I'm not sure if I should go for him or wait a while?
Q. well, i've liked this guy for a long time since we broke up. and my friend and him just broke up recently. im kinda excited but feel bad for them. but i really like him and im not sure if i should go for him or wait a while....
A. 20 February 2007: My suggestion for going for a friend of yours ex would be to wait awhile and then ask her if it would be ok
you wouldn't want to jeperdize your friendship so make sure she's ok with it first... (read in full...)
I get really nervous and self conscious around girls, any advice agony uncles?
Q. help me. every time i get close to girls and make good conversation to them, and i know they like me, although im not sure as a friend or more, i get stuck. i start getting really nervous around them, well not in class talking and all, but like ...
A. 16 February 2007: Some other boys/girls are just as self-conscious as you are so don't worry to much about it...
Its a normal thing to feel as your growing up and you grow to become more use to it and calm about it
just be yourself and calm...
you don't have t... (read in full...)
He didn't love me back in the end - how do I get over this?
Q. how can i get over someone who i love but he didn't love me back or treated me well?...
A. 15 February 2007: Its always painful when someone tells you they don't love you back...sometimes it takes a while to get over it...
you just need to let him go and continue your life
go with your friends and just have fun to take your mind off him... (read in full...)
He is always causing fights! What can I do to stop him treating me this way?
Q. It will be almost 2 years for my boyfriend and I in March. I love him dearly, but lately he hasn't been treating me differently. I do admit that when he began his new job, I was a bit leary of this woman that kept wanting him to work with her, but ...
A. 15 February 2007: Your boyfriend is probaly just having a lot of problems at work...talk to him and try to ease him up as possible and talk about it...you can maybe take him to the specialist and discuss it together...just calm him... (read in full...)
Sweet 13 and never been kissed....
Q. hey, i am 13 years old an ill be 14 in june and i haven`t kissed a guy yet!!! help!!!...
A. 15 February 2007: Who says you have to be kissed by the time your 14??
If you really want a kiss go out and have fun and you'll soon meet a guy...just don't rush it
but you should kiss when you feel up to it and happy... (read in full...)
Are successful relationships possible after the person has cheated?
Q. has anyone ever taken back a person who has cheated on them, and things had ended up good and happy?...
A. 15 February 2007: yes sometimes it has when the person doesn't cheat ever again and there is trust in the relationship
my sister took back a guy that cheated on her and now there still together and happy... (read in full...)
How can I learn to let go from those that hurt me? Is there something wrong with me?
Q. i just need someone to teach me about letting go. i have such trouble doing it... everytime one relationship ends i hold on to so many things.... so much that it sometimes ruins my next relationship... is there something wrong with me? why is it so ...
A. 13 February 2007: I can relate to you but you shouldn't let it hurt you to badly if your hanging on to one thing to long you miss the next great thing that comes along... If you just want to confide to someone about how you feel you should go see a councellor...the... (read in full...)
I think I'm stalking... how can I control my obsession for this boy?
Q. Well This Is Weird Butt.. Last Year Me and My mate Fancied this lad at my School and We loved Him so Much that One day We started to 'Follow' Around the School and After School!! Ive Heard that 'Stalking' is wrong and weird. I asked my friend i...
A. 13 February 2007: When thinking about this boy just think about something else i think the boy is obviously hurt but also scared... just calm down a little and stop staring concentrate on your own work think about something else.. It doesn't matter whats goi... (read in full...)
Can long distance relationships really work?
Q. hi i am meeting a lad i have been talkin to on msn for over a year on wednesday (valentines day) he lives quite far away from me. i was wondering whether if i start a relationship wiv this lad if it wud be able to work as we far apart? can long ...
A. 13 February 2007: Yes long distance relationships do work if your in a very good relationship...
I'm not sure if you met him on msn or not but i advise you to meet him in person before you start anything...
my sister is in a long distance relationship and she's be... (read in full...)
