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writes: well, i've liked this guy for a long time since we broke up. and my friend and him just broke up recently. im kinda excited but feel bad for them. but i really like him and im not sure if i should go for him or wait a while.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2007): Wait a while, if he gets snapped up in the meantime, then tough! But you have your friendship to think about also. I wouldn't like it if a friend of mine homed into my ex so soon. Back off a bit, i'm sure everything will work out ok.
But do be there for your friend, friendships mean so much. Blokes can come and go.
Take care
xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2007): Wait a while, if he gets snapped up in the meantime, then tough! But you have your friendship to think about also. I wouldn't like it if a friend of mine homed into my ex so soon. Back off a bit, i'm sure everything will work out ok.
But do be there for your friend, friendships mean so much. Blokes can come and go.
Take care
xx
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reader, Octoberwine  +, writes (20 February 2007):
If you wait too long someone else might snap him up. Although dating someone that just broke up, would make you a rebound girlfriend, and those kind of situations usually do not last for long. Given your age, I would snap him up, but if you were alot older, then a rebound relationship carries a lot of baggage.
Good luck!
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reader, cseame  +, writes (20 February 2007):
 My suggestion for going for a friend of yours ex would be to wait awhile and then ask her if it would be ok
you wouldn't want to jeperdize your friendship so make sure she's ok with it first
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reader, luvme247  +, writes (20 February 2007):
 He just broke up with your friend, so you should be there for your friend & wait a while. Before you start to have a relationship with him you should make sure that your friend is okay with it and that she is over him because friendship is more important then boys at your age. She might be fine with it & if that is the case, go for it. Good Luck!
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