n ... (read in full...)
Does he miss ME or having girl company?
Q. hey aunts Just wondering, how do you know if you're over your ex boyfriend? I mean, we were dating for 2 years and after 2 days of crying I stopped.. it was only when I really really thought about him which made me sad.. Then even though he ...
A. 13 February 2008: nah, i meant no i haven't moved on n i do still love you and i don't even know wat i want in general so i can't say anything to him
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How do I tell him we shouldn't talk anymore without offending him?
Q. Hey Aunts, I just want to ask you a question - I'm having a little trouble with me and my boyfriend of 2 years. We broke up and he is so confusing, just always giving me mixed messages, I miss him so much. I've just realized it's time t...
A. 10 February 2008: we broke up because it wasn't working, we both agreed but then i wanted to work things out but he said it's best we're not friends so i didn't talk but wen we didn't talk
he started talking to me sayin he misses me but he shouldn't hav said it,... (read in full...)
How do I tell him we shouldn't talk anymore without offending him?
Q. Hey Aunts, I just want to ask you a question - I'm having a little trouble with me and my boyfriend of 2 years. We broke up and he is so confusing, just always giving me mixed messages, I miss him so much. I've just realized it's time t...
A. 10 February 2008: nah i don't want a friendship or anything with him, and the reason i'm movin on is because his too confusin and i cant be bothered waitin round for something thats so hard to work at, i think if we were meant to get back together it wud jus happen. ... (read in full...)
How can I make this feeling go away?
Q. Please help me I'm in a state. I'm really in love with someone who I had a serious conversation with tonight I now know there is no point whatsoever of trying with him anymore, he has told me he hasn't got feelings for me and never will. Hard to ...
A. 3 February 2008: hrmm, i'm goin thru the exact same thing as u and i hav before which angers me becuz i'm so stupid for not preventing it again. and i hav a chance to right now but i don't want to and i'm contemplatin on it. see, me n my boyfriend of 2 years broke... (read in full...)
I'm afraid he'll reject me.
Q. Me and my boyfriend of 2 years have broken up and it's not the first time tho, but it's the first time in about a year or moree, and i duno wat to do it was so much easier jus ignorin him and pretending not to care, but den he kept talkn to me...
A. 3 February 2008: Thing is, i'm scared if i see him i will fall for him even more and then i will want to be with him even moreee... coz i noe, his answer will eitha be NO or i dunno... n i duno if i hav the energy to go thru all this confusion n stuff?
and i... (read in full...)
I want to trust him. He cheated and wants me back! I want it to be okay. I love this man..do I give him another chance?
Q. Okay, here goes. I'm really hoping that someone can help me... I've been with my husband for 5 1/2 years now. Been married nearly 4 1/2. We moved to England a year and a half ago. Back in April 2007 I met this chick and we became really good ...
A. 19 January 2008: woah, that first response was so good :D
i probably won't meassure up but i have a story i can share if it will help. i won't tell you wat to do but u can try to make do with my experience.
well, me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 y... (read in full...)
I love my boyfriend a lot and he loves me too, but he loses his temper easily. Advice needed.
Q. I love my boyfriend alot and he loves me too, but he loses his temper quite easily. He says he's sorry and that he loves me, but its hard for him to control his temper. we've been together 15 months and are in bliss when we're not arguing. How can ...
A. 19 January 2008: is he by any chance a scorpio? lol, i feel your pain. my boyfriend hav been together for almost 2 years. and he has the worse anger problems he doesnt hit me or anything but his easily agitated and he hits walls and stuff when his real real real ... (read in full...)
I lost my virginity recently to the girl I love but I didn't make her orgasm. Am I bad at sex? How do I prevent myself from ejaculating so quickly?
Q. I suck at sex!!! I lost my virginity a week ago to this girl I love!!! It was brilliant! But... I didn't make her orgasm. I couldn't last long enough to anyway. Is this really bad? She's NEVER had an orgasm before in her life, not even made by ...
A. 5 October 2007: As I am one of these girls that "cannot orgasm" and it is possible that 1/4 girls cannot, or somethin like that! you shouldn't be so hard on yourself. ... (read in full...)
Cheating or not?
Q. i have had a boyfriend for about three months and i really like him and i recieved a message tonight saying how was london babe love you and i haven,t been to london and i then recieved a message saying that he had sent it to the wrong person i ...
A. 5 October 2007: do not jump to conclusions, ask him who it was meant to be to and watch his tone/body languagee! if he cant look u in the eye or he stutters, most likely chance that he is lyin!... (read in full...)
I think he cheated, but it was a year ago, how do I get to the truth?
Q. I suspect that my spouse cheated before we got married. We've only been married a little over a year but shortly after we got married there was some references made towards him cheating, he was very secretive about his cell phone and calls. I went ...
A. 5 October 2007: well, u have all the signals there that he lied(bad) and why would he liee about something that wouldn't hurt u? u can ask his friends, or trust ur instincts. ... (read in full...)
Is it true that Asian people stay at home until they find someone to marry?
Q. my asian friend still lives at home with her parents is that a good thing? i am just wondering because she says that asian women or certain girls in general still live at home with there parents until they find some one to marry . is that really ...
