I have hurt my wife - how do I make amends?
Q. I met my wife while taking a professional course last year. Both of us weren't attracted to one another at first, but as she failed one particular test and I coached her, we gradually got closer and eventually fell in love with each other. Alth...
A. 21 March 2010: To Grimm Reality:
Thanks for your advice. I have already moved out for quite some time already and we are handling life well. And no, I am not someone who needs the big boys pants. I am already in one of them.... (read in full...)
I have hurt my wife - how do I make amends?
Q. I met my wife while taking a professional course last year. Both of us weren't attracted to one another at first, but as she failed one particular test and I coached her, we gradually got closer and eventually fell in love with each other. Alth...
A. 20 March 2010: To 'mikehimself':
Thanks for your encouragement. What you said is what I have in mind. Thanks for re-affirming my thoughts.
To 'brunel':
Stop labeling people as immature. If I am immature, I wouldn't have realized the impacts on what I ha... (read in full...)
Do nice guys even still exist?
Q. I am 19 and I have never been kissed. Or even been on a date. Now that I am in college I want to date but all the guys I meet are more interested in partying and meaningless sex. I do not go to parties and I obviously don't have sex so I don't know ...
A. 6 October 2009: Hi there, I am a nice guy myself. 25 this year, I am currently in a relationship with an extremely nice girl. Speaking about myself, I am a pretty goody-two-shoes type of guy. I don't do drugs, I don't club, I don't get into fights and no, I ... (read in full...)
Is masturbation ruining my sex life?
Q. Hi all, Lately I have been in a relationship with a 41-year old woman. I have known her for a few months already and we get along wonderfully, there's a lot of chemistry and fun being together. We have great compatibility too and want more or les...
A. 17 August 2009: Well, having high staying power is good, but not good if I last too long as I want to cum too! :(
Does anyone here have had similar experiences? If so, how did you overcome it?
Ladies are welcomed to reply too - if you have had sex partners tha... (read in full...)
26 and tired of being a virgin!
Q. Hi! I'm 26 years of age male and really tired of being a virgin! have had opportunities in the past but it never felt right so I didn't do it! Lately though I'm becomming incresingly horny 4 it n feel like my lack of sexual experience is holding ...
A. 9 August 2009: I am 25 this year and just lost my virginity yesterday.
Truth be told, I felt exactly like you a couple of years before this one. I even get sort of 'humiliated' by a friend of mine, who jested with her friend: "Want to bet whether he can lose his... (read in full...)
I tend to be 'too nice' to girls I like. How do I overcome this?
Q. Hi all, I have had a couple of relationships in the past due to mutual attraction. But, I also have a truckload of failures when I was the one who liked the girl first. I think I have figured out why I have always failed when I become attr...
A. 17 October 2008: Thanks for all your inputs. I have realized that generally, a female is more 'settled' when she is around 25 while before that, she is more likely to 'shop around'.
I guess I should shift my focus to those with a more 'settled' outlook then, wh... (read in full...)
I'm trying to fight my inferiority complex. How can I deal with this?
Q. Hi all, This will be a long question, as I need to rant. I have been fighting against inferiority complex for years now, as I grew up in an abusive family. My dad did nothing much else (other than earning money) but abuse me and my mum. So I ha...
A. 9 October 2008: To Tisha-I:
I understand where you are coming from, sometimes I try to brighten up my own mood but it's been really hard at times. If you know what I mean.
As for the family part, I believe I didn't elaborate that very well. Due to a constan... (read in full...)
I'm trying to fight my inferiority complex. How can I deal with this?
Q. Hi all, This will be a long question, as I need to rant. I have been fighting against inferiority complex for years now, as I grew up in an abusive family. My dad did nothing much else (other than earning money) but abuse me and my mum. So I ha...
A. 9 October 2008: Hi,
Is there no one who can answer my question? Please kindly help, thanks.
Devil Crazy... (read in full...)
Is playing hard to get a good strategy to get the person you want?
Q. Hi all, This question has been around in my mind for quite some time. So I would like to know does doing that actually makes that person you want crave for you, like you more and wants to pursue you instead? 'Cos I am susceptible to becom...
A. 19 September 2008: She only mentioned that guy to me maybe twice, and I am not acting overly nice and such...am trying to keep a distance with her. Currently, she has been messaging me more than I reply...so probably a good turn in event I guess.
But the tricky p... (read in full...)
Is playing hard to get a good strategy to get the person you want?
Q. Hi all, This question has been around in my mind for quite some time. So I would like to know does doing that actually makes that person you want crave for you, like you more and wants to pursue you instead? 'Cos I am susceptible to becom...
A. 18 September 2008: Thanks for all your replies.
And by the way, I think some of the posters here are confused. I am a guy. LOL.
I do like this girl who's 2 years younger than me...I have gotten close to her lately, we get along well. But she likes a guy who ... (read in full...)
To guys who were accepted by their partners after more than one rejection
Q. Hi there, I would like to know if there are any guys out there who have experienced more than one rejection by the same lady, and yet be accepted in the end? (In terms of confession) If that is so, how did you manage to muster the courage to ...
A. 15 September 2008: I see. Valid point, but I asked 'cos a friend of mine did manage to win the girl after getting rejected three times...so I am just wondering how's the experience and physiological changes like in between rejections, and what the guy did then.... (read in full...)
If a girl says she will always regard you as a good friend, is there any hope for a change?
Q. Hi all, My question here is...if a girl tells you that she will always regard you as a good friend, does it mean that it is doomsday for the guy? Totally no hope of becoming something more? So what are the steps a guy should take to avoid the '...