She cheated and agreed to stop talking to him! But I want to still confront him..is this a good idea?
Q. hi I had just found out my girlfriend of 4 year and the mother of my 2 babys had cheat on me with a co-worker. i had already told her that if she wants to work it out she has to stop talking to him and stop seeing him. she agreed. but i want to ...
A. 12 February 2007: I'm sure you just want to see who this guy was which would be perfectly normal.
You can explain this to your girlfriend nicely and assure her you won't do anything to hurt him, then i'm sure she'll understand and let you meet him.
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I liked this guy but he moved to the states...how do I get over him?
Q. hey I'm thirteen, nearly 14, and i like this guy who's like 3 years older than me, and nobody knows,cos Ive never told anyone, and am not planning to, but now I'm really depressed cos he moved all the way to the states and he doesn't even really ...
A. 12 February 2007: I understand exactly how you feel as i once was in the same situation..
the way i dealt with it was to just let him go...and you should to.
I got my mind of him by going out with my friends and keeping myself busy...
the way i look at it is....
i... (read in full...)
How do I be skinny and well liked like the other girls at school?
Q. me and my boyfriend are young teenager's and have agreed not to have sex without protection or have it until 14. i think we may be takin things fast seeming as previous activities we have done. people think its sick how relationships turn out! but...
A. 5 February 2007: obviously your life is very troubled right now and i can understand why your starting to hate yourself....before when you were sad...you fed yourself to get away that empty feeling in your stomach...and now this has happened....
why not just join... (read in full...)
I made a 'bitch book' and someone found it at school...now everyone hates me! Help?
Q. i made a bitch book and i regret it, but some in my school has found it, and everyone hates me at the moment! what should i do?? ...
A. 5 February 2007: Well everyone makes mistakes and when they make mistakes they learn from it...
My advice would be to be friendly to everyone...
and to say that your sorry and won't do it again....
still young..they may not understand and may never forgive you.... (read in full...)
Why do people say that being in love "hurts?"
Q. hi people say being in love hurts. i dont understand this?????...
A. 5 February 2007: sometimes people will say that meaning that they love that person so much that they can't let them go....
and when they do let them go their heart hurts, love hurts.... ... (read in full...)
She still wants me but I know I have hurt her! What should I do?
Q. been with my fiance for seven years and have little boy of 3yrs - she recently found out I had got friendly with another girl and met her once only to chat (nothing sexual at all - was not looking for that). Also found a letter I wrote about 3 years ...
A. 5 February 2007: Everyone deserves a second chance even you...your fiance must understand that or she would of not told you that she still loves you....
Hopefully you have already told her everything and why...
also said sorry that you have hurt her
The relat... (read in full...)
I want to make the most of Valentines but is it too soon??
Q. Right bit of a problem here. Now as you all know it is soon to be Valentines day and I have never had a bf on this date. Thing is I've recently (last week) got together with one of my close friends who is a good 20years older than me. Now I don't ...
A. 5 February 2007: well since your not sure to make a big deal about it or not,..
why not just get something simple for him...like a card you made yourself...... (read in full...)
Can't get over my ex (even though he can be mean)...
Q. hi im a teen and i get upset every night thinking of my x boyfriend since we have not been together we have done things you would do if you was together and a few weeks after we did somthing together he went out with someone else and we have done ...
A. 4 February 2007: You should not see him at all...it will only make it harder for you so just stop seeing him for awhile...when he calls dn't answer...just hang out with your friends and do lots of exciting things to get your mind off of him...go out to party or ... (read in full...)
It hurt that my friend is dating a guy I told her I liked! What should I do?
Q. Dear Cupid, I really fancied this guy at my disco, my best friend knew as well, Anyway, we were kissing And dancing and holding hands But then my best friend started getting too cosy with him, dirty dancing and kissing and now they are...
