My mum was caught cheating on my dad! How do we get over this?
Q. My sister just rang and told me she found another man in bed with my mother. We speculated mum was cheating on dad for a while, she swore on our lives and our childrens lives that she has and never would cheat on my dad...and now this has ...
A. 7 June 2011: I empathise with your situation. Even it has my blood boiling. If your dad is egoist/ has bad health better not tell him. If you tell he'll get over this, tell him. Its pathetic why people cheat and lie so much. All I can say is be cool and be your ... (read in full...)
Why have I never had a boyfriend?
Q. I have never had a boyfriend. I'm not really the type of person to give a shit ordinarily, but in the last few months it has really been bothering me. I'm a bit chubby (size 16) but other than that I don't think I'm overly hideous. I'm a little bit ...
A. 7 June 2011: Dont become desperate. Just look at the people here they ask all sorts of relation problems. I would ask you to concentrate on personal development. coz worrying solved noone's problem.I m 22, and so are my friends, many of my classmates have ... (read in full...)
Which is worse, her cheating or my looking at her email?
Q. Long story short, girl I was seeing I found out was having sexy liaisons on the Internet with a couple of guys she knows. They didn't have sex or were intimate (I don't think, anyway) but exchanged a bunch of messages like "I miss you" or computer ...
A. 7 June 2011: Hey, If you want her back, go and apologize. Though the way you discovered was wrong. But it was the destined way you would discover the things. If I was in your place I would have left such a person for being a cheat. When you are there why she ... (read in full...)
My lying and flirtatious girlfriend wants me back. What shall I do?
Q. hi everyone. i was with a very beautiful girl. shes i guess one of the most beautiful girl in the city. but shes no good other than looks. im not the most good looking guy around, but i have a fantastic personality. id loved her selflessly, i co...
A. 7 June 2011: Hi,
By what story you tell I derive that this wouldnt be a long term relation. Is she maniac, which girl would ask to being submitted to be hurt. Most certainly either you are giving her expensive gifts that she is willing to be with you or she i... (read in full...)
I've been financially abused, but I especially want to keep the cat. Can I do this?
Q. My partner did a runner upped and left while I was at work, leaving me in serious financial difficulty. He has only had a job during the last 2 months he had a job. Prior to that I supported him, for over a year, when he didn't have work. My son ...
A. 5 June 2011: I dont the laws in your place but I am wellversed with basic premise in any country. Though the Cat is in his name, You can always argue that he would not be able to maintain it, and would eventually sell it off for money. Why else do you think a ... (read in full...)
Tremendous sexual tension with this guy at work, we got together against all odds, and now his dominating ex (who he broke up with, for me) claims she's pregnant. He's back with her, says I was just a shoulder to cry on!
Q. Hi, all and any advice will be greatly appreciated as I've gotten myself into a bit of a emotional pickle. In May last year I started a new job. In September a flirtation began between a colleague and I, one who unfortunately was in a 3 year rela...
A. 4 June 2011: Short advice :- He doesnot deserve your time, mental space and attention. Just forgive the poor super-confused Guy. Make it a rule - Get along with SINGLE and sorted guys only (not the ones just out of break-ups), you will forget this man. for a ... (read in full...)
Moving to BF's town- He wants tme to Stay with him - Our culture will not allow our marrage!
Q. I am committed with my boyfriend since 4 months. We both love each other very much and also have trust on each other. But we are of different caste and we know surely that our parents will not allow us to tie a knot, anyway. Now, in this month only ...
A. 4 June 2011: Decide for yourself that arent you getting into a rut? Firstly you shall lie to your parents, he is hiding things from his. What when any of your parents find out? What if his intentions are bad? This relationship doesnot have a future as you said. ... (read in full...)
Guy's only talk to me to get close to my friends. How do I deal with this?
Q. two of my best friends are very pretty. people are always noticing them when they're out and it's something that i've just gotten used to and accepted. i just feel like slowly my self esteem is growing even smaller, because guys are friends with me ...
A. 4 June 2011: Pep up yourself. Do your own things. If you lack in one, make up with other. Standout by being creatively engaged in courses, different social causes. Move out of this proximity if its eating you up but dont avoid as such. People usually are ... (read in full...)
Our relationship was built around drugs - now we are clean we don't know what to do.
Q. I have a very serious issue that has been on my mind for a long long time now, When me and my Boyfriend first got together for the first 2 years we both did Drugs together and then when he finally went to jail for 6 months and he got out we both ...
A. 4 June 2011: Try doing other good things together, may be go together to help people who face the same problem as yours. Try building your life together and see if it works. All the best.... (read in full...)
Was Shy and Diffident - now Strong and Confident: Can a guy outgrow his past with someone that knew him then?
Q. I am a very careful person when it comes to relations , I dont wanna date anyone until im married because i believe in pure relationships . There was a girl whom i knew 2 years ago in highschool she is definitely the woman of my dreams everything i ...
A. 4 June 2011: Its very admirable that you believe in purity of relationships and act in line with that (continue with that). Its great that you have developed confidence. Coming to your question, the girls usually pick up the hints. Thanks to social networking, ... (read in full...)
I feel so guilty for not loving my mother
Q. I've single mother, she is always out if not she is divided from me towards my siblings and my stepdad. For decades now it's just me and her. I feel so guilty that I cannot find any comfort from her, and often I feel so ungrateful because she's th...
A. 3 June 2011: Hey its fine. Nobody likes whining. is there any particular reason why you see this distance, i mean any event or something. I can tell you one thing dont expect from people, they do their own things. Dont ask for love, start giving love. Get ... (read in full...)
Why is it that I can't orgasm as frequently as I used to?
Q. A few points to consider: --I'm talking about clitoral orgasms, not g-spot orgasms, to clarify-- 1. no man/woman has ever made me orgasm. In fact, none have even come close. 2. Same goes for vibrators. 3. Only my fingers can do the tri...
A. 2 June 2011: Are you trying to get a place for yourself in Guiness book of world records. I am amazed that you count. Girl just enjoy. And chill. take a break. dont chase butterflies. when you are still they settle on you. and its normal. its got more to do with ... (read in full...)
I think he loves me, but I feel like I'm just a replacement for his crippled wife!
Q. I am married for 4yrs now, my husband works 800km away from home and occasionally comes home for a day or two, we have been friends with our neighbours for 2yrs. My neighbour and myself have grown close because he keeps an eye on me (safety sake) ...
A. 2 June 2011: How if your husband has an affair where he stays.Very simple answer to this, you are cheating on your husband. Its now for you to think about and decide what to do, because ultimately it is you who have to face consequences.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is stressed up? or am I stressed up?
Q. hey all im in a relation ship and its been going on for 3 months now..ive been knowing her for 3 years because she is a work collage too..we never actually spoken for long time together, but 5 months ago we got out together and shared our feelings...
A. 2 June 2011: First thing first donot ignore your studies and dont disturb hers.. After the exams are over sit down, write things you want to clear before hand and speak. dont let her treat you like a doormat. dont get into an argument. respect yourself and let ... (read in full...)
How would you feel if someone you were talking to created an account and used false pictures online and pretended to be someone else?
Q. How would you feel or react if someone you were talking to created an account and used false pictures online and pretended to be someone else? Would it matter if they said they at first didn't know or trust you and were concerned about privacy so...
A. 2 June 2011: I think some girls may do it really for privacy concerns. Dont take such things to heart especially since you are online to have a good time rather than being caught up in bad feelings. Take care.... (read in full...)
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