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writes:help me. every time i get close to girls and make good conversation to them, and i know they like me, although im not sure as a friend or more, i get stuck. i start getting really nervous around them, well not in class talking and all, but like outside the classroom when im walking with them.. anywhere outside the clasroom i jsut get really self-conscious and start walking weird, and i can't think of as many things to say.. my physical body language also starts to look like im very nervous.. i really need help to overcome this or ill never have a girlfriend! keep the good advice going guys! all your answers help, not just me but for anyone else reading this who might have the same problem Reply to this Question
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reader, wvgirl +, writes (16 February 2007):
 Just remember that she's probably a bit nervous as well.When I first met the guy I'm currently dating, I was so nervous that I almost ran out of the store. Looking back on the date, though, I realize he was just as nervous, stuttering and fidgeting with his fingers. I personally thought it was cute. Good luck!
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reader, wvgirl +, writes (16 February 2007):
Just remember that she's probably a bit nervous as well.When I first met the guy I'm currently dating, I was so nervous that I almost ran out of the store. Looking back on the date, though, I realize he was just as nervous, stuttering and fidgeting with his fingers. I personally thought it was cute. Good luck!
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reader, kenny  +, writes (16 February 2007):
 I know just how you feel, when you really like someone you get tongue tied, and all the butterflies racing round in your tummy.
If they like you they are probally feeling just as nervous as you are, and are probally as self conscious too.
All you can do is just be calm, relaxed, and most importantly just be yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2007): i used to be in the exact same problem, now i'm 18 yr old father of a 7mnth old baby,
i think you're just being paranoid about the way you acting. The best way to combat this is just think its only (sarah or woteva her name) do this to every girl, trust me it works,
but don't go having babys around though because it is difficult..
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reader, Thomas17  +, writes (16 February 2007):
 well i had this problem a year ago.. i finally learned how to conrol that emotion. dont get it into your head that girls "like" you whether for a friend or more, as that will change your perspective of them totally. think in your mind as the same level as you - humans. they are almost the same in nature, just more sensitive and gentle. treat them like you do with your other friends and you should be fine. if the problem persists, take a deep breath whereever you are and countdown from 10 seconds. you should be a little more relaxed after that. good luck
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reader, cseame  +, writes (16 February 2007):
 Some other boys/girls are just as self-conscious as you are so don't worry to much about it...
Its a normal thing to feel as your growing up and you grow to become more use to it and calm about it
just be yourself and calm...
you don't have to worry, girls don't bite.
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