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What does it mean if a guy places his hand on your waist?

Q.   What does it mean if a guy places his hand on your waist? I was talking and joking with a friend and this guy(i kinda like him) from my class who was standing next to me laughed too and placed his hand on my waist(or lower back). Also, what doe...

A.   12 June 2012: Well he obviously is into you he wants to show you in a subtle way but be careful too not all guys are what they seem sometimes when they realize you are interested they toy with you. Just watch his body language and determine what he thinks of you. ... (read in full...)

Why does my science teacher follow me?

Q.   When I'm in school, my Science teacher keeps following me. He's in his early thirties and asks me to stay back after school to talk about my grades. He looks me in the eyes all the time. I get good grades, I do all my work and I don't fancy him or ...

A.   7 May 2012: Oh gosh you have to be careful in a situation like that let him know how you feel he will back off, if you dont want to tell him yourself let a parent know or a older brother or sister know perhaps even another teacher . You never know what may ... (read in full...)

Is moaning during kissing normal?

Q.   Just a simple question..... i was going out with this guy and well he took me to the movies and dinner but then when he drove me home we started kissing and well as were maaking out he was moaning i thought it was wierd. We had only been tpgether ...

A.   7 May 2012: I'm 16 now he is 18 now but thanks for your advise :) ... (read in full...)

Can it be harmful to have sex during a period?

Q.   So..me and my girlfriend had sex while she was on her period. ( please don't judge) I was wondering if this was bad in any kind of way? Like can it harm our bodies and stuff like that. Thank You...

A.   9 April 2012: I dont think that it will harm your body but I have read an article stating that it can potentially cause cancer and other complications. Though the chances of that happening are slim and I dont mean to scare either of you but it is possible. ... (read in full...)

How do I become a jerk to attract girls?

Q.   what does it take to get a gf? im honest, nice, smart and above average looking. i am 16 but it seems that guys who are jerks usually attract girls attention. How do i do that?...

A.   9 April 2012: Okay do not try to become a jerk. Thats too over-rated. Not all girls like jerks usually the ones who do like nice guys are the nice ones. You have to examine what type of girl you are looking for. Then you can find out what is keeping you from ... (read in full...)

Am I wrong for wanting to work my way up from the friend zone?

Q.   I have a question that my guy friends have been giving me alot of crap about and I just want to make sure I am doing this right There is the boy that I like He is Vietnamese and very very quiet He doesn't talk or respond to anyone he doesn't kno...

A.   1 April 2012: There is nothing wrong with that if he is as shyas he seems that may work better than going up and flirting with him. He is beginning to respond to you thats great keep working on it. GOOD LUCK! keep me updated on how it goes :)... (read in full...)

I'm in love with a guy who's half my age

Q.   Hi. I'm a 54 yr old woman, who honestly looks about 35. I'm very blessed. I work out, and have always taken good care of myself. I place a personal ad, and hesistantly, responded to a 27 yr old. He and I have lots in common. We are both college ...

A.   1 April 2012: There is nothing wrong with that at all if you two make each happy go for it. Remember: In Love Age Is But A Number its not that important. ... (read in full...)

Does it sound like he wanted to kiss me?

Q.   I am the second shyest and awkwardest person on the planet. The most shy and awkward person is the guy I'm into. We are both 19 and college students, and we've become pretty good friends over the last few months. I've been into him for a while; ...

A.   25 March 2012: Yeah you both definately want to kiss. You should go forit next time, he wont mind, you'll be taking the pressure off him. He will kiss you back the first time is always the hardest. Next time, when you are standing close to each other just lean in ... (read in full...)

My b/f says I will tempt him to cheat because I won't have sex before marriage

Q.   hello, i have aboyfriend i intend to get married to,am 25 years and want to settle.we slated adate in actober this year to get married.he wants to have sex with me but i want to have sex after legalised marriage.whenever we go out i came back lat...

A.   20 February 2012: Honestly I love that you are going to remain a virgin untill you're married its something not to many people do now a days, i plan on doing the same as you. If this guy says that you tempt him to cheat on you you should simply say something like ... (read in full...)

I want to ask for her phone number but don't want to creep her out

Q.   help please. i want to ask this girl for her number but i dont know how without creepin her out. we have only talked once before so how do i approach her and what should i say? would telling her that i think she is amazing and i would like to kno ...

A.   29 November 2011: Just strike up a conversation with a nice sincere smile and a "hi" simple is the best way to go talk to her about neutrel topics and when one of you both have too leave just be like "hey ummm i was wondering if i could have your number?" Sweet and ... (read in full...)

A guy my age? Or one much older and working? The guy my age is really nice and sweet and very gentlemanly

Q.   I really like this guy but recently started talking to him less because he works and i play basketball and the piano. Okay to get more to the point i like this guy but he is much older than i and we started talking less and this new guy i met like...

A.   15 November 2011: Thanks and he is quite a few years older than i am (close to 4 years) but i guess i will get to know guy 2 better and see how it goes from there and well guy 1 has already started talking to me more without me texting him first but until i am older ... (read in full...)

