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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:I have a question that my guy friends have been giving me alot of crap about and I just want to make sure I am doing this rightThere is the boy that I likeHe is Vietnamese and very very quietHe doesn't talk or respond to anyone he doesn't know well unless it's the teacher But I think he is very cute and I wanted to get to know him betterSo after a few months of saying hi and bye nicely,smiling,and treating him like a friend (sometimes I'd show him funny stuff on my phone or try to talk to him about casual stuff):) he began to respond to me.Now, he smiles alot most of the time when I greet him and he greets me back loud enough to where I can hear him (he never used to do that before)I asked him once if he thought we were friends andHe took a moment,smiled and nodded at me.And when the teacher set us up in groupsThere were a bunch of empty seats. The teacher said we can sit wherever we want so I sat in the front. When he came in, I noticed that he looked kinda nervous,he came by kinda close to the desk beside me, and was looking around for a few minutes until he finally sat his booksack down and sat infront of me. We smiled at each other.He did not speak unless it had something to do with our work or if I talked to him,and his response would be a shrug/chuckle or a nod.At the end I got up the nerve to say "It was nice working with you" and without looking he said "you too"I was really happy, but..I'm kinda discouraged because it's like "what if he just wanted to sit in the front and I am just overreacting?" :(Could it be that I am? I was very happy when he said that we were friendsBut that's when my other guy friends were like "No,you dumbass! Now you're stuck in the friend zone ." I just wanted me and him to be friends because I wanted to get to know him first and not rush into things like some girls would.Am I wrong for wanting to work my way up from the friend zone? Reply to this Question
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reader, heart245 +, writes (1 April 2012):
There is nothing wrong with that if he is as shyas he seems that may work better than going up and flirting with him. He is beginning to respond to you thats great keep working on it. GOOD LUCK! keep me updated on how it goes :)
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