Pregnant girlfriend wants to leave the state!
Q. Well I guess I should say first that she, after yesterday, is now my ex-girlfriend. We had been dating since late February and moved in together in mid May. Our relationship has had it problems, more so than the typical relationship. She did cheat ...
A. 1 October 2008: Thanks for the good words. I have always tried to do what I thought was right and care for others. I sometimes think I give too much and forgive for too much and people often ponder as to how I can put up with so much. Just like to say that ... (read in full...)
My pregnant girlfriend has left me, but she says she still wants me... any advice?
Q. my girlfriend and i have been together for a over a year . she is four months pregnant with our baby and she recently left me and staying with a friend. but she still says she still wants me and to come see me every now and again . i am confused ...
A. 30 September 2008: You two need to discuss whats going on in this relationship. Why she left. What would happen if you two got back together. Your feelings for one another. Everything that comes to mind.
My 11 week pregnant girlfriend has actually just pulled t... (read in full...)
I'm getting married and feel guilty about thinking about the guy I saw a few years ago.
Q. I was seeing a bloke 4 years ago for about a month, I hadnt told anyone and just kept it quiet. I really liked him but got scared and called it all off. I now realise that it was because Ive never met anyone so nice and was scared that if i let him ...
A. 22 August 2007: Who do you want to be with more? Who will make your life more of a pleasure? Don't get married for the sake of the child and don't ever feel that just because you're getting married its the end and you can't change things.
I would say meet wit... (read in full...)
My husband has had an affair with a girl nearly half my age... how can I trust him again?
Q. My husband has had an affair with a girl nearly half my age. He says it's over and it was just because it boosted his self esteem to have wild sex with a uninhibited teen and he only wanted her for one thing. I never met her but she has been with my ...
A. 20 August 2007: Don't leave with out a plan and don't be afraid to ask others for help. Set aside small amounts of money and prepare for the time you set for when you want to move out. When the time you've set for you to leave has arrived then DO IT. Don't ... (read in full...)
Everyone thinks i'm ugly.
Q. This has been making me feel depressed for a long time. EVERYWHERE I go i hear people call me ugly even at school too. I hear it almost everyday. No one even notices me or even look at me. My sister, and parents think i'm not that pretty either. ...
A. 20 August 2007: You need to respect yourself before others will respect you. If you feel like you want to look different then do it for yourself and not someone else. When you feel confident about yourself that part of you will shine brighter than you'd ever ... (read in full...)
Scared she'll tell people about my circumcised penis!
Q. I am a 15 year old male and circumcised, me and my friend want to have sex for fun but im scared she will tell everyone about my penis please help?...
A. 20 August 2007: Don't rush sex. Wait for the right girl and the right time. You're young and should be enjoying other things in life, trust me! I rushed into it too young and had it for the first time with the wrong girl and I still regret it to this day. Sex is ... (read in full...)
I want to break up with the second girl the online one but don't want to hurt her feelings how can I do that?
Q. Hi, When I was in year 6 I liked this girl in my class, then last year in September we started going out and kissed once. In febuary I met a girl online while I was going out with the other girl, the girl I met online said she was all nyc and seemed ...
A. 20 August 2007: Go with your heart man. You know whats right inside and nobody can tell you which one you care about more. But if I were you and the same age I would take the local girl. I was in a long distance relationship at the same age and it ended up bad. ... (read in full...)
Should I hang around and hope he'll change his mind or start dating again?
Q. I was with my boyfriend for about 16 months (we're both 17) then we split up recently. We've always argued a lot and have split up on countless occasions, only to get back together the next day or sooner. A few weeks ago I got sick of it and fini...
A. 20 August 2007: Do you really think that fighting all the time is healthy? I know you say you love him deeply but just think about it for a second. How many arguments are worth the good times? Ever consider there is someone out there you will not argue with like ... (read in full...)
Can he tell if I am good or bad in bed if I am on the bottom?
Q. i have only just started to have sex...and my Bfs always on top because i want him to be at the moment..can he still tell if im shit in bed if im on bottom!? as he does most of the work...
A. 20 August 2007: Communicate, communicate, communicate, COMMUNICATE! Ask him what he wants to do, offer things or just simply take control of the situation and make him do what you want. The same old thing every time will bore him and a girl who either works to ... (read in full...)
My online interest is kinda chubby and I am not sure how I feel about that
Q. I've been talking to this girl over the internet. She seems like a really nice person, and we get along.. great to be honest. I recently saw photos of her. She looked quite nice, but then I saw a few more that she hadn't posed for. Turns out she ...
A. 20 August 2007: Sexual attraction is always needed in a relationship and just because you may not find her attractive in a photo doesn't mean that you wont like her in person. If you do feel very strongly about her then your emotional connection/bond can also help ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend broke up with me because she said I was moving too fast
Q. My Ex-Girlfriend brokeup with me becuase she said I am moving to fast when she is the one who kissed me first she says she still loves me and cares about me but she don't show it at all, according to her mom she does have alot of feelings for me..So ...
A. 20 August 2007: You're young man and you cant expect a girl to get into a very serious relationship at this age. She, as well as you, are just learning to explore your feelings and urges. Neither of you know what you want in life and you really shouldn't be ... (read in full...)
He keeps blowing hot and cold... one day he'll text me all the time and ring me and then a couple of days later he won't at all and won't reply leaving me in doubt.
Q. I went out with a guy once over a year ago, due to school, working and family etc, it didn't work out because we could never see each other. A year on we are still talking and say how much we like each other all the time, we've arranged to meet a f...