A. 30 August 2008: Thanks all for your replies. I consider her as a very good catch as the majority of the girls I see in my country (Singapore) are not what I want. According to my observations, she is the type whom I can proudly show to my parents and be with. ... (read in full...)
Nice guys always finish last?
Q. Hi all, This question has been tearing me apart time and time again. Please bear with me, as this will be a long post. Is it true that, no women will ever want to be with a nice guy? I don't consider myself 100% nice, I am not overly r...
A. 5 August 2008: Hi there,
I guess I didn't clarify some parts of my situation here.
My dad has wife-abuser tendencies. Over the years, I have seen too many times of him abusing my mum physically and emotionally, which is why I try to avoid doing all those ... (read in full...)
I am a 27 year old virgin, when I date men and they find out, they back off, thinking something is wrong, what do I do to combat this?
Q. Hello everyone. I don't know how to write what I want to without sounding like a complete loser. lol. Well, the thing is that till date, I have had only short-term relationships, the longest of which was perhaps 4 months. And because I did...
A. 1 August 2008: Besides socializing more, I feel that you should only lose your virginity to someone who is trustworthy and deserving of your love.
I'll say that if I am one of those who dated you, I will not back off as it is so difficult to come across a... (read in full...)
Is it unusual to still be a virgin at 21?
Q. Hi, I'm just wondering if this is unusual to still be a virgin at 21. I am quite shy and haven't had yet any boyfriend or girlfriend whatsoever. I planned an appointment to the GYN since they say you should go once you reach the age of 21 but...
A. 26 May 2008: No, you are not weird at all! I am a 24-year old male, a fellow virgin too. I wish there are more girls like you around, so I would have more hope of getting someone like you! LOL. Girls with too many sexual partners freak me out. Seriously.... (read in full...)
Can a fleshlight provide good sexual training?
Q. Hi all, I am 24, still a virgin. As I have moderately high sex drive and do not want to visit hookers or embark on one-night stands, I usually use sex toys (such as the Fleshlight) for masturbation purposes as I am kinda sick of using my hands, ...
A. 20 April 2008: OK I mainly use my Fleshlight to improve my stamina, 'cos I read through reviews that it does help in that respect. Don't wanna blow my load in 5 seconds when I have my first time do I? LOL~
And yeah, I do understand that Fleshlight isn't equivale... (read in full...)
Can a fleshlight provide good sexual training?
Q. Hi all, I am 24, still a virgin. As I have moderately high sex drive and do not want to visit hookers or embark on one-night stands, I usually use sex toys (such as the Fleshlight) for masturbation purposes as I am kinda sick of using my hands, ...
A. 19 April 2008: Haha thanks for the response, guess I need to work on my skills in getting a woman. LOL.... (read in full...)
Does this guy like me or does he just want to get laid?
Q. I have had an extreme attraction for this guy since 4th grade and I'm pretty sure he has been aware of this. We have been friends but there has always been this awkward thing between us when we are around each other. I catch him staring at me and ...
A. 3 January 2008: Well it is difficult to know what a guy's intention are sometimes, but these are the questions that you may want to ask yourself to ascertain that he does love you: 1). Is sex the main activity when we are together? 2). Does he have a history o... (read in full...)
Should I try this during masturbation?
Q. I'm only fourteen and have experimented with my fingers rubbing my clit. But I'm scared it will hurt if I put my fingers in my vagina. Any suggestions?...
A. 3 January 2008: You may want to try doing it slowly...try one finger initially to see if it hurts you, then probably increase the number of fingers if you are used to the sensation...however, do not insert your fingers too deep inside as you may break your hymen, ... (read in full...)
Worried I'll aim for the wrong entrance when I try and have sex... is it hard to find?
Q. hi im chris and i am a virgin. i have turned down many opportunities for sex bacause i am scared i will stay limp or not be able to find the correct entrance.. is there any easy way to find the right hole when your in intercourse? Chris...
A. 2 January 2008: Well I'll say it is pretty hard to get into the wrong hole, although I am a virgin myself too...here's what you can do: 1). Trace the location of her vagina first before you put your penis into it (with condom on, of course). It would be easier ... (read in full...)
Is it true that most men need to sleep with various women? Is "it was just sex" just an excuse? Or is there actually a connection?
Q. is it true that most men need to sleep with various women? is it possible for a man to "love" a woman but cheat on her constantly and it mean nothing? when men say "its just sex" is there really a connection. Is this true or just intended to make it ...
A. 13 December 2007: Hi SweetTenay,
Well not all guys are like that, although a lot are. You have to be careful about the guys you date or have a relationship though, scrutinize him carefully before making a decision. But it is great to know that you are an intellig... (read in full...)
Is my penis too small??
Q. I am a thirteen year old boy and was wondering if my penis is to small. It's only 5inches when fully erect and 3inches when small. Is it to small?...
A. 13 December 2007: LOL I think you don't have to worry that much, 'cos some men are adults and aren't even as large as you...I think you are good enough to grow a few more inches down the years, trust me.
And don't get overly obsessed with it...if a girl really l... (read in full...)
How do I go about NOT just being friends with him?
Q. I need help. There's a single guy at work and I really like him. We seem to be looking at each other all the time, and he's got a great smile. We talk with each other so easily. I'm not saying I am in love with him I just think there might be a ...
A. 13 December 2007: Hi LOL how I wish there would be a female that likes me. =p
OK back to the question, well instead of waiting for him to take the initiative, why not make your first move? Just drop a casual invitation for movies, a drink, a trip to an exhibiti... (read in full...)
| *evil Crazy's friends
These are mutual friends, so *evil Crazy has
added them and they have added *evil Crazy!
|
