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age
30-35,
*DK
writes:My Ex-Girlfriend brokeup with me becuase she said I am moving to fast when she is the one who kissed me first she says she still loves me and cares about me but she don't show it at all, according to her mom she does have alot of feelings for me..So I believe it....We sometimes still tells each other we love one another...At first she was saying she wants to get back with one another later but now she sayin she doesnt know..Please HELP!!
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reader, Charlie84 +, writes (20 August 2007):
You're young man and you cant expect a girl to get into a very serious relationship at this age. She, as well as you, are just learning to explore your feelings and urges. Neither of you know what you want in life and you really shouldn't be stressing over the small relationships you have at that age. If she likes you and wants you back she will come back on her own time, but I suggest you move on too and don't get hung up on her. If she does come back and you feel the same about her as you do now you can try it again. One thing about being your age and High School is the ability to meet so many different girls and explore the possibilities of all sorts of different relationships. You won't have it so easy once out of High School so cherish it now and take full advantage of the situation while you can.
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reader, somewhat_anonymous +, writes (20 August 2007):
She's confused. Maybe you were moving too fast and it scared her, even if she initiated the speed.
All you can do is talk to her and see where you two stand and perhaps make a promise to take it slow. But realize you cannot wait for her forever to make a decision.
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