My husband prefers masturbating to porn to making love with me!
Q. We have been married for 3 years for the last two years or more my husband has had a very low sex drive so i thought, he went to the doc 2 years ago who put him on testosterone which really didnt improve anything he started blaming his issues on his ...
A. 14 May 2014: I think it's right to go to counseling. it sounds like he just can't have sex anymore, it sounds medical not that he doesn't want you, and I think as a man that frustrates him. but I see you have desires that haven't dwindled, and maybe you need to ... (read in full...)
He spends most of his time on the phone to her when I am with him
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly two years, I found out he'd cheated on me 3 times during the first 10 months of our relationship both physical and emotional cheating. He 'realised his mistake' and I took him back. Our relationship ...
A. 14 May 2014: DUMP HIM. this guy is a cheater and it is written all over his face. his actions are obvious. doesn't matter that they are coworkers, I personally would trust him. sorry lassie but he's not worth you precious time!!... (read in full...)
How do I reject this sweet, disabled guy?
Q. How do I respond to this?! Him: Why were you not in class today? Me: I was a little sick this morning - didn't wanna chance a 50min 4pm lecture :P Him: It's been a while hey? I really missed you. Me: I know, right? It's feel like foreve...
A. 14 May 2014: Oooh. Awkward. Yeah, I get the wheelchair thing. you have to be careful what you say.
I would tell him in person that you think he is really sweet, but some of the things he says makes you feel uncomfortable, and you wish to continue to be his f... (read in full...)
Boundaries with a patient- husband is a physical therapist- please would like some advice
Q. Will try to be brief :-) SOme history: Im 43, BF is 48- we are both divorced and in a solid trusting relationship for past 6 months. Knew each other 3 years as friends so good foundation. BOth very happy. We live separate for now and everythi...
A. 14 May 2014: I think it's good that your husband hasn't been engaged with her. To be perfectly honest, I think YOU should have a woman-to-woman talk with her, tell her to back off (in a nice way). I don't trust this woman and it is very inappropriate for her to ... (read in full...)
I give them 110% but they still leave
Q. hi aunts and uncles, been a long time since i have been on here. i was left for a yonger woman, and thought it to be not right. i waited two years to get out and meet other guys, i finally met a guy who ended up being 18 years younger than me. we ...
A. 14 May 2014: yeah, sorry it sounds like he still wants his ex. dump him. to your other question, from what it sounds like you are doing nothing wrong. unfortunately, guys are asses. a lot of them. and unfortunately you don't get many chances in life to meet ... (read in full...)
Since I said no living together without marriage he's backed off
Q. Hi, I would like to ask for some advice. My boyfriend and I have been together for 15 months, he is 39 and I am 27. We don't live together and he stays about an hour away from me, for the last 15 months I have been going to visit him every weekend, ...
A. 14 May 2014: Maybe its just the way you write it, I don't know all the details and how it really is, but it sounds fishy to me. I'll tell you what I do know.
It's perfectly normal to be afraid of marriage and commitment. but he's only come out to see you twic... (read in full...)
Break up? Try the LDR? Be realistic about the partying? Give up my dream of having children? What do I do?
Q. I am 34yrs old woman and in a relationship with a 23yr old man. Yes, yes... I know. When we met, I look around 23 and he looks around 25...until of course we found out each other's real age a few dates after! I thought it could be a bit of fun...
A. 14 May 2014: To be honest, by your writing it sounds like you don't love this guy that much.
You have to figure out what you want more...being with him, or having children?
This guy doesn't sound very mature for kids. if you agree with me, and you don'... (read in full...)
I've fallen for a guy at work, but I'm married
Q. I'm 54, married with children (grown up) and I've become obsessed with a guy at work who is younger than most of my children. I get on so well with him, but for some time my feelings toward him have become sexual. What the hell do I do??...
A. 14 May 2014: I think the question you have to ask yourself is do you love your husband? If so, then do not fall for a sexual desire. I know myself how strong they can be, but maybe try to figure out a way to make your husband fulfill that desire in you instead ... (read in full...)
Is this age difference morally wrong?
Q. Big question. Is it morally wrong to date a guy this young? I'm 22 almost 23, seeing a guy who is 17 almost 18. (We live in Texas so he's legal age of consent). He is wonderful to me, spends all his time with me, shows public displays of affection ...
A. 14 May 2014: child molester??? what idiots are saying that?? please. honey, five years is NOTHING. date him if he makes you happy.... (read in full...)
