Myspace is killing my relationship...
Q. my question has to do with myspace. my boyfriend can be a very sweet bf at times and then sometimes i feel as if i dont mean anything to him. myspace is my biggest issue. he wont put me on his top friends and his number one is a porn star. every ...
A. 15 December 2009: Although it's just a website, I'm going to take a wild guess and say that this behavior goes beyond Myspace, and is evident in the way he treats you in person too. I'm sorry, but there is no way true love can exist without trust, and you yourself ... (read in full...)
My ex is threatening to rape me!
Q. help! im 16 and i jus broke up with my now ex bf who is 19 bc he kept pressuring me to have sex. now he wont leave me alone! he keeps txting me, threatening tht he is going to rape me! his texts say: "listen beautiful, u know u want me, and your gona...
A. 14 December 2009: You need to tell your parents so you can get a restraining order against this creep! He's making threats to rape you! Don't try and handle this alone, especially if you're scared of him and think he's capable of something bad. Save the text messages ... (read in full...)
Converting between Christian Religions?
Q. I was born and raised a catholic, recently I've been going to a Christian services and I absolutely love it. My question is it bad that I want to convert and be baptized as a Christian?...
A. 14 December 2009: Catholics ARE Christians. You ARE already a Christian. The only difference between different denominations are their interpretations of the Bible and various rules for practicing Christianity. So no, there is nothing wrong with it. You still believe ... (read in full...)
My sex drive has died, could it be the pill?
Q. Hi, i lost my virginty to my boyfriend this year, it was both our first time. I went on birth control Microgn 30 two months later to help improve my periods. On these i got quite ill and moody, but i did have a good sex life with him. After 3 months ...
A. 8 December 2009: Go to a gynecologist and talk to her about the dosages of the pill. I was on 1.5/30 and then switched to 1/20, and I had these same problems. Switching back made all the difference. Obviously you might not want to go back to your original because of ... (read in full...)
Am I having an orgasm???
Q. The past few days, after school I'd get home and there would be a yellowish discharge in my knickers. I recently found out girls cum during sex. I've never had sex so am I cumming? I recently went to the doctors to see if a discharge was anything to ...
A. 20 November 2009: That's just your body doing it's job...discharge is normal, it's meant to keep your lady parts from drying out, and it can happen anytime of the day. It does not mean you're having an orgasm.... (read in full...)
I'm paranoid he's cheating
Q. Hello I have been with my boyfriend for seven months now, we love eachother alot, well atleast i hope he does, he tells me alot that he loves me. i have been hurt in the past by a boy and i now find it so hard to trust my boyfriend, but do i have a...
A. 20 November 2009: I don't think he's cheating. Just try to take it one day at a time, it's all about baby steps. If he's out with friends and you're worrying about it, try to find things to do yourself that will distract you from any of those thoughts. Don't become ... (read in full...)
In love with my friends girlfriend
Q. I'm in love with a girl and we get along really well and we're close but she's already going out with one of my best friends. Do i ask her out and lose a friend or keep it to myself and never know what would've happened?...
A. 20 November 2009: Honeypie is totally right, you should wait until they break up and then check with your friend before making a move. She's not worth ending one of your best friendships for. Besides, if she was willing to go for you while in this relationship, ... (read in full...)
Should I just break up with my boyfriend and live my life?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for just over two years now. We have a good relationship, but I'm no longer sure about if we should be together. The reasons why I doubt the relationship is that he can be really aggressive and (in my opinion) selfish and ...
A. 31 October 2009: Go go go go go! If he loves you and wants the best for you, he would want you to take this opportunity, he wouldn't be asking you to stay around so he can continue to control you. It's only six weeks, he can handle it. And no, whether or not he can ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for a boy to say, "I love you" in a different way?
Q. Ok. One day in science my boyfriend said I love You, But he didn't say it like that he said "Like the barney song." I was like Awwwwwwwwwww. I think it's sweet and wierd. Is it normal for a boy to say I love you to you in a different way?...
A. 31 October 2009: I'm assuming your boyfriend is around the same age as you, so yes this is normal. You guys are young, and if that's his first time expressing feelings like that, it's going to be kind of awkward and weird and new for him. He's just trying to hide ... (read in full...)
I cheated on my girlfriend. Should I tell her?
Q. I am in a new relationship with this girl, who I have fallen in love with. However stupidly, I slept with another girl. This other girl was one who I had liked for ages and to be honest I succumbed to lust. The guilt now is unbearable, and I truly ...
A. 30 October 2009: If you love her, she deserves the truth. Even if you think she would never find out, would you really want to explain that to her months down the road if she does? And would your really want to explain why you weren't honest in the first place? That ... (read in full...)
She thinks her ex is innocent and I've had enough!
