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30-35,
*aydee37
writes:Hey guys! :)Alright.. My boyfriend is NOT paying any attention to me and it pisses me off!On facebook he NEVER replies to my posts and never posts anything to me but he has the time to comment on his friends'He never initiates a call.. Its always me!He never ever texts me AT ALL!When I'm on the phone with him.. While I'm talking he'd be playing his ps3 and interrupt with a ' oh gosh I missed' or ' yesss I did it' which clearly shows he wasn't listening to a word I said!I've tried not calling or texting him for a while but it doesn't affect him at all! Maybe he'd call like for about 2 mins and that's it!I even tried talking to almost every single person on my facebook friends list except him but he still doesn't do anything!And then I get so pissed off but when I call him I feel all happy and then guilty for being mad at him!Oh and he sometimes lies to me! Like this one time he was at his friends house when I called! Later he asked me to call him back cuz he had his dad on the other line! After that his friend who is my sister'sFriend called her and told her he over heard what my bf said but instead of 'having his dad on the other line' he started playing with his ps3 and used that as an excuse to get me off the phone!It really hurts but I love him too much to leave him! We've been together for 3 years now and he's been acting like this since he transferred to a new school last year!I don't know what else to do! I'm tired of being ther chaser! Please help!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (6 June 2010):
 Stop being the chaser. If he wants you , he will come and chase after you .You are no more his priority and has become a burden to him.
The road you have walked together is coming to a dead end. You must start a new journey without him.
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reader, babygirl635  +, writes (6 June 2010):
OMG! My ex bf was EXACTLY like that. in the end he was a tool. dump him while you can and RUN
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reader, ChantillyMarie  +, writes (6 June 2010):
If he's only 17, he's not going to care about some girl, constantly bugging him to talk to her.
Tbh, he's probably started eyeing girls off at his new school.
The truth hurts, Iknow, but I'd move on personally.
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reader, Jmtmj +, writes (6 June 2010):
 What do you expect, he's a boy... not your husband and at the moment his PS3 is way more important to him than you. Either break up with him or deal with it, you aren't going to turn him into the chaser, no matter what you do. Your mind games won't work on him, but have fun trying :)
You can't take things so seriously, just try to have fun!! 99% of guys at your age aren't ready for a serious relationship anyways.
Best of luck :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2010): i think your 16 -17 yrs old.. you need to quit fussin about a boyfriend that is playing ps3 instead of talking to you. Im 19 and my ex girlfriend sounded exactly like you. I never replied to her facebook posts and she B**CHED about it all the time. Im in college taking pre med and the last thing i cared about was facebook. the lying thing?? i do not agree with lying at all, but the only reason he did it is probably because you would make a big deal out of it if he said "let me go so that i can play ps3. (I have an Xbox 360 so im in the same boat) You girls have to understand that you cant be the center of our lifes at this stage in life.. especially since ya'll are younger. If this continues to be your problem with this guy.. break up and find you a feminine guy (almost gay) who will enjoy doing the things you like to do and wont be playing video games like normal teenage boys.
Good luck
Sincerely
19 yr old non-buttkisser and non-vagina whipped
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2010): Simply ask him 'do u still like me or not' and give me his name and your email address of facebook i'll talk to him and make him feel ur emotions
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