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writes:Well, ok... I am in love with someone and I never felt this way about anyone in my life. We broke up and we are still really good friends but we have talks. We still love eachother and still tell eachother we love them. My only problem is that we wont be getting back together and it hurts. But I want to know if I making a stupid decision. Two days after we break up, he kisses this chick. They been hanging out now all the time and he really likes her. I been trying to help him get together with her because I just want to see him happy. Am I making a stupid decision for wanting to help the one I love get another girl? I don't know what to think anymore... should I just back off or still help him? (even though I wish that he was nothing but mine!)
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (29 December 2009):
You wish he was nothing but yours, which is lovely. But the more you help him, the more you tell him you love him, the longer it will take to get over him. He likes this other girl, so now is the time to back off and try to move on. It will take some time, but it can be done if you focus on yourself and your own life for now. The real love of your life is still out there waiting for you. Find him instead.
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reader, ChantillyMarie  +, writes (29 December 2009):
If you wish for him to be happy, then help him but don't over do it, and don't back off, because otherwise he's going to kick you out of his life, you can still be his friend, no one is stopping you from doing that, but some times these things happen, and you can't do anything to fix it, even if we wanted to.
Although, you want to see him happy, and doing that is going to have to be by the sidelines, you had fun while it lasted no?
Move on, find someone cute, funny and sweet, and have a blast with him. Or her, depends what you're into.
But please for the love of God, don't try to break them up, I know some girls think this way, and I deffinatly have to say, don't do it.
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