I feel so played by my ex gf! How can I make myself feel better about this situation?
Q. My ex told her mate she was considering having a break from me in order to hook up with some guy she knows online. I confronted her about this, and she said it was girly chat and meant nothing. A week later, I'm dumped. And shes already got plans to ...
A. 25 May 2007: Couldn't agree more with sleepyhollow...give it some time and the situation will improve. Also, hanging out with her sort of works against the whole giving it some time thing. It's your turn to take a break from her. I realize it will be difficult, ... (read in full...)
How do i become friends with a guy without giving him the impression that I want a relationship?
Q. Hi, this may well be a silly question but i thought id ask just in case you had any good advise. Well I'm a single 19 yr old female and i don't have any real guy friends which bugs me because i love guys company. I've been told that I'm quite ...
A. 17 May 2007: If they have girlfriends, talk to them about their girlfriends. If they're single, tell them how you think them and xyz would make a good couple. I had a friend who I liked a lot but she always talked to me about other girls in my life. This ... (read in full...)
What is she feeling about our friendship?
Q. What is she feeling about our friendship? I have a problem with a really sweet girl at work. She's been working there for a while and we've known each other in the work place. Earlier this year we started to get on really well. She then off...
A. 13 May 2007: First of all, you haven't done anything wrong. So you don't have to "make up" for anything. It is possible that she really liked you as a friend and now that she knows you like her, she's upset that she's possibly lost a good friend. Or she might ... (read in full...)
He treats me like a sister...should I risk asking him out even if it things won't be the same, should he say no?
Q. Ok, so i really really like this guy. We've known each other for around 6-7 years from school but we only started talking 2 months ago. We're both 14 and we're already SO close its unbelievable, i started developing feelings for him in the first...
A. 13 May 2007: Ultimately it's your decision: do you believe you'll be able to stay "just friends" while also having such strong feelings for him deep inside? I really liked my best friend and for 3 years I didn't say anything to her because I didn't want to ruin ... (read in full...)
I finally stood up to him! But why do I want to apologize even though what happened was not my fault? Help!
Q. When my bf and I were together I never used to argue with him because I was scared he would stop loving me. We broke up in October but I still have feelings for him, I'm currently trying to get over him as he moved on almost instantly. The other...
A. 13 May 2007: I totally agree with Irish49; he doesn't deserve you and you shouldn't feel bad for lashing out on him. However, I must say that I also have this thing where I feel guilty for doing something mean even when I'm right..so I understand how you are ... (read in full...)
Married with young kids...feeling like I want to be with another man! Should I risk it?
Q. hi i,m feeling abit confused and don't know what to do. I'm nearly 23 and have been married for nearly 3 yrs and have two children 4 and 2 1/2. i met my husband when i was 17 and have only been with him since. my problem is that i keep thinking ...
A. 13 May 2007: I don't know how open you are with your husband but you could try suggesting a threesome etc. to your husband. Some guys are more open to such suggestions than you might think.... (read in full...)
Would you forget to call someone you love a lot?
Q. When you love someone so much, would you choose in not forgetting to call that person? Does it really happen that one forgets to call? or is it just some lame excuse?...
A. 10 May 2007: When you love someone a lot, you DON'T forget to call! It's as simple as that. Sorry buddy. ... (read in full...)
I find my boyfriend embarassingly unmanly. What can I do?
Q. Hey, I've recently started dating a guy, I'm 15 and he's 14, but because he's in the academic year below me my boy "friends" think it's weird. Sometimes they go as far as hitting him and tripping him up, "as a joke" For some reason, when the...
A. 9 May 2007: It seems like you already know what's going on since you put "friends" in quotations when you talked about your boy "friends." They're just jealous. If your guy was more manly, then they'd simply call him an asshole and arrogant etc. That's just ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my best friend - should I tell her before she leaves the country for good or just enjoy our time together?
Q. In love with my best friend... Should I stop seeing her? I went out with a close friend for a while and eventually she dumped me and broke my heart. We stayed friends, though it was really hard for me. She's currently got a boyfriend of 7 m...
A. 9 May 2007: After reading your message I immediately felt that I should respond to this, but I don't know what to say. I am in the EXACT same situation. She's leaving the country soon and I absolutely love her. My mind was always telling me not to tell her ... (read in full...)
I'm thinking of packing my GFs bags because she flirts and latches onto random guys when we go out together!
Q. Hi Havent done this before so hope Im doing it right! I have a girl been seeing for almost a year right. Nice lass and good fun. One thing. We like to go out a bit. When we are out as a couple we meet other couples and this is fine. Good...
A. 9 May 2007: My friend had the same problem. He told her to her face that it is simply "unethical" what she does. If she's with him, she needs to stop flirting with other guys. She didn't pay any attention to him. A week later he broke up with her and told ... (read in full...)
My visit with this friend went badly-she annoyed me immensely! Should I have handled her differently?