A. 29 August 2007: i am an asian girl, haha thats funny because i would prefer to live at home with my parents until i have someone to live with, i wanna be settled financially and i'm kinda afraid of sleepin/being alone so i would wanna move out with a friend who is ... (read in full...)
Is my wife being honest about going through with a threesome?
Q. Is my wife being honest about going through with a threesome? I have had the fantasy of seeing my wife with another man for 2-years now. I have asked her about it and she always said no. I make little comments and suggestions all the time. Finall...
A. 29 August 2007: My boyfriend of 2 years wants to do the same with me, I always say no because I think it's a big sign of betrayal... almost like cheating! I guess he's given up but I know deep down thats what he thinks about when we stuff! I think you've pushed her ... (read in full...)
Is it okay to be in a serious relationship where it is near perfect, but to still wonder/dream/occasionally hope that the "wow/breath taking" love will happen someday?
Q. Sometimes I believe in an amazing fairytale love, in which although circumstances can never be perfect, the two people feel an amazing love, in which passion and etc is all included. Other times, I believe people should be realistic, and r...
A. 29 August 2007: i always wonder that myself, i have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for about 2 years nearly...and it started off being fabulous, the butterflies the late nite talks the endless rushes of love! but over timee... all the problems all the ... (read in full...)
We're always arguing over stupid little things and it gets to the point where I slap him and I hate doing it but he gets me so angry.
Q. Me and my boyfriend love each other loads but the problem is we're always arguing over stupid little things and it gets to the point where I slap him and I hate doing it but he gets me so angry. He blames everything on me but I hate the arguing, it ...
A. 16 August 2007: OMG ur situations almost alike to mine, my boyfriend always tries to blame things on me... it's like his guilty! i dunno... have u tried talking to him about it? if his the kind you can really talk to and get the truth out of UR LUCKY mines lik... (read in full...)
I'm probably asking the most unaswerable question! Why are guys so hard to understand????
Q. Hi everyone, I'm probably asking the most unaswerable question! Why are guys so hard to understand???? I've been seeing a guy for a few months and we have a great time together. But he is moving away soon for a job opportunity. I didn't realise ...
A. 16 August 2007: Most guys, well a majority of guys think logically ...they feel that if they let us know how they feel they are weak. whereas girls think emotionally and with their heart, therefore we are outspoken and easier to understand ... ... (read in full...)
My gf likes this other guy-am I wasting my time on her or not?
Q. hello im new, i have a girlfriend, and she likes this guy at school and i actually know cause she left her questions on and i seen it, and apparently she flirts with him, and yea she tried breaking up with me for him, but she couldnt cause she ...
A. 14 December 2006: as i put my ex through this i can imagine how you feel, what you need to work out is how much do you love her? do you think if she then decided to be with u instead of this guy and only had feelings for u that you could forgive and forget? do you ... (read in full...)
Do you think it's possible to repair a good relationship that had a really bad break up?
Q. in situations where you and your ex didn't have a good break - up an awful one at that - that included yelling, name calling, stopped talking for a week or so... being annoyed at each other and jealousy.. and broke up over too many fights. but...
A. 14 December 2006: thankyou for your answers!wat i forgot to mention is, i have realized wat went wrong in the relationship we've both had our fair share of space..and i did take alot of it for granted, although now we're takin normally, a lil bit of flirting. he stil ... (read in full...)
He keeps telling me its over, and then saying he loves me! I'm so confused. Help!
Q. Relationship troubles..........ARGH! My boyfriend of almost 2 yrs just broke up with me yet again. 3 weeks ago we called it quits, we still kind of talked. I was angry and hurt and wanted to get him back. I was asked out by this guy 2wks ago and ...
A. 5 December 2006: he is probably right, although i do know where you are coming from you need to move on with life maybe not with someone else but have fun go out, and forget him and if he comes back then he does, if talking to him is making you fall for him all the ... (read in full...)
My GF's so busy she doesn't have time for sex any more!
Q. my girlfriend and I have been together for a year and a half and for the first year things were absolutly great. We had sex every possible time we could and she instigated it so many times. She was always calling me and asking to hang out and ...
A. 17 November 2006: i think you need to preoccupy yourself aswell, personally i think that she's right you dont need that part of the relationship so often. me and my boyfriend used to do it all the time whenever we saw each other and after that i felt like he was ... (read in full...)
Being with him would make life bearable, but he doesn't want me! Any advice?
Q. Feel as though my whole life is slipping through my fingers. I'm 16, and 4 months ago I was perfectly happy. I had an amazing boyfriend who I loved to death and loved me too, I had a great social life, making new friends every day and keeping good ...
A. 17 November 2006: i find myself that i was in a similar situation to you a week ago. Me and my boyfriend were attached at the hip we were on n off for about a year and 6 months and we loveed each other heaps. we've been over for the past 3 weeks and these passing ... (read in full...)
We have had sex and we flirt constantly! Even though, he says he doesn't want me..what is going on?
Q. Me and my ex have been talking over the internet every day for about 3 days. We flrt a lot, and we obviously both still like eachother, but we are both confused as to what we want. We broke up 2 months ago but it didn't really end, as we were like ...
A. 17 November 2006: First of all you have got to figure out wat you want, and wat you get from the outcomes. You need to set things straight with him!
If you want to move on because he wont be with you then you need to stop having sex with him and tell him not to flir... (read in full...)
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