A. 20 August 2007: Move on. If he was serious he would make time for you and wouldn't just give up so easily all the time in talking with you. You're the space filler in his dating life and having you say you like him and show interest is just a self esteem ... (read in full...)
What's the next step for me in my relationship?
Q. I've been going out with this girl for just over three weeks and we have really grown to love each other... I like her a lot and I want to take our relationship further but I don't know how far I should go... I can tell you she really loves me and ...
A. 20 August 2007: Taking it slow makes allows you to build the relationship and enjoy one another. You get the chance to feel one another out in a relationship setting. You may have known her for more than 3 weeks but being friends and being emotionally and ... (read in full...)
Am I the only one or does anyone else feel that dearcupid makes you paranoid?
Q. Am I the only one that finds that dearcupid makes me paranoid reading about all the different questions people ask(cheating with bosses, having sex with brothers and sisters etc) Am I the only one or does anyone else feel that dearcupid makes you ...
A. 20 August 2007: I'm going through rough times my self right now and to read others and answer their questions that I can see rationally compared to my love blinded sight helps a lot. Also getting answers from people to reaffirm my beliefs that I just refuse to ... (read in full...)
I wake up 6 hours later to a text from her saying it's over and it's the final time she says this... I'm destroyed
Q. Will try to keep this short as I can... Started during summer of 8th-9th grade summer break. Met a girl online in a chat room thinking nothing of it other than friends. We ended up getting deeply, and I mean DEEPLY involved emotionally. Of course ...
A. 20 August 2007: Yeah in retrospect by stepping back I can see the flaws in my logic of wanting to be with her and everything but my feelings for her have always been greater than for any other woman I've ever met.
When she got pregnant and married I did move on.... (read in full...)
I wake up 6 hours later to a text from her saying it's over and it's the final time she says this... I'm destroyed
Q. Will try to keep this short as I can... Started during summer of 8th-9th grade summer break. Met a girl online in a chat room thinking nothing of it other than friends. We ended up getting deeply, and I mean DEEPLY involved emotionally. Of course ...
A. 20 August 2007: Yeah in retrospect by stepping back I can see the flaws in my logic of wanting to be with her and everything but my feelings for her have always been greater than for any other woman I've ever met.
When she got pregnant and married I did move on.... (read in full...)
How can I gain the confidence to let guys touch me?
Q. How can I gain the confidence to let guys touch me? Don't get me wrong, I have let them before, but I havent liked it much and been uncomfortable. I've never had to confidence to touch them either, they are always making the first move and I usu...
A. 19 August 2007: First of all if your friends are doing this then maybe you need to find some new friends.
Is there something in your past that is bothering you to the point that you cant accept another person in close? Possibly someone you trust violated... (read in full...)
I worry that my best friend is ruining her life by being with an abusive boyfriend!
Q. My best friend has been in a relationship for 2 years. Without getting into detail of their extremely rocky past, her and her boyfriend have again had some major issues of trust. However, their most recent argument resulted in throwing objects and ...
A. 19 August 2007: You stand by her and you get the point across that abusive relationship are first of all WRONG and they will never get better even with time. Whether its being verbally abusive or physically you can not expect to change the person into something ... (read in full...)
How can I delay climax?
Q. yo uo.. Whenever me and my gf have sex .. i seem to cum quite a long time before i want to .. is there anything i can do to delay climax.. thank you...
A. 19 August 2007: There are lots of ways. STOP! Thats the best answer there is. Let the sensation subside and then continue. Think about things other than how good it feels but not to the point where you're going to lose concentration. Pulling out and smacking the ... (read in full...)
My husband has had an affair with a girl nearly half my age... how can I trust him again?
Q. My husband has had an affair with a girl nearly half my age. He says it's over and it was just because it boosted his self esteem to have wild sex with a uninhibited teen and he only wanted her for one thing. I never met her but she has been with my ...
A. 19 August 2007: Nobody can tell you how to cope and deal with being cheated on. I was cheated on twice by the same person and even though that was years ago and we are no longer together it still hurts to know that the trust you take for granted was broken.
E... (read in full...)
Do I take a chance and get back with my ex?
Q. Help! I think I want to get back with partner and I know he definitely wants to make another go of it with me. We were together for 4 years and split in February though have kept in touch a few times by text. He's a really nice, honourable guy and ...
A. 19 August 2007: Build upon what broke you up in the first place. Understanding what was wrong is the key to making it work in the next run. If the problems arise again you may just want to cut your losses and accept that no matter how great that relationship was ... (read in full...)
He never wants to have sex anymore...
Q. Well, you see, my boyfriend and I have had sex 4 times before. But now he seems very anxious about it and never wants to anymore. And when we are in the moment and he mentions wanting to and getting a condom I go get it and by the time I get back he ...
A. 19 August 2007: Guys are very very VERY self conscience about their performance in bed and thus the size of their 'man hood' for lack of a better term. There are various reasons why a condom affects him. Maybe he can't maintain an erection while you run off to get ... (read in full...)
In an affair as secondary partner, it sucks!! But the drama, sex etc are mind blowing... Advice needed!
Q. Advice needed, in an affair as secondary partner, it sucks!! But the drama, sex etc are mind blowing and we have both lost control. So i have pulled away for both our sakes. Still want her but it aint lookin like shes leavin. I dont know why she ...
A. 19 August 2007: First off how long was she in this relationship? Regardless of how bad she feels in this relationship because of what it may be lacking she will hang on to it for various reasons. Reasons such as kids, comfortability, reliability, financial ... (read in full...)
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