PREGNANT! Help! How do I tell him?
Q. Hello all, I think I may be pregnant. The issue I would like to ask you all about it how to talk to my boyfriend about it. First off, should I tell him right away before I know for sure? Or should I wait until I do know, and then tell him? I feel l...
A. 29 January 2012: I would go ahead and hit up a clinic and get a blood test. At your age (and mine, even) periods can be out of whack, and you don't want to freak out your guy for nothing. Tell him you think you may be pregnant, and have him go with you to get ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's demanding schedule leaves him little time for me
Q. I haven't seen my boyfriend in nearly two weeks. Though he has been extremely busy with work for that time, (14-hour shifts, no days off) the least he could do is take a few seconds to send me a text here and there like he used to. I loved it when ...
A. 29 January 2012: Thanks, guys. This is definitely a temporary work situation, and it should end in a few weeks or so. You all have given me extremely helpful answers and I really appreciate you sharing your experiences in similar situations. I think the third answer ... (read in full...)
Need more emotional maturity in the relationship
Q. I don't even know how to organize this question, but here goes. My boyfriend and I broke up in mid-May then three weeks later we decided we wanted to be together again, however, we can't until I go back to college in August (He lives in the c...
A. 14 July 2009: Thank you so much for your thorough answer!
We talked online the next day and I asked him what he meant when he said he wanted an "independent woman" and he told me he wants someone with a job and a car, which I find unfair because he's not inde... (read in full...)
He said "I guess I could call you every day but I really don't want to!"
Q. I can't believe my boyfriend just told me that he is 'JUST NOT THAT KIND OF PERSON WHO WOULD CALL HIS GIRLFRIEND EVERY DAY!' He would felt like he is reporting to me if he has to, it's not necessary and why would he? After a while, a big discussion. ...
A. 12 July 2009: Please don't make the mistake of making your boyfriend call you. I tell you sincerely and from experience that this will only make him feel like it's a duty and it will NOT produce what you want. He wants to call you when he feels like talking to ... (read in full...)
I'm obsessing about her sexual past
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for a little under a year and I find myself obsessing about her sexual past. We are both in our late 20s, so we’ve been through the highschool, college, and post-college freedom experiences. I’m sure that she ...
A. 16 June 2009: Could you perhaps add specifics to let us help you more? From what I read, it seems like you suspect she's had one night stands and things like that, but you're unsure. All I can say is if her past matters so much, why are you even considering... (read in full...)
I know what I want but I hate that I'm hurting my husband.
Q. Well, I've been writing on this same topic for 3 years now...for background read my other 2 posts... It is now 2009. A lot has changed in my life. I am still very much in love with my soul mate. However, he has now left the state. Before he moved ...
A. 3 June 2009:
Honestly, I think that you are justfied. I don't understand what you're waiting for. You have thought about it already, and your soul mate is already in the process (hopefully lawyers are already working on it) of divorcing his wife. It's actu... (read in full...)
Useless husband doesn't show any appreciation to me
Q. Hello Everyone, I do everything for my husband. I get up before him to make him breakfast, I make sure the house is tidy I fold his laundry, I run him baths, I shave him sometimes as he finds it tedious. As well as household duties I also wr...
A. 27 May 2009: Like kellyxxx said, stop doing these things for him. He's taking you for granted, and will soon realize how wrong he is not to appreciate you. When he askds why you stopped doing ______ you can show him your question, printed out, so that the will ... (read in full...)
Would love to have him as a boyfriend, but he is not yet that interested, what do I do now?
Q. Hi everyone, So i've been seeing a new guy for about 4 weeks. We've had a bit of a 'fumble' and I've given him oral sex. The night that i gave him oral sex, i text him asking what we were. We aren't friends but we aren't a couple officially eithe...
A. 23 May 2009: He will most likely remain interested if you don't go any further sexually, that way he'll be wondering what it would be like and stay around longer. Best of luck :)... (read in full...)
Hard break-up, should I keep any hope of getting him back?
Q. I am in the deepest pain I have ever been in my life, deeper even than when I lost a very close relative. My boyfriend of 8 amazing months broke up with me on Monday because of something I said. For a bit over 3 months, he was gone on his study ab...
A. 21 May 2009: By the way, I forgot to add that it would have been "cybersex for money" since my ex is away. I reiterate that I had no real intention of doing that.... (read in full...)
Engaged but not in love with him!
Q. I am a 23 year old female living with my 44 year old boy friend for the past 3 years and 5 months. we broke up once for about 7 months just after he engaged to me because i fell out of love with him. Yes i lost all attraction for him. anyway for the ...
A. 21 May 2009: I think you know the answer is--leave, leave leave!
How would you like it if someone only stayed with you because they're afraid to hurt you? That's being with someone out of pity, girlie. No one likes that.
It's quite sad that he hasn't al... (read in full...)
He took my virginity for granted after sex, how do I get over the loveless experience?
Q. I met a guy in November and we dated for about a month. He broke up with me and we didn’t talk for a while, but later on we started talking again. We went on several more dates, and I decided that I wanted to have sex with him, so I waited a month...
A. 20 July 2008: Thanks to everyone for your help. I'm getting over it, and advice like this is very encouraging.... (read in full...)
What is a safe time frame, to have sex without a condom, after your period?
Q. Is doing sex after 21 days of periods safe without condom? ...
A. 13 July 2008: If by "safe" you mean that it is less likely for you to get pregnant, possibly. You can check your fertility online, on various different sites. Remember that it's still possible to get STDs. Just be on the safe side and use one, because even if you ... (read in full...)
What should my weight be?
Q. I am a sixteen year old female. I am five foot four inches. What should my weight be? ...
A. 8 July 2008: Your target weight is 133. You should weigh no less than 114, and no more than 152, in order to not be considered underweight or overweight, respectively.... (read in full...)
My period is always regular. Now I'm 11 days late and I'm worried.
Q. im almost 14 years old and i got my period for the first time in janurary 2008. i always get my period on time. but now its july and im 11 days late! this has never happened to me before and ive never had sex in my life! whats happening? is t...
A. 8 July 2008: This is not abnormal. You're likely to have irregular periods if you started menstruating recently. It'll regulate, don't worry.... (read in full...)
Need to lose some weight fast, before my holiday!
Q. Im looking for some advice. im going on holidays in 10 days and am desperate to loose a little weight fast!! ive been thinking of taking some effergines, can anybody recommend how many a day, or an alternative even, rather than using effergines. ...
A. 6 July 2008: Drink lots of water and eat something small every 3 hours. Keep your small meals balanced. ... (read in full...)
Should I divorce him?
Q. should i divorce my husband? he always shouts at me, never wanting to spend time or talk to me and he puts everything else before the relationship....
A. 6 July 2008: Divorce should be considered if you have already tried to work through this an it has not worked. I'm assuming you have already talked to your husband about how awful his behavior makes you feel and how much you want for it to work. If you have ... (read in full...)
I'm furious at what I found on his Facebook account. Am I over reacting?
Q. I need advice. I have been married for 15 years and we have 4 children. My husband recently got a facebook account. He has added old friends and even an old girlfriend. I didnt like that much but she also added me as a friend so I did not let...
A. 6 July 2008: It was wrong of you to snoop around on his Facebook account, even though he was signed in to begin with. It shows that you dont trust him. Communicate.
This is an issue that is much deeper than your husband talking to women online. Do not let 15 y... (read in full...)
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