Quick and easy steps to get a boy to notice me?

Q.   Okay ive never had a boyfriend and i want one might say im rushing but i dont care i see couples walking and i feel left out i would like to know some ways to get a boy to notice me quick and easy steps and some boys i dont talk to what can i say to ...

A.   6 November 2011: Hey i know u said u dont care if ur rushing into something but trust me when i was 14 and a freshman in highschool i got a boyfriend pretty quickly even though people told me not to be with him cuz he was a womanizer i didnt listem he had aaid he ... (read in full...)

IS my girlfriend cheating on me? I need women's advice!

Q.   I just want to know if my girlfriend is cheating. we been together for some time but since we both in two different colleges we dont see each other as much but we do txt and talk on the phone. she recently sent me a picture and i noticed her butt is ...

A.   30 October 2011: I completey agree with everyone else that has commented dont worry so much about it. One more piece of advice stop listening to some of your friend haha... (read in full...)

My periods are still irregular, any advice?

Q.   Hi. I'm 13 and I'm on my third period. The first two were relatively light and I could use the Always pads with the three or four absorbency drop thingys. But now, on my third, it's been sooooo heavy and the Always pads with the four drops get full...

A.   30 October 2011: Period irregularity is completely normal. What you have to do though is what for the hints that you may start ur period soon once you have found that its easier to manage but not everyone hints are the same my sister for examples has wierd hint... (read in full...)

Does he seem interested??

Q.   So i'm in this Film Club where we watched the movie "The Birds" by Alfred Hitchcock. While my best friend and I were waiting for this movie to start, my friend noticed the guy I like came in. I could not stop blushing! During the intermission, I wa...

A.   30 October 2011: Dont feel bad. you are just seeking answers i think you should take it slowly one day at a time get to know him better asked him subtle questions along the way from what you said he does seem interested but guys just act stupid sometimes you know... (read in full...)

Boyfriend made a comment about my small breasts and now I don't want to go near him

Q.   Hi guys! I need help from you to build my self-confidence. I have a lovely bf and we are planning our future together. However, our sex life is a complete disaster... I run away from him every time he want to get closer to me. The issue is my ...

A.   30 October 2011: There is nothing to worry about two entire years and he is still with you? he obviously does not care about size. I am small breasted as well i brought up once while speaking to my mom and she (having large breast herself) looked at me and said... (read in full...)

Mom knows! Isn't she in the wrong for listening to my B/f and I 'dirty talk'on Facebook?

Q.   I've been seeing my boyfriend for a while, and we're sexually active. We're both 16, it's legal, I'm on the pill and we use condoms. Until today, neither of us had issues with our parents because we just hadn't told them. Today, my mom saw that ...

A.   30 October 2011: Actually i believe your mom is right because though it not breaking any laws its still not right. Do you honestly believe that you guys will be together forever? One day something might happen, the condom might break, birth control fails all th... (read in full...)

In love with my brother's best friend

Q.   I know I am fifteen and am awfully young to be saying the L-word but I am being completely honest when I tell you this. I AM IN LOVE! Most people would think well thats nice she has a crush but in my case i havent told many people of my crush ...

A.   29 October 2011: Thank you :) and by differently i dont know there are subtle differences like the mere fact that he doesnt look at me as much. But when we are alone he is really nice, and sweet.... (read in full...)

Am I weird for not wanting to sleep around or cheat on my boyfriend? All my friends seem to be doing it!

Q.   Why are my friends doing this? am I weird to think is wrong? My friends say am boring and I should change my rules when it comes to guys. I've always been the kind of girl to only kiss a guy or have sex with a guy when we're in a relationsh...

A.   29 October 2011: Yes your group a friends are totally wrong they will never be ina relationship where trust is mutual. They most likely feel insecure and need to feel a mans body to reassure themselves. And they may be your friends but you dont need to obey whatever ... (read in full...)

I want to take my new girlfriend to the strip club and watch her touching other girls

Q.   I want to take my new girlfriend to a strip club, but am not sure what her reaction will be. For you girls, if you have been dating a guy for a month or so and he askes you if you want to accompany him to a strip club, what would be your re...

A.   29 October 2011: I personally dont think thats a good idea. Actually its quite a horrible one maybe you should think more of the type of girl she is. And even though she is a very open minded person and all ONE MONTH isnt enough for a girl to feel secure with a boy ... (read in full...)

I love (?) my best friends older brother. There, I said it. With a 5 year difference, I don't stand a chance with him, do I?

Q.   So I've lived next door to the "smiths" for 5 years (summer before 5th grade) and the two daughters Hannah (15) and Lydia (17) are my best friends ever and their younger brother Eli (13 but pretty mature) is also a good friend of mine too, anyways, ...

A.   24 October 2011: Wow i completely understand where you're coming from, for i too am madly in love with my best friends brother. What i am doing though is just act normal around him i do talk to him alot be until im eighten i wont make any moves you know? No matter ... (read in full...)

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