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female
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30-35,
*xhanzxx
writes: i made a bitch book and i regret it, but some in my school has found it, and everyone hates me at the moment! what should i do?? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, willywombat +, writes (10 February 2007):
I am going to sound old and silly....but what exactly is a 'bitch book'?
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female
reader, baby blue fairy +, writes (10 February 2007):
well it was a silly thing to do but its done now (why take it to school?) try and explain to people keep it low key for now and in time maybe people will slowly forgive you itll take time but will be worth it in the mean time meet new people you didnt mix with before make a fresh and tell people you are genarally sorry best of luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2007): lifes about making mistakes, its how you learn from them that determines what kind of person you are.
i know when your a teen every 'fall out' and bitching session is a major issue. but one thing i remember looking back at my school days, these things last a matter of weeks befor a new 'issue'.
just appologise, tell them it was a mistake you wrote in anger and never meant. some will forgive, some wont but its the price you pay for being silly.
i trust you wont be writing silly stuff like that again
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female
reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (5 February 2007):
Did you watch Mean Girls??
Or... Harriet the Spy?
Both of those movies have the same dilemma you're in. Apologize, and maybe write little personal notes to everyone that you wrote about saying you're sorry.
Some people won't forgive you, but your true friends will - in time.
Next time you write a 'bitch book', keep it SUPER private and DON'T bring it to school with you!!
xxIndia
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reader, cseame +, writes (5 February 2007):
Well everyone makes mistakes and when they make mistakes they learn from it...
My advice would be to be friendly to everyone...
and to say that your sorry and won't do it again....
still young..they may not understand and may never forgive you..especially if they were in the book....but the ones that do..and i promise there will after-awhile...will be your true friends...just give them time and be nice
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