Q. Hi all.. Hope you are all doing good and enjoying the beautiful weather (for those like me, who have and hate the snowy cold winter). Over the weekend, I met one of my closest friends' girlfriend after about two years. She was in town for a busin...
A. 8 May 2007: LOL..are you kidding me? you shouldn't feel bad about what you did at all. In fact, I'm surprised you didn't slap her before she left. Obviously she's very insecure and has to make others feel bad so she can feel good about herself. I know quite ... (read in full...)
I'm not over my ex of 2 years ago and I keep comparing my new BFs to him! How do I stop this once and for all?
Q. i broke up with this guy a few years ago and he was my 1st proper bf. I still always think about him and the gr8 times we had together. Since then i'v never felt the same way about anyone even though i have had other bf's. it's really tough be...
A. 8 May 2007: I agree with NJmomabear..We compare because we can't find what we are looking for. Ask yourself, if you met someone you really liked and were really into, would you even have time to compare him to your ex? Most probably not since you'll spend most ... (read in full...)
Should I stay with my BF who is close to perfect or go for the sexy music student who writes me songs?
Q. I'm really confused me and this guy I've been seeing for a year and a half (lets call him Eric) is great, i love him loads and he means the world to me he does everything in his power to make me happy. He really takes care of me. But I'm still very ...
A. 8 May 2007: What we feel is never wrong or right, since mostly we have no control over how we feel. However, the question of "wrongness" comes into play when we try to act on our feelings. It is normal for you to be attracted to someone else. But you have to ... (read in full...)
He woke me up, put his penis in my mouth and told me to SUCK!!!
Q. I love my boyfriend very much, but my friends think he's no good for me. He always tells me how sexy I am and how he thinks Im amazing in bed. I don't see how this is 'using me' as my friends think. The only thing that disturbs me, is that ...
A. 7 May 2007: Does he ever tell you how amazing of a person you are and how great your personality is? Sometimes when it comes to our own situation, we zoom in so much that we don't see the big picture. That's where our friends come in. As outsiders, they ... (read in full...)
Why don't guys like tall girls?
Q. ok, im 13 and ive never had a boyfriend because of my height. Why don't guys like tall girls and i masturbate a lot it that normal?...
A. 7 May 2007: My best friend (female) says she's pretty much been masturbating since she was born. lol. So it is perfectly normal for you to masturbate. As far as guys not liking tall girls is concerned, that is definitely not true for all guys. It's a matter ... (read in full...)
I'm miserable with my agressive boyfriend. What shall I do?
Q. I dont know what to do anymore i am the end of tether, me and my bf have been together nearly together for a year and its getting worse than ever. He has such a short fuse and gets angry so easily to the point that everytime im around him he can r...
A. 7 May 2007: I agree with Penta. You don't deserve to be abused. No one does. If he thinks its normal, he's not going to stop no matter how hard you try. Leave him and find someone else. If there is one thing I've learned in my life, it's that it is always a ... (read in full...)
If a guy's wife was the one to leave 2 years ago and he is middle-aged, is it normal to aim for a girl less than half his age and visit porn web sites?
Q. If a guy's wife was the one to leave 2 years ago and he is middle-aged, is it normal to aim for a girl less than half his age and visit porn web sites. It seems totally unrealistic and frustrating. I feel love for him but he doesn't seem to know I ...
A. 7 May 2007: You've answered your own question: you can't cut your feet off both literally and metaphorically. You've told him how you feel, you can't do much more than that. If he still doesn't want to pursue you then that just means he's looking for ... (read in full...)
How do I find out if my very close friend female likes me?
Q. how do i find out if my very close friend female likes me? she always say's she loves me, and i'm an ideal boyfriend if i was goin out with someone etc etc. i want to find out without askin her or hinting it or askin her friends as if she finds out ...
A. 7 May 2007: If you had a crush on someone, you would certainly not go around telling them you love them, right? If she tells you she loves you, she probably means just as a friend. I can tell you this from personal experience, if your best friend tells you ... (read in full...)
He told me things he doesn't love about my character and I just feel so much pressure to change myself!
Q. I have the feeling, I'm fighting for my boyfriends love all the time, but he can just sit there and be lucky, he is loved... Is this normal that a women has to do this? It was me doing the first step, asking him if he wants to be my boyfrien...
A. 7 May 2007: Hey..this might be a little harsh but trust me I have nothing but your best interest at heart. You mention that you don't want to lose him, but think about it, do you REALLY have him? You didn't make a mistake by asking him out, who asked whom ... (read in full...)
How can I PROVE to my partner that I really do love her and am not "a fake?"
Q. how could i make the one who i love know that my love is true ? because she feels that i am a fake lover...
A. 7 May 2007: If she thinks you're "fake," then doing something generic will not help much. Find out WHY she thinks you're fake and specifically attack that issue. In my experience, the issue of someones partner perceiving them as fake comes into play where ... (read in full...)
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