A. 4 February 2007: If the guy doesn't like this girl and really actually likes you then why hasn't he dumped her yet...you can't blame your friend for liking a guy but you can blame her for not discussing it with you that she liked him to... You have to tell them how ... (read in full...)
He stares at me but tells others he doesn't like me! What's his game?
Q. Hi, i dont quite know if this guy likes me he keeps making eye contact with me at school and kinda stares at me too. He keeps telling his friends that he doesnt like me even though he speaks to me all the time so i was just wondering what other ...
A. 2 February 2007: well do you like him???
He most probaly does like you but it seems he's just to shy to admit it...he's probaly afraid that if his friends find out they'll tease him about it...
but it really depends of if you like him... (read in full...)
Is it really possible to be friends with an ex-lover? Any insights?
Q. This is an uncomfortable situation, but here goes (deep breath). What is the story about the woman with whom your boyfriend had an affair? Is it ever possible to be friends with her? My boyfriend was seeing his brother's girlfriend's sis...
A. 1 February 2007: hi
i think that it is possible to be friends with anyone that you feel comfortable with...even if you once had a strange relationship with them, by being friends you can leave it behind....
"Your eyes are placed in front because it is more importan... (read in full...)
Friendship loyalties and trouble among friends!
Q. Me and this guy...We fancied each other for ages, about three months, but never went out. Suddenly he went out with one of my best friends. It's causing secrecy and lies in our friendship group, her and another friend feel they have to go off in ...
A. 30 January 2007: Depending on which girl the guy likes is who he should be with...and if he chooses the other girl over you it is his loss....
I think you should just let them go on..and stay away from them for awhile...as it's obviously hurting a lot to see them... (read in full...)
He hasn't been acting the same towards me, lately...is there someone else?
Q. me and this boy have the same feelings for each other but just lately he has not been acting the same. is there some one else?...
A. 30 January 2007: The best way to deal with how you feel right now is to confront him and tell him what you think...after all a good relationship is based on trust so don't go over the top when talking to him ... (read in full...)
She has a lot on her plate and we broke up! I still want her-should I keep contacting her?
Q. I'm very very sad and heartbroken. My girlfriend broke up with me 1 week ago. She said her reasons were that she couldn't handle the stress of the arguments we have in our relationship because she has alot on her plate right now. She's grievei...
A. 28 January 2007: After a relationship is broken it is best to become friends....so for now you shouldn't be aiming for wanting her back..be friends with her and help her when she is greiving....its a really hard time for her now so she needs all the support she can ... (read in full...)
Two guys who are best friend both like me. I feel guilty for coming between two good friends! What should I do?
Q. Boy #1 and Boy #2 are best friends, both completely besotted with me. For one I cant understand it, I dont feel amazing, even when they tell me so. I'm best friends with Boy #2, and I dated Boy #1, which really made Boy #2 sad. After a little while ...
A. 28 January 2007: Calm down
you must take a breath and relax because
you have to figure out everything
have you ever heard of the saying
having what you can't have?
i believe it somehow gets to this point...after you dumped Boy #1 you believe that you can... (read in full...)
She's having a hard time letting her bf go. How can she dump her bf for me?
Q. Hi, i recently met this girl up town, she is a mate of my sisters and well we got on quite well but i found out she has a b.f, i txt her the next day as i got her number off my sister...She said best not txt as he might see but she then txt me later ...
A. 28 January 2007: It seems like you really like this girl..
but she's having a hard time breaking up with her b.f
and maybe it would be easier for her if you helped her a bit to break up with her b.f
by A)If she gets on with his family then they must not be bad p... (read in full...)
Does this guys just want to friends or does he want more? Any advice?
Q. This guy , seems to make a big effort to chat with me, like he'll talk to me on msn when he's offline , and look for ages in the play ground to find me . Does he just wanna be mates ? ... or ? ?...
A. 27 January 2007: yea it seems this guy has feelings for you....whether it is just friendship or a relationship he wants....the most important thing is...do you like him?... (read in full...)
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