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writes:I've been going out with a girl for 7 months now and we havent had sex. Is this normal because it seems every other couple around us is. And it makes be almost frustrated that we aren't, and wonder whether im in a strong relationship, i dont know what to do or what to think. Is 7 months too long to wait to have sex? Reply to this Question
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reader, ChantillyMarie  +, writes (20 March 2010):
Stop, Stop, Stop. Think about it for a second. You're only concidering sex, because everyone else is? That's almost like peer pressure.
Stop comparing your relationship to everyone else, and focus on the amazing girl, who always wants to be in your arms. She'll let you know when she's ready, just remember protection, and that protection doesn't always work, so remember the reprocussions, if something goes wrong.
Talk to her, but don't base your opinions on what's going on around you, trust in yourself.
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reader, Blod +, writes (19 March 2010):
 Every relationship is different. Some have sex the first day, other wait years. The most important thing is that you're both happy and ready.
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reader, Brunel  +, writes (19 March 2010):
No!
She will tell you when she is ready!
Consider yourself very lucky young man!
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reader, Accountable +, writes (19 March 2010):
 If your girlfriend is around the same age you are, 7 months is not a particularly long time to wait. If she's a virgin shes likely to want her first time to happen when she feels everythings right.
Don't compare your relationship to others - you have no real way of knowing whats actually going on in those other relationships! Chances are your relationship will turn out stronger because you're respecting her choice to wait.
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