Q. Heya, I dont really want to be in this position, but: I am in two minds about my GF speaking to her ex, I've never liked it, and its been hard work for me to let them talk and see each other, they broke up just under a year ago, she says she mis...
A. 30 October 2009: You are such a big person for putting that much trust in her. She really needs to open her eyes and see how lucky she is to have a guy like you. But you are right, him attacking you and leaving her texts like that is not respectful of your ... (read in full...)
Can I beat him at his own game?
Q. Hey all, Me and my ex split up a few months ago, his decision not mine. He's been leading me on ever since, giving false hope that we may get back together. He wants to remain friends but like I said sometimes he gives false hope of us getting...
A. 26 October 2009: Tell him that you can't be a part of his life anymore, as friends or anything else. It's only hurting you by keeping him around to play these games with you. Also, he's getting exactly what he wants by you staying around after he broke up with you ... (read in full...)
I'm feelin g lonley no boyfriend and all my friends moved out of town
Q. Hi! I broke up with my boyfriend a while ago but now I have a hard time meeting new people. I joined a few clubs but I'm shy, so even though I go to the meetings, I don't really talk to new people. A lot of my close friends have left the city. I...
A. 25 October 2009: I'm just like you! What I've found works is if you go up to people in the club and let them know you're new. They'll usually take you under their wings and introduce you to other people in the club, which was always the hardest step for me. You ... (read in full...)
How to erase the ex from my mind?
Q. hii so my ex boyfriend is a total jack ass. like he is extremly sick and mean. he used to like verbilly abuse me and he liked seeing me get hurtt. he would call me fat ugly and useless alll of the time. he even made me drop myy best friend for ...
A. 25 October 2009: Find something to distract yourself. Spend time reconnecting with your friends, pick up a new hobby, just keep yourself busy so you don't think about him. Time is the only way to truly get over those feelings, but once you are busy and happy with ... (read in full...)
Is there a chance I might be pregnant?
Q. The last 3/4 days i have noticed brown discharge. My period is not due for another 10 days. I never get discharge a week or two after my period. I get some either on the day its due or towards the end of the period. Never just randomly. ...
A. 24 October 2009: Brown discharge could be a sign of an infection, or it could just be old leftover blood as your body cleans itself out. Brown spotting is sometimes seen during early pregnancy, but it usually comes at the same time your period would. Definitel... (read in full...)
Young, free, and single but not ready to mingle!
Q. 28 year old female. Three months ago I was heartbroken and had moved on. I feel like a complete different person. I'm happier, in control and excited about new challenges ahead. Although I'm free and single and I get asked out alot, I cannot b...
A. 24 October 2009: I am in the exact same situation! After an awful breakup from a year and a half long relationship, I decided to just not date for a while and get my life back on track. That's done now, and I've been considering the idea of dating, but I just ... (read in full...)
What should I do with my ex?
Q. I found out the other day that my ex still has feeling for me. She broke up with me a a little over a month ago and I just recently found out she has feeling for me. I have feelings for her too, I mean I still love her and care about her very much ...
A. 24 October 2009: The fact that you're questioning getting back together instead of just going for it says it all. This wasn't a good relationship, and deep down you know it. Give yourself some more time, and you'll be ready to move on. You're better off without her.... (read in full...)
Who should I choose? I just want to be happy again.
Q. Hi, i really need some help, i don't think i've ever felt so confused in my whole life. Ok its quite complicated but here goes. Ok so i recently broke up with my boyfriend. We only really were bf and gf for 2 months, but have been seeing eachother ...
A. 24 October 2009: I think you just need to take some time off from all boys for a while. It sounds like you are really dependent on them, that you HAVE to be with one or the other. Have you ever thought about being single and free from all of the drama? You can be ... (read in full...)
I'm confused and sad because maybe he never even loved me..
Q. dear cupid; ive been dating my boyfriend for around a year with some breaks in between, i had my first time with him..the relationship has never been stable sometimes it is super nice sometimes it is bad...i had many arguments with him for little t...
A. 6 August 2009: I have been through the exact same relationship. The lows tear your heart apart, but the highs make your forget about it for a while and give you hope again. He did all the same things, and eventually I had to realize I was more unhappy than happy ... (read in full...)
Should I believe him, or continue with my plans?
Q. Help! Me and my boyfriend of a year and a half broke up a few months ago, and ever since then we've been on-off. I still love him with all of my heart, and he says he does too, but the way he treats me says something completely different. If we get ...
A. 6 August 2009: Thank you so much for the advice everyone! My head is telling me to move on, I just need my heart to catch up so I can finally let go and be happy.
Also, some more info to clarify: I wouldn't be dropping out of school, my university has a progra... (read in full...)
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