People think I'm her sugar daddy
Q. I'm 32 and have been dating a girl for 18 months. She is 11 yrs younger then I am and even though its been a year and a half both our families still don't think our relationship will last. I love her. And I hate to say that in the beginning I didn't...
A. 14 May 2014: Yes, I think an age difference relationship can work. 11 years is nothing....believe me. the age gap between me and my boyfriend is more than double that.
there is nothing wrong with spending money on her. nothing. my only advice would be don't le... (read in full...)
Is this friendship appropriate?
Q. Hey. I have a little-big issue here. I've fallen for a girl way younger than me, she's 16 years old. She's extremely intelligent and mature, but at the same time she's a teenager, so she knows how things work but doesn't have a life plan and I know ...
A. 14 May 2014: I know what it's like to fall for a man a lot older than me. I first fell in love with him when I was 16, an illegal and very inappropriate age, but I fell in love with him anyway. and I'm not talking about a couple year age difference. I mean he ... (read in full...)
Why is my mom doing this??
Q. All this while, I was my mother's only, closest, dearest daughter. She has had a tough life, so to say. But now, she's choosing her new lover over me when she only knew him for 3 years! What is it compared to the 20 years we had together? I know...
A. 3 June 2011: To go on your moms side, you said she has a tough life and she needs someone, she needs a lover. You are special to her, but a woman deserves a man. She must have a place in her heart for you, but with this lover she must feel relief and ... (read in full...)
I always feel people are looking at me like I am weird. Are they? Am I?
Q. Hey ,I wonder ,if you can relate to my problem. I feel very judged ,and criticized all the time/ ..I also feel people are looking at me weird on the street. And I feel very uncomfortable, to go out and be on public places. Well, it sounds like s...
A. 30 April 2011: Feeling judged DOES NOT mean anything is wrong with you. We all feel judged and criticized, some more than others. We think something is wrong with us for those reasons but its all in our heads...I'm in the same boat as you and I know exactly how ... (read in full...)
Does anyone else get turned on by older men
Q. Hey guys i was wondering if anyone else felt this way? Im 24 and i just go out of a bad five year relationship with someone that was 29, but lately i have been very attracted to men who are older like mid thirties or forties. People say im a very p...
A. 25 April 2011: *raises hand* I do!! Lol you're not alone! Go out and mingle with the ancient girl. I have to tell you--they ARE more mature and stable, and that ex sounds terrible and completely out of his mind! Go for it and look for a guy so you want...your ... (read in full...)
How do I get over and out of this? I'm 16. He's 30 and I fancy him, but I don't want to.
Q. hey, i know you may think i'm a kid but all the same i need help with this all the same. last week i stayed with my boss for the week to do this training/boot camp thing. he offered that i stay with him so that i can do it. in fact he was very e...
A. 25 April 2011: Hey...so it sounds like you got a bit of a crush!
Think of the reality of it. Does he seem to like you? Are you two very close, like best friends? Would it be proper for you to tell him how you feel?
Crushes come and go. Its not wrong for yo... (read in full...)
I’m in love with a much older man.
Q. I’m in love with a much older man. I myself am only 17, but he is 60. I know that he’s far to honourable to share my feelings but sometimes it feels like he might. We’ll sit on his couch for hours and listen to music, he tells me about the bands and ...
A. 25 April 2011: Giiiiiiirl we are in the same boat!!! I'm also 17 and my bf is a lot older...not 60, but 47. If you seriously love him then say so. See what happens. Hey you never know!!! Take the risk.... (read in full...)
Can I win him back? Or should I not try? My ex flirts more with me than his Gf
Q. My best friend is also my ex boyfriend and we are still in love with each other. He has a girlfriend, but he sees, talks, and flirts with me more than her. As a matter of fact, they NEVER see each other... well, today I told her that I think I ...
A. 25 April 2011: Why did you break up in the first place?
But if this guy isn't being loyal to his current GF, that isnt a good sign. For all you know, if you go back to him, that could be you.... (read in full...)
He says he's too lazy to love me any more. Is this real or is it his depression talking?
Q. What does it mean when you get dumped by your depressed boyfriend because he doesnt want love or relationships anymore because he's too lazy? Is that even possible? Can someone seriously be too lazy to want love and relationships?...
A. 25 April 2011: Oh dear. Lazy sounds like an excuse of some kind. I'm not even sure what that means to be too "lazy" for a relationship. If he is in depression that is one thing...he may need to help himself before he can love but the term "lazy" doesn't sounds ... (read